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As much I have been considering doing that, with it being his first baby I wouldn't want him to miss the first scan. Just difficult because I want one so much!
We had a scan at 7 weeks - my 12 week scan is in just over a week but due to getting panicked with lack of symptoms, I asked my partner if I could schedule in a private scan before it as I just couldn't wait. He said no and that I was being paranoid. For about 10 seconds I contemplated going behind his back and doing it without his knowledge but then I realised that jellybean would look so different now and the experience would be ruined if he weren't there to see it! So I totally get where you are coming from! So frustrating for you but completely understand why you wouldn't want to have on without him x