April mummies baby club :-)

[mz_jackie86]

OH OH OH Arianna is 1 month today woop woop xx

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Hey ladies!!

Jac - Hugs.. I hope Arianna lets you have a nice afternoon nap!!

Sarah - I know what you mean about the weather, I'm sick of looking out the window and seeing rain and more rain!! Seeing the same four walls is sooo depressing and I can already feel myself getting ill so I don't fancy walking out in it

Dana - Miss you soo much! Bless ya still having a rough time! Don't worry about keeping the house ultra clean.. everyone needs to understand how time consuming babies are!!

Han - Go you having sex!!! I did a little dance for ya when I saw that haha

I've still not took the plunge and had sex.. I will probably try after my 6 week check up if I get the all clear.. my 3rd degree tear has healed really well so I just have to pick up the courage to do it!

Having an oversupply of milk is a complete and utter b*tch!! Amelia is having too much fore milk from me which is causing her to have really bad stomach ache and after a while she just refuses to feed, but she is still hungry so she refuses to settle and she just cries and cries.

It is a vicious circle and I can't wait for my supply to calm down.. I went through 2 bras and 2 pjs tops last night because I leak that much!

And now she is awake so I need to try and get her to feed.. I'm so scared she is going to have lost weight again and the HV will be a complete b*tch about it!!

xXx

P.s... Does anyone else feel completely slummy? I hate hardly having any clothes that fit and I feel huge and f-ugly! And my hair needs doing and I hate being overweight! Blugh!!

 

[chel27]

hi girlies...nice to see a few of you have been on here

hanny i know what you mean the first time i had sex and even now...it hurts and its really tight not that i was a bucket down there but i mean its REALLY tight so my OH has had to stop a few times...maybe when they stitched us up during the op they also sewed up our fannys

dana its lovely to see you on here hun...sorry to hear your having a bbit of a rough time...give that gorgeous girl a cuddle for me

jackie- hope you have rushed to get that morning after pill

ashy- your not the only one who feels shitty about themselves and the weather is proper depressing...i havnt been out for a walk all last week cos of the weather and it doesnt look like its going to get any better i get pissed off when i cant get out.

sorry my brain is crap but whoever is doing the race for life (if thats what it was) good on you....i couldnt run to the end of the road without needing respiration help

everyone else a big hello xx love you all

 

[jenny_wren]

dana

emily now weighs ....

10lb 4oz

she's in double digits!!
chubby bugger!!

hv came round and thinks
i may have pnd ... im
manic depressive anyways
so that doesn't help

jackie go get some pills
lovey unless you really want
another one that soon!!

bah does anyone else not
actually care when lo cries??
its harsh to say but for some
reason when she cries i dont
get concerned i get more annoyed
i thought i was getting into the
swing of being a mum but im really not
ive got no feelings towards her at all
im getting better ill sit there and
a hug her now but i just dont feel close
she doesn't feel like mine even though
i know she is ... i feel like a right shit mum!


xxx​

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

Awww Jenny!!

I feel the same..
When she cries at first I'm all concerned but when she just carries on and on I want to hide away in a sound proof room!
For me I hate it when she cries because it makes me feel useless and like I'm not doing my job properly..
It makes me feel 1000x worse when other people can stop her crying in 5 seconds..

I'm such a saddo!!

I need to go into town and buy a nursing bra, and the weather has finally started to perk up but I feel like complete and utter rubbish.. last thing I need is to get a frickin cold!!

xXx

 

[jenny_wren]

thanks ashy

i hate when other people
can stop her crying too!
its like everyone else knows
what she wants apart from me


can you not get dan to buy
you one?!?! or your mum?!
save you going out when
you dont feel well?

xx​

 

[MelanieSweets]

dana

emily now weighs ....

10lb 4oz

she's in double digits!!
chubby bugger!!

hv came round and thinks
i may have pnd ... im
manic depressive anyways
so that doesn't help

jackie go get some pills
lovey unless you really want
another one that soon!!

bah does anyone else not
actually care when lo cries??
its harsh to say but for some
reason when she cries i dont
get concerned i get more annoyed
i thought i was getting into the
swing of being a mum but im really not
ive got no feelings towards her at all
im getting better ill sit there and
a hug her now but i just dont feel close
she doesn't feel like mine even though
i know she is ... i feel like a right shit mum!


xxx​

Dont worry hun... i know exactly where you are coming from .... i lose my rag and have to put baby down and walk out the room if i cant figure what is wrong with him ... because i hate it when he cries ...

I didnt feel i had a bond with mine up until about a week ago ... but i do get days where i think I am not sure I can do this ? and yeh you do feel useless, its a strange feeling I thought i had PND ... but i think to be honest i just get bad days and good days x x

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

thanks ashy

i hate when other people
can stop her crying too!
its like everyone else knows
what she wants apart from me


can you not get dan to buy
you one?!?! or your mum?!
save you going out when
you dont feel well?

xx​

I need to get measured
In the past few days they have got even fricking bigger!
I swear they are now bigger than my head..
Well maybe not quite but close enough!
I can guarantee they are at least a G now

I could do with having a nap but if I even try she will wake up for food

xXx

 

[kellysays2u]

Hey girlies.

Jenny I didnt feel that I had a bond with Athena till after someone took her for the night and I felt I lost my right arm... I was constantly worrying how she was and thinking she would never want to be with me again. I still get absolutely frustrated when she cries and I cant figure it out. I have to go and calm down then come back.

Ash... can you like transfer some of your supply to my boobs... I am so jealous... I cant even properly feed athena from my boobs... She still takes a full 4 oz bottle afterwards...

How is everyone else?

 

[chel27]

dana

emily now weighs ....

10lb 4oz

she's in double digits!!
chubby bugger!!

hv came round and thinks
i may have pnd ... im
manic depressive anyways
so that doesn't help

jackie go get some pills
lovey unless you really want
another one that soon!!

bah does anyone else not
actually care when lo cries??
its harsh to say but for some
reason when she cries i dont
get concerned i get more annoyed
i thought i was getting into the
swing of being a mum but im really not
ive got no feelings towards her at all
im getting better ill sit there and
a hug her now but i just dont feel close
she doesn't feel like mine even though
i know she is ... i feel like a right shit mum!


xxx​

awww jenny
you are NOT a shit mummy, emily is lucky to have such a great mummy
yes everything your feeling is normal hun..we all get times when we feel like that towards our Lo's.
i myself get days where i just dont want to know and want to hide when amy is stirring....we are all human and have off days.
do you get enough help from your OH?
go and pamper yourself...have a bit of ME time and make yourself feel better.....if not you can always PM me hun...im here to talk anytime.

 

[HannahGraceee]

girlies!! x

 

[chel27]

hi hanny

 

[jenny_wren]

thanks chel

xx​

 

[mz_jackie86]

awww jenny i felt like that today.....arianna still hasnt slept since 5am!!!
gt the pill but we did it on friday so fingers crossed its still effective! xx

 

[chel27]

awww jenny i felt like that today.....arianna still hasnt slept since 5am!!!
gt the pill but we did it on friday so fingers crossed its still effective! xx

the pill is effective for upto 72 hours i hope all will be ok hun

 

[PuffinMuffin]

ello ladies!
where have the last three weeks gone? Its only after coming back on here today after a couple of weeks away that i suddenly really miss being in labour!! LMAO how wrong is that? I think I quite enjoyed the excitement that surrounded it hehe.
And now three weeks have gone by I need to do something about the post prego body, my first goal is 14lb, lots more to come off after that but 14lb to start with!! lol.
xxx

 

[Shinning_Star]

It's ok gals it's abs normal, and it's also abs normal for them to settle for anyone else as they smell different and often aren't tense cos the other person doesn't have to worry why the babies crying.

Honestly babies feed off your emotions so best thing you can do is walk out and leave them until your a bit calmer, and not so stressed worried and judgemental on yourself.

Im going out tonight to do my first lot of jogging, I'm just really worried I'll look like a stupid fat pleb wobbling along the street.

 

[danapeter36]

Jen -Peter suffers with depression so I know how you feel, hes been treated for it before. I love you girlie, sending you hugs.

Ashy - I need to get measured too and I've missed you!!!

Chel - Loving your Amy pics on fb I showed Alayna haha. I said 'Thats the lil baby youll meet soon hehe'

Hi to everyone else!!!

 

[mama2b]

omg it sounds like we are all on the verge of breakdowns !

I am proper stressed today I have got really bad cold/flu and Lucas has been awake all day if he doesn't want feeding he wants his dummy which he then spits out as soon as Ive left room, this carrys on for ages me putting it back in him spitting it out, so i leave him to cry for a bit.................big mistake as then when i go to him he is in such a state not even the dummy works.

I fed him at 6pm with a bottle of expressed milk hoping if i tanked him up he'd sleep, but no he decided to projectile vomit over himself, me and the old sofa (which is being sold!) and he is still bloody awake !!

You can bet your life that as soon as oh walks through door at 9pm he will drop off to sleep then oh will ask me why the house is a mess (As if ive been sat around all day) I haven't even been able to sleep which is what i desperately need cuz i feel so shit.

Big hugs to everyone else xx

 

[QueenMummyToBe]

omg it sounds like we are all on the verge of breakdowns !

I am proper stressed today I have got really bad cold/flu and Lucas has been awake all day if he doesn't want feeding he wants his dummy which he then spits out as soon as Ive left room, this carrys on for ages me putting it back in him spitting it out, so i leave him to cry for a bit.................big mistake as then when i go to him he is in such a state not even the dummy works.

I fed him at 6pm with a bottle of expressed milk hoping if i tanked him up he'd sleep, but no he decided to projectile vomit over himself, me and the old sofa (which is being sold!) and he is still bloody awake !!

You can bet your life that as soon as oh walks through door at 9pm he will drop off to sleep then oh will ask me why the house is a mess (As if ive been sat around all day) I haven't even been able to sleep which is what i desperately need cuz i feel so shit.

Big hugs to everyone else xx

Aww Hun

Amelia has been the same, but because she has only been latching on a few days I don't want to give her a dummy so I've had to hold her 90% of the day and half the time she is still screaming!

Every time my OH comes through the door she is screaming it makes me feel like an awful mummy!

I think I have a wisdom tooth coming through and that is why I feel so rubbish at the moment... totally the last thing I need!!

xXx