Its so true that boards like this totally skew the statistics negatively. For the most part, women who don't take more than a couple months to conceive and don't experience a miscarriage have no need to join a forum like this. They may join to ask a couple specific questions but don't often hang around. And those who do also don't chime in "I've never had a miscarriage" on threads asking who has had more than 1 second trimester loss, and you're only going to get women who have, and it will totally make it look like a common occurrence (that said I do know a woman from my june bugs forum who has had 4 in a row, but that's extremely rare)
Anyway no I've not been shopping yet - I don't really have all that much to buy anyway being my third child. I plan to make more newborn nappies and I want to decorate some sleepers and onesies etc, ad I'm going to make a ring sling, but don't really need to shop for much of anything. Babies room with us until 18 months or so, and the cot is still set up as its basically just become part of our bed now, and our capsule has another kid's use out of it. We have tubs full of baby clothes etc so ya not much we need anyway.