Hi ladies, I hope you don't mind too much if I join you. This is our first month TTC #1. I'm 31 and have just come off my birth control last month (after being on and off it for most of the past 13 years), so I hadn't been too hopeful that much would happen this month. I had my withdrawal bleed and ovulated on CD16 (with no natural period first), so I'm really trying to go with the stress-free approach this month. I am pretty committed to not testing early, as I know it would be disappointing for me (and more stressful) than waiting. I'm also terrified of finding out about a chemical and feeling helpless to do anything about it. I know it's a natural thing and if it's going to happen, I'd rather not know about it and let it get me down. I'm really trying to take a positive, stress-free approach to TTC (and in fact, so far, the TWW has been pretty stress-free, I'd like to keep it that way!).
I have no idea what my cycle length is like, though in the past (when not on bcp) it's always been 28-30 days, but I'm thinking of waiting to test until 16 dpo (this would be CD32 if no AF before). Do you think this is a reasonable time to test? It's next Friday, so I thought it would be nice to do before the weekend, but also not at 6am on a Wednesday when we both have to work right after. I'm pretty sure my husband would be an emotional wreck if I told him I was pregnant and then promptly packed him off to work an hour later!