Cycle Buddy Wanted *UPDATE* Cycle 2 CD Oct 20 (Cycle 1 Cd1 22 Sept)
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Gabrielle
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Morning girls..how is everyone...? Im doing ok..if you look at my temps which i've been taking good that last three days...theres no way i o'd on sunday or monday...what is going on? am i ever going to ovulate? im so fustrated and im tried of bding all the time and i think hubby is too...not like we dont like it but we seem we HAVE to do it and we only had time the last couple of mornings before he went to work and idk its just annnoying! Could i have o'd and my temps be off...i STILL have ewcm since sunday!!! doesnt it go away after you o? my temps are going really low..could it be time now..(that im oing)
Sorry for all the ?'s just really fustrated!!!
hope you all are getting your symptoms now!!!!! Miss you girls!
Sorry for all the ?'s just really fustrated!!!
hope you all are getting your symptoms now!!!!! Miss you girls!
Gabs are your cycles pretty regular, always 28 days? If not, then you might O at a later date than usually and with the dip on your chart it might mean that it may be starting especially since you have the EWCM. I know that bding all the time can't be much fun at this point, but I would give it a few more days and see if your temps go up over the next three days. Temps aren't usually wrong about the rise after Oing and the secondary sign of EWCM is a good sign too. Also I know it's easier said than done but don't stress, you will O and you will catch the egg!!!
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Jai-Jai, it definitely looks to me like you ovulated and your temps are nice and high which is excellent.
Gabby, I hear you on the two much bding can kill the romance thing, but if I were to read your temps I would guess it is going to go up tomorrow, perhaps not ski high but considerably higher than were it is, if this is the case then you will have ovulated today.
If you can bd tonight or tomorrow morning, I would then say your job is done 150%.
Do you get ovulation pain? If you normally do, have you had any today or any other day?
I was almost paralysed with ovulation pain on Tuesday.
Anyone else got some news, 1stBaby, MsTwiggy, Nlytin???
Gabby, I hear you on the two much bding can kill the romance thing, but if I were to read your temps I would guess it is going to go up tomorrow, perhaps not ski high but considerably higher than were it is, if this is the case then you will have ovulated today.
If you can bd tonight or tomorrow morning, I would then say your job is done 150%.
Do you get ovulation pain? If you normally do, have you had any today or any other day?
I was almost paralysed with ovulation pain on Tuesday.
Anyone else got some news, 1stBaby, MsTwiggy, Nlytin???
Hi Debs, didn't get a chance to bd last night but told OH every day for the next 6 days and said "Absolutely!" We were both so exhausted last night I could barely keep my eyes open. I haven't O'd yet and my ticker says in three days so we will see. I'm going CM hasn't really changed yet so hopoing it does and I will O in 3 days and then I can enter the 2WW with the rest of you girls.
Debs, when will you take an HPT?
Debs, when will you take an HPT?
Gabrielle
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Thanks girls for all the advice...!
It seems like the ewcm is slowing down..i think hope anyway! We wont be able to bd tonight but we did this am..is that good enough?? Also yes Debs i did have O pain on Monday that was soooo painful..i thought something was wrong. SO maybe that was just the egg getting ready? i have a few twinges on the left side again..and some cramps...hopefully O today! and i will bd tomorrow afternoon!!! THanks girls!
Nytlin keep the bding going and get that eggy!!
Debs..how are you feeling hun? Does that injection of hcg make you sick??
Jai jai..its looks wonderful for you!
Everyone else..how ya'll doing??
It seems like the ewcm is slowing down..i think hope anyway! We wont be able to bd tonight but we did this am..is that good enough?? Also yes Debs i did have O pain on Monday that was soooo painful..i thought something was wrong. SO maybe that was just the egg getting ready? i have a few twinges on the left side again..and some cramps...hopefully O today! and i will bd tomorrow afternoon!!! THanks girls!
Nytlin keep the bding going and get that eggy!!
Debs..how are you feeling hun? Does that injection of hcg make you sick??
Jai jai..its looks wonderful for you!
Everyone else..how ya'll doing??
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Well I have not ov yet so I am kinda worried but we will c how things turn out. i know I am going to today or tomorrow because I am having horrible cramps and my boobs are sore. plus I got another pos opk this morning and it was so much darker than the control line i could barely see the control line. I only had four pos last month so i am hoping for a neg tomorrow. i know how you feel gab about the bding. I am just tired now, over the weekend was fun and then monday and even tues but last night I was just tired and now we are going to tonight and tomorrow still. I just want to relax and it be done! If I dont get pg this month I am going to go to the dr to get on progerstrone to make my lp longer since my cycles are always 28 days and since i ov so late my lp is only 7 to 9 days.
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Nlytin, good luck with the bding, I hope you are able to keep it fun.
I am going to take an HPT tomorrow and for the next few days because my injection on Sunday night that the FS gave me ws HCG so I need to see the positive line dissappear. A new friend of mine Arcanegirl said she did this, she tracked her HPT down to a neg and then watched her true positive start to show around 8DPO as a very faint line.
I have never had a very strong +HPT so will be curious to see what the test looks like tomorrow, I don't think our test are nearly as good as the one in the UK or the USA.
Gabby I think if you bd this morning you can relax and put your feet up and enjoy the tww. PS: The HCG injection didn't make me feel sick but it was f****ing sore!!!!!
1stbaby, just a thought but if you have a short LP you should probably be put straight onto progesterone from the moment you fall pregnant.
The reason for this is that a short LP cycle could mean your corpus lutium doesn't produce as much progesterone as a normal cycle and the progesterone is what helps thicken up the lining so the egg has something nice to settle to embed in.
The reason I know this is because this is the very reason why my FS has put me on progesterone now for the next 12 weeks (if I am pregnant or up until we know I a not).
My ovulation was induced 24 hours earlier than it would have been and although it is just such a short time, it could mean that my body may not produce as much progesterone because the egg was missing one whole day of developing this outer layer called the corpus lutium.
I am no fertility specialist and I am only repeating what I understood from what the dude told me, but I think it is worth you having a chat with your doc or FS and hearing what they have to say, it really made sense to me.
I am going to take an HPT tomorrow and for the next few days because my injection on Sunday night that the FS gave me ws HCG so I need to see the positive line dissappear. A new friend of mine Arcanegirl said she did this, she tracked her HPT down to a neg and then watched her true positive start to show around 8DPO as a very faint line.
I have never had a very strong +HPT so will be curious to see what the test looks like tomorrow, I don't think our test are nearly as good as the one in the UK or the USA.
Gabby I think if you bd this morning you can relax and put your feet up and enjoy the tww. PS: The HCG injection didn't make me feel sick but it was f****ing sore!!!!!
1stbaby, just a thought but if you have a short LP you should probably be put straight onto progesterone from the moment you fall pregnant.
The reason for this is that a short LP cycle could mean your corpus lutium doesn't produce as much progesterone as a normal cycle and the progesterone is what helps thicken up the lining so the egg has something nice to settle to embed in.
The reason I know this is because this is the very reason why my FS has put me on progesterone now for the next 12 weeks (if I am pregnant or up until we know I a not).
My ovulation was induced 24 hours earlier than it would have been and although it is just such a short time, it could mean that my body may not produce as much progesterone because the egg was missing one whole day of developing this outer layer called the corpus lutium.
I am no fertility specialist and I am only repeating what I understood from what the dude told me, but I think it is worth you having a chat with your doc or FS and hearing what they have to say, it really made sense to me.
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Debs - gd luck with ur HPT I am so excited for you!!! can't wait for the result!!!! 
Gabs - I have no idea what is going on sorry
but I would think in my opinion that you OV'd yday and that the twinges are prob the eggy moving down the fallopian tube??
My gosh before I went to my Tap class I just had loads of EWCM what does this mean?? I have never had this after OV before??? I am soooo confuzzled!!!
Gabs - I have no idea what is going on sorry
but I would think in my opinion that you OV'd yday and that the twinges are prob the eggy moving down the fallopian tube??My gosh before I went to my Tap class I just had loads of EWCM what does this mean?? I have never had this after OV before??? I am soooo confuzzled!!!
where is everyone i feel lonely!!!
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I am here.
Debs- Yeah I know what you are saying makes since to me. I understand the whole not having enough time for the eggy to implaint which is why if I dont get pg this time and my lp is short i will go to the dr. If I am pg I will go to the dr as soon as I get a pos and ask about the progestrone then as well! I think that the reason its becoming harder is the short lp though. So I hope I ov today or else i should call and make that appointment. I will be so bummed out if I dont ov by tonight. But I am so excited for everyone else! And who knows maybe i will have some luck and catch the eggy anyway.
Debs- Yeah I know what you are saying makes since to me. I understand the whole not having enough time for the eggy to implaint which is why if I dont get pg this time and my lp is short i will go to the dr. If I am pg I will go to the dr as soon as I get a pos and ask about the progestrone then as well! I think that the reason its becoming harder is the short lp though. So I hope I ov today or else i should call and make that appointment. I will be so bummed out if I dont ov by tonight. But I am so excited for everyone else! And who knows maybe i will have some luck and catch the eggy anyway.
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hello ladies!! (good morning if you're on my side of the planet 
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whoa.. seems like quite a bit of confusion going on but I hope everyone is still doing ok.
i'm doing quite alright so far but deadbeat tired as there's so much to do at work. yesterday night, DH was all in the mood for some and I said ok, but while he was in the bathroom, i layed my head down and the next thing i know, it's morning!!! oh dear oh dear, LOL! thank god he didnt kick up a fuss. but we had been BDing every other day this cycle so I hope that one of his swimmers would have caught the eggy.
if we go by my ticker, i would have OVed on Wednesday, but I honestly believe I'm already in the 2ww since i got a +ve OPK on Saturday, and a -ve on Monday. So far, no symptoms whatsoever just yet, except that I am eating, A LOT.
Keep in touch ladies, I put in a little prayer for Team Jelly Bellies every single day that we get a
)whoa.. seems like quite a bit of confusion going on but I hope everyone is still doing ok.
i'm doing quite alright so far but deadbeat tired as there's so much to do at work. yesterday night, DH was all in the mood for some and I said ok, but while he was in the bathroom, i layed my head down and the next thing i know, it's morning!!! oh dear oh dear, LOL! thank god he didnt kick up a fuss. but we had been BDing every other day this cycle so I hope that one of his swimmers would have caught the eggy.
if we go by my ticker, i would have OVed on Wednesday, but I honestly believe I'm already in the 2ww since i got a +ve OPK on Saturday, and a -ve on Monday. So far, no symptoms whatsoever just yet, except that I am eating, A LOT.
Keep in touch ladies, I put in a little prayer for Team Jelly Bellies every single day that we get a
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aww i hope we all do too! well you didnt miss anything really just that i have a short lp and sometimes this makes it harder for women to get pg. its usually called lpd (d- defect) which makes women need more progestrone to keep an eggy. in most cases (there are some rare women who manage to get pg with short lp) you need at least 10 days in your lp for the eggy to implaint. last month my cycle was 27 days, i ov on cd 20 and af came cd 28 which made lp only 7 days!! this month i got a pos opk on cd 15 and every day since then and today is cd 18. last month i only got 4 pos in a row so i am hoping today is my last one otherwise i will be so upset tomorrow. if i ov today then i may still be in the running making my lp 9 or 10 days. by the looks of things i will ov today or already have though. i hope i hope! or else i will be on here ttc next month but I will have some progestrone medicine to help me!!!!
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Morning ladies.
WEll if you take a look at my chart my temp didnt do what i wanted it to do!...it went even lower!!! its 97.1 and i got sleep and took it at the right time! WHAT is going on...did i O and just not have a temp change? i reallly want to get a cd21 test but my ob doesnt know im trying! Would any doctor whose seen me in the past do it? like at a different clinic? I am so upset i started crying when i saw the temp!!!!!...also my cm is pretty much just creamy now, no ewcm..and cp is closed! Please help ...im so upset!
Sorry girls!
HOpe your all doing good!!!!
HUGS
WEll if you take a look at my chart my temp didnt do what i wanted it to do!...it went even lower!!! its 97.1 and i got sleep and took it at the right time! WHAT is going on...did i O and just not have a temp change? i reallly want to get a cd21 test but my ob doesnt know im trying! Would any doctor whose seen me in the past do it? like at a different clinic? I am so upset i started crying when i saw the temp!!!!!...also my cm is pretty much just creamy now, no ewcm..and cp is closed! Please help ...im so upset!
Sorry girls!
HOpe your all doing good!!!!
HUGS
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gab- I know how you feel! I am so annoyed with this cycle as well! FF says I ov 3 days ago! I dont believe it! My temp last month had to go over 98 to be in the lP! I just dont think i have ov yet! All i can do is wait until tomorrow to see if my temp goes up and i get a neg opk. It was pos today again!!!! AHHH I am so annoyed. O well we have been bding to cover every day so we will c.
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I would rely on the temp more than I would the OPK. Don't stress as long as you've been bding and you should be fine.
