April bfp....please!

[jzgrace]

I can't tell if it's open or closed just know that it's low as I don't have to go far till I can fell it and it's hard like the tip of your nose only checked this about half hour ago xx

Have you had any children before? It is different in women that have given birth than it is in a woman who hasn't. Once I know that I could describe it to you better.

 

[Claire92]

Yes I have a 4 year old son x

 

[Claire92]

Which was a natural delivery with a 3rd degree tear x

 

[BabeW]

Fx for you! How many dpo will you be on the 6th?

16dpo...still crampy today I have never had cramps this far out

 

[jzgrace]

Ok so when you touch the tip of it , it kinda feels like a slit. Which is the opening, if it is closed you can really only get an idea that there is a slit there no amount of your finger will be able to enter it. But if it is open (for ovulation) the very tip will be able to kinda fit in between the slit. It is never a good idea to push your finger in or force it in just feel around. And your hands should be washed prior to checking cp/cervical position. During AF the opening will be bigger than that opening at ovulation to allow the flow of period. It will take a little while of checking your cp before you get to know how your cervix reacts at different times through out your cycle. Women who have had children typically have a lower lying cervix/uterus than that of a woman who hasn't. And the opening in women with children is more of a slit than a circle,like that of a woman who has never given birth.

 

[jzgrace]

I've been so selfish in this chat what's your plans are you ttc at the moment and if so how are you getting on xx

No big deal. I love to help peoplle if I can! My first month TTC and I am 2dpo/days past ovulation. I'm getting married in July so if I don't get bfp I will wait til after the wedding. I'm pretty much just going by cp/cmucus to predict O/ovulation. I DTD the two days before O and the day of. Some I'm hoping it was enough. Not sure when I'm gonna test. I would poas/pee on a stick right now but I know it would be a waste of time. Lol I'm excited just as you are! You are closer though so I can share in your excitement! Yay!

 

[Claire92]

Hope you get bfp this month also then .. Will post results tommorow morning thanks again here's hoping fingers crossed xxx

 

[jzgrace]

Have you been crampy since O? Cause I have too! I don't usually get cramps until an hour or so before AF.

 

[Claire92]

Funny your asking that because I usually get crampy a few days before af and I've not had cramps but I'm starting to feel crampy now but not the same as af cramps if you know what I mean got real gut feeling af is gonna show her face tho 😖sad face xx

 

[jzgrace]

Aww, don't think that way yet! It could be implantation. Thats when the fertilized egg implants into the wall of the uterus. A lot of people get implantation cramping. You are not out yet!!

 

[Mommylion]

Hi Yellowduck! I'm new here, We are due to test April 4th. I've got my fingers crossed for everyone! This will be our second little and we are trying to keep it light hearted. It feels good to not be alone!

 

[jzgrace]

Fx for u2 mommylion! Keep us posted on the test! I'm due for AF April 12 I'm so nervous to test don't want to see a bfn.

 

[Shey]

When I was pregnant with my son I didn't get a positive one til I was 3 months prego with him. I took like 7 tests before getting a positive. Now he's going to be 6 yrs old in July.

Fx for u2 mommylion! Keep us posted on the test! I'm due for AF April 12 I'm so nervous to test don't want to see a bfn.

 

[jzgrace]

Oh wow! A 12ww! Nuts! I just need to relax and go with it! Thank you!

 

[jzgrace]

Did your doctor tell you why so late?

 

[darkriver]

I am here again. not sure when I am due so were doing it every couple of days incase.

 

[jzgrace]

Sounds like a good schedule. I'm 2dpo not sure when I'm testing. Fx for you!

 

[yellowduck]

Hi Yellowduck! I'm new here, We are due to test April 4th. I've got my fingers crossed for everyone! This will be our second little and we are trying to keep it light hearted. It feels good to not be alone!

Hi mommylion, not long until testing for you then, good luck

 

[Claire92]

Update for you ladies still no af and another bfn with first morning urine what is going on so stressed ... 😖

 

[Mummy to be x]

Update for you ladies still no af and another bfn with first morning urine what is going on so stressed ... 😖

Argh! how long have you been waiting for AF ? Test again in a few days I'd say