April mummies baby club :-)

Wellllll...

Got the all clear from the hospital so I can have sex.. I'm nervous :rofl:

Didn't have time to go buy supplies though because HV came round for Amelias 6 week check up.

Once again Amelia has lost weight so she is now 9lb 3oz! .. 6 weeks old and still not over her birth weight!

I've been told I need to express my fore milk so Amelia just gets the hind milk..

Why is nothing ever simple?!?! :hissy:

xXx
 
ash what was she born? surely your milk is fine, whatever she's taking? hmmm, she weighs the same as my LO at mo, so she's not underweight as such hun :hugs:

yey chel - panic over

han - don't beat yourself up, the weight will come off, kep waking lots as well as your WW

dAna - 2 hrly? awww :hugs:

mellly - hope your getting oni ok winth graham out of work, need to go find wedding ethread!

melanie & lyndsey - just smell haha you two lol!

jenny - who on earth is giving away condoms lol?

wb pink cabbage!! sorry anyone else - i did well this time!

the weather has been fantastic last 2 days! Layla is iffy about it though bless her! She slept from 9pm last few nights too instead of 11pm - result! have started massaging her with johnsons bedtime lotion every night, bath every other, pj's on, bottle and dim lights! seems to be sorting her out earlier. i an't complaining at 9.30-5.30 :happydance:
 
go to the freebies room and search free condoms
her names honey08 or something along those lines :D
you only need to pay her the pnp :D
so im sending her a fiver and getting loads in return!!
BARGAIN!!
:happydance:

oooooo im up for a reading trip!
dont invite me or anything lol
:rofl:

xx​
 
I want to go on a shopping trip too!!!!
Don't like being up here all by myself :blush:

Sammie - Amelia was 9lb 5oz when she was born.. according to the HV she is getting too much fore milk and not enough fatty hind milk.

Because it is hot today she has been feeding like every hour! And when OH tried to give her a bottle she wouldn't take it at all.. I'm blooming shattered!

Hanny - that is why I'm not buying clothes yet.. I could guarantee half of what I try on wouldn't fit me and then I would feel like complete and utter sh*t!

I am so envious of everyone that manages to fit into their pre preg clothes after just a few weeks! :hissy:

I feel huge and horrid and I can't talk to anyone in real life because they have a huge go at me and tell me I'm being stupid :cry:

xXx
 
hi girls :happydance: todays weather has been beautifull...we attempted twice to go for walk but both times Amy decided to scream :rofl: i have forgot what its like with a newborn.....:rofl: my son has gone to his nans for weekend so its really quiet here now!!! :cry:

OMG all you lot talking about WW and theres me stuffing my face with everything in sight :cry: i knew i should of started smoking again...i dont eat much when i smoke...

hanny i know what you mean about clothes...i done this to and had to take mine all back and get some bigger sizes!!! :cry:

we have just re ordered shy tv again and have got a sky box to go in michaels room...he is well chuffed bless him..he said he can now watch ben 10 in peace :rofl:

baby amy is getitng her skin tag removed on tuesday and im sooooo scared but excited if that makes any sense xx

how are you all?

picture of my gorgeous girl in her summer dress xx shes huge now lol x
 

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Aww chel amy is so cute. Getting to be such a big girl...

Sorry I havent been on a lot girls... Been in and out of doctors office and the hospital with both athena and myself. Luckily its finally slowing down and the only things coming up are my 6 week check up where hopefully they dont tell me I am pregnant again (long story will tell in a bit) and Athenas Upper GI track test to see if she has any more signifigant problems besides just regular reflux....

So I got a question... When did you all get your period after giving birth... well if you have... I am only partially breastfeeding so that probably makes a difference... But OH and I had a condom fall off during sex and didnt notice. He pulled out but I am still shitting myself... It was like... 2 weeks ago or so... I am just shitting myself I CANT be pregnant... What should I do girls?

Also hunter and I havent been doing the best relationship wise.... My ex is coming up from his military base in texas on the 10th and we are hanging out... I am worried about how that is going to go... I mean I love hunter but he has been making me miserable lately and my ex makes me feel special still... I wish you all could remind me why I am with hunter... I need that sometimes... I know hes just like this cause of the newbaby and the sleep loss but still...
 
Hey there everyone hehehe.
Hahaha No No No Allan and I are not looking to have another baby just yet. we are going to start trying again when Layla is about 2 1/5 i think... That is enough of a age gap for me :) I want enough time to recover and have enough time to forget the labour hehehe.

I know what you all mean.. i wanna loose more weight. I already weigh less than when i did when i fell pregnant but i am fabby (well my bely still is :( ) So i need to loose some more weight. I also need to go shopping for some winter clothes (it is getting so cold here) So next weekend Layla and I are going on a shopping spree. She needs winter clothes (all the ones we have for her are too small hehe) and mine dont fit me either (again too small) heheheheh :D

How is everyone???
 
Hey ladies

Had a right rubbish night last night.. Amelia decided to wake and want feeding on and off from..

1.30 - 2.30 .. then she wouldn't settle in her moses basket only on me!

Then 4.30 - 5.30 on and off feeding again

And then 7.55 - 9 on and off feeding again!

I feel like I got no sleep what so ever!

The sun is out once again.. every year I love summer but this year I'm just dreading it.. at least in winter if you have extra weight you are layered up and no one really notices.. In summer it is too hot to wear millions of layers :hissy:

I've made myself feel sh*tty by measuring myself.. I have 5 inches to lose off my hips to be back to normal. :cry:

Kelly - :hugs: to you.. If things are a bit rubbish at the moment then talk to Hunter, talking might make him realise he is acting funny. OH and I had our first evening away from Amelia last week and it was nice, we felt like a couple again instead of parents (if you get what I mean) saying that the next day we still managed to have arguments :rofl:

Mandy - :hi: I still think it is sooo weird that it is winter for you as it is summer for us!! Hope you are okay!!

Chel - Amy is sooooo blooming cute!! :cloud9:

xXx
 
Hello everyone, awww its baking again today and i dont know what to wear at all .... :hissy: i look like a elephant in everything!

I forgot to ask anyone who never got any stretchmarks during pregnancy did you get some after??

where my tummy has gone down i have a few ... very bizarre !

Bubba slept from 9-5am last night wooohooo then 6-9am ..god I hope this continues :)

How are you all??
 
Hello everyone, awww its baking again today and i dont know what to wear at all .... :hissy: i look like a elephant in everything!

I forgot to ask anyone who never got any stretchmarks during pregnancy did you get some after??

where my tummy has gone down i have a few ... very bizarre !

Bubba slept from 9-5am last night wooohooo then 6-9am ..god I hope this continues :)

How are you all??

Ooo I'm jealous!.. I think Amelia had a rubbish night because it was so hot! I hope we don't have a repeat performance of last night because OH is poorly so I'm doing everything!!

Melanie I bet you don't look like an elephant!!! :hugs::hugs:

xXx
 
Amelia is proberly just having a growth spur, ava was the same last week :( its tough but it doesnt last forever x x
 
hi girls :happydance: todays weather has been beautifull...we attempted twice to go for walk but both times Amy decided to scream :rofl: i have forgot what its like with a newborn.....:rofl: my son has gone to his nans for weekend so its really quiet here now!!! :cry:

OMG all you lot talking about WW and theres me stuffing my face with everything in sight :cry: i knew i should of started smoking again...i dont eat much when i smoke...

hanny i know what you mean about clothes...i done this to and had to take mine all back and get some bigger sizes!!! :cry:

we have just re ordered shy tv again and have got a sky box to go in michaels room...he is well chuffed bless him..he said he can now watch ben 10 in peace :rofl:

baby amy is getitng her skin tag removed on tuesday and im sooooo scared but excited if that makes any sense xx

how are you all?

picture of my gorgeous girl in her summer dress xx shes huge now lol x

dont you dare start smoking again!! you have done so well :)

ive never even noticed amys skin tag before, shes still beautiful none the less, she looks so much like her daddy
 
She has been feeding all the time since last Saturday.. apart from on Thursday when she decided to sleep for most of the day!

I thought growth spurts lasted a few days not a blooming week! Grr!

Babies can be so odd at times :muaha:

I think we are off to the seaside later.. looking forward to Amelias first trip to the beach.. not looking forward to finding something to wear that isn't jeans!

xXx
 
Hello everyone, awww its baking again today and i dont know what to wear at all .... :hissy: i look like a elephant in everything!

I forgot to ask anyone who never got any stretchmarks during pregnancy did you get some after??

where my tummy has gone down i have a few ... very bizarre !

Bubba slept from 9-5am last night wooohooo then 6-9am ..god I hope this continues :)

How are you all??

Ooo I'm jealous!.. I think Amelia had a rubbish night because it was so hot! I hope we don't have a repeat performance of last night because OH is poorly so I'm doing everything!!

Melanie I bet you don't look like an elephant!!! :hugs::hugs:

xXx

Awwww dont jeolous huni :hugs: like i keep saying it prob wont last forever xx oh whats wrong with your OH hun??x

I do everything anyway your so lucky :hissy: xx i think cause OH is the breadwinner and I am at home all day he expects me to do everything .... but i am doing everything 24 hours a day 7days a week atleast he gets his two days off! grrr ... i am ranting i know! xx

Yes elephant i am .... i have these arms that are huge so i am concious wearing no sleeve tops ..... arghhhh!! major dieting commences next week! x
 
Aww huni :hugs:

I'm exactly the same.. I try and wear cardigans at all times.. Especially long cardis because they cover my HUGE hips!

OH is coming down with a cold/man flu.. Last night he was feeling really rubbish and every time Amelia woke up crying he would huff and roll over in bed.. It made me feel so rubbish and guilty.. but when I told him that he said I always feel guilty.. which is true.. I always think everything is all my fault because peoples actions make it feel that way!

Does anyone else feel like they have completely lost their personality? .. I don't feel like me what so ever.. I feel like this horrid miserable old bag.. Everyday I get more and more down about the way I look and no one understands!! :cry:

xXx
 
Hun you sound exactly how I have been feeling, i feel guilty too cause OH has been working so hard and i try and let him lay in on his days off but bubba wakes up grunting or crying and he puts his head under the covers, i dont think they seem to realise how tiring it is looking after bubba 24/7 its hard bloody work, and we are rowing quite often mainly cause we never have much time for each other and when he wants too cuddle or spend time with me i fall asleep, its very difficult!

I feel crap about myself too ... i dont think i will feel myself and get my full confidence back until i have lost weight to be honest so hun ur not alone x :hugs:
 
Ashy and Melanie - i know EXACTLY what you mean.. No i dont feel like me.. i dont know where Me has gone???? It is weird.... I feel like someone completely different and just not me lol.. i dont like the way i look anymore.. my tummy is fabby and yucky and i just wanna be able to sleep a full night through and not have to worry about getting up :( It sucks..... But than i look at Layla and it all goes away.... it is weird.

How is everyone???
 

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