December Snowflakes 2015! Come join me 74 ladies, 10 angels, two sets of twins!

[indhira2]

Congrats on everyone finding out the gender of their bubs! I find out in 2 weeks and cannot WAIT!!!!! It's going to be hubby's birthday gift, gonna surprise him during his birthday party with a pink or blue teddy and say "(Babys name) couldnt make it but wanted to make sure his/her daddy still got a birthday gift on his/her behalf"

Only a few more weeks until the half-way mark ladies!!!

 

[mysteriouseye]

Hehehe Luna_19 I think you forgot some of us from the group still check this page =S ..each to their own I guess =S

 

[dunibaby]

Hi ladies, I have not been on in a while but am happy to report that I am 12 weeks today and that we that we are having a girl!!! I am so excited and nervous at the same time!
Also saw a specialist today and he confirmed that the cyst on my right ovary needs to be removed, it has grown over 3cm in the last 3 months. So I will be having outpatient surgery on 7/10 to remove a 10cm dermoid cyst and possible my right ovary. My doc and the specialist have all advised that having the surgery around 15 weeks is the best time for me and the baby and that if we leave the cyst the complications that may develop could be worse for me and my baby girl. So I am going to trust my doc and specialist and have it removed at 15 weeks. accepting prayers all year long.. =)

 

[Ameli]

Hehehe Luna_19 I think you forgot some of us from the group still check this page =S ..each to their own I guess =S

The way I read it, she was talking about a previous group from her first pregnancy. Not this group's fb group.

 

[Kallie3000]

Hi ladies, I have not been on in a while but am happy to report that I am 12 weeks today and that we that we are having a girl!!! I am so excited and nervous at the same time!
Also saw a specialist today and he confirmed that the cyst on my right ovary needs to be removed, it has grown over 3cm in the last 3 months. So I will be having outpatient surgery on 7/10 to remove a 10cm dermoid cyst and possible my right ovary. My doc and the specialist have all advised that having the surgery around 15 weeks is the best time for me and the baby and that if we leave the cyst the complications that may develop could be worse for me and my baby girl. So I am going to trust my doc and specialist and have it removed at 15 weeks. accepting prayers all year long.. =)

That's scary! Sending you healthy thoughts, and all the best!

 

[justplay91]

Congratulations, Dunibaby! Best wishes with the cyst removal.
Looks like we're at 5 boys, and 3 girls so far! Bring on the gender scans!

 

[luna_19]

Hehehe Luna_19 I think you forgot some of us from the group still check this page =S ..each to their own I guess =S

I was talking about my November 2013 group

 

[2ndtimeAbz]

It's not pregnancy related but thought I'd throw this out there for your amusement.
Today my ex husband (father of my two eldest) messaged me asking if I was all set for fathers day.

what the hell does he expect a Ferrari in the drive?!
(My oh organised cards and a present for mothers day)

I was speechless for a bit lol.

 

[mysteriouseye]

I want to hit myself =P Sorry Luna I can see that please accept my apologies for being a massive twat and not reading the whole thing =) Massive apologies xxx

 

[mysteriouseye]

ahhhh I have completely embarassed myself now I am sorry..I learnt my lesson today read the whole thread before assuming something=) D'oh.... I will go and hide in a corner now =) Again I am so sorry I feel like a complete asshole which serves me right =) I hope you can forgive mexx

 

[luna_19]

I want to hit myself =P Sorry Luna I can see that please accept my apologies for being a massive twat and not reading the whole thing =) Massive apologies xxx

Don't worry

I should elaborate the reason I left was because they tended to be a bunch of complainers which as a former ltttc'er tends to bother me in addition to it becoming a "funny" joke to start each post with guess what? I'M PREGNANT! just kidding. Then someone got pregnant by accident right when we were starting to TTC again so I knew I needed to leave to protect myself in case it was a struggle again (which luckily it was not ) It's amazing how much ltttc can affect someone and stay with them even after a successful pregnancy

 

[mysteriouseye]

your reason for leaving was completely understandable =) There is nothing funny about false pregnancy announcements.. I have always been quite lucky with conceiving but it really does annoy me when people do the fake status annoucements because I find them very insensitive to the people that are trying to conceive and I just generally dont find them funny at all. xxx

 

[Twinmum87]

It's not pregnancy related but thought I'd throw this out there for your amusement.
Today my ex husband (father of my two eldest) messaged me asking if I was all set for fathers day.

what the hell does he expect a Ferrari in the drive?!
(My oh organised cards and a present for mothers day)

I was speechless for a bit lol.

Lol! What a knob! His own partner or mother should sort it. I would never expect anything to be done from my ex and not a chance in hell I am doing anything for him, he is barely classed as an adult, he is only a father thru DNA he has never once acted like one lol!

 

[Twinmum87]

your reason for leaving was completely understandable =) There is nothing funny about false pregnancy announcements.. I have always been quite lucky with conceiving but it really does annoy me when people do the fake status announcements because I find them very insensitive to the people that are trying to conceive and I just generally dont find them funny at all. xxx

It is very insensitive, people seem to do it a lot on April fool's too. :/ I had a few announce as jokes after daft dares going around just after I had a miscarriage and I found it very distressing. It was hard enough dealing with real announcements. (I know that sounds awful as other people conceiving has nothing to do with me and I would never expect anyone to hold back real announcement news to save others feeling or anything like that it's just hard to get past the 'why are they OK and I have to loose mine' thing).

 

[Kallie3000]

your reason for leaving was completely understandable =) There is nothing funny about false pregnancy announcements.. I have always been quite lucky with conceiving but it really does annoy me when people do the fake status announcements because I find them very insensitive to the people that are trying to conceive and I just generally dont find them funny at all. xxx

It is very insensitive, people seem to do it a lot on April fool's too. :/ I had a few announce as jokes after daft dares going around just after I had a miscarriage and I found it very distressing. It was hard enough dealing with real announcements. (I know that sounds awful as other people conceiving has nothing to do with me and I would never expect anyone to hold back real announcement news to save others feeling or anything like that it's just hard to get past the 'why are they OK and I have to loose mine' thing).

Once you've had losses or have been trying to conceive for a long time, those things hurt no matter how selfish it feels. Honestly, I still feel a twinge of upset hearing about pregnancy announcements NOW, and I'm finally pregnant! You'd think I'd get over the feelings of infertility, but it doesn't just work that way so easily.

 

[mysteriouseye]

I can never 100% understand but I have always tried to think of how it would feel to spend a long time trying to conceive a baby and how distressing it would be. I know If I couldnt get pregnant for a long time pregnancy announcements would upset me. I understand the miscarriage part though.. after I had my miscarraige I couldnt bare the thought of being near anyone pregnant and having pregnant people announce their pregnancies left me in tears. It sounds selfish but it was the only way that I could cope.. we can not help how we feel. xxx

 

[Kallie3000]

I can never 100% understand but I have always tried to think of how it would feel to spend a long time trying to conceive a baby and how distressing it would be. I know If I couldnt get pregnant for a long time pregnancy announcements would upset me. I understand the miscarriage part though.. after I had my miscarraige I couldnt bare the thought of being near anyone pregnant and having pregnant people announce their pregnancies left me in tears. It sounds selfish but it was the only way that I could cope.. we can not help how we feel. xxx

The grief when you have trouble getting pregnant is similar - less sharp grief, but a long aching 'empty arms' kind of grief.

It has been nice, actually, for me on BnB - so many women seem to support everyone else, even though everyone's experiences are so different. Like, empathy can be given even if you haven't gone through it yourself. People are pretty good for that here (at least, for me so far!)

 

[wishingonastar]

Hi can I please join? I'm due 1st December with my third. Hope everyone is doing ok? I still have bad all day nausea so I'm very envious of anyone who is past this stage!!

 

[Kallie3000]

Hi can I please join? I'm due 1st December with my third. Hope everyone is doing ok? I still have bad all day nausea so I'm very envious of anyone who is past this stage!!

I am still having all day nausea too (though it goes up and down)... Boo! Starting to worry if 'past this stage' means when I have a baby, lol!!

Also, welcome!

 

[Twinmum87]

Hi can I please join? I'm due 1st December with my third. Hope everyone is doing ok? I still have bad all day nausea so I'm very envious of anyone who is past this stage!!

Hello and congrats! Hope your sickness eases off soon. I am so glad to have had the sickness and massive food aversions ease off now, it was a nightmare! Now if I could just shift the exhaustion! lol!

So true Kallie, lots of ladies ready to support each other no matter what. Even if they have not experienced it them selves just having kind words helps.