TigerLady
CaveTiger Clan Mama
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I started tracking all sorts of stuff from c1 after coming off bcp. This is now c6. It's nice knowing when you o... and that you DID o for sure. I try very hard not to plan the BD. I'm too afraid that if this takes a long time, BDing will become a job and no fun. I know that has happened to a lot of ppl. So, I only make SURE we BD for 3-4 days in a row at O time, aiming for starting 1 day before.
I've already noticed that for those few days, BD has the very early tinges of being a job or chore. That worries me. Soo...
Other than that I just try to keep it like sex was pre-BD -- when the mood is there, go for it. Thankfully, we have never had a problem with dry spells and end up BDing more days than not, anyway. hehe
Here's hoping this month is our month!
I've already noticed that for those few days, BD has the very early tinges of being a job or chore. That worries me. Soo...
Other than that I just try to keep it like sex was pre-BD -- when the mood is there, go for it. Thankfully, we have never had a problem with dry spells and end up BDing more days than not, anyway. hehe
Here's hoping this month is our month!