Donor Sperm IUI/IVF- 2012

[SunUp]

Oh, CM. My heart is aching for you. I am in shock reading this, and wish I could give you a big hug. I am saying so many prayers for you right now. I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling. I have no words that are good enough right now. Please know you have thoughts and prayers coming from places far away - and I will be continually praying for you.

 

[raelynn]

CM same as above. I can not believe what you must be going through. My prayers are with you!

 

[MrsC8776]

oh CM my heart is breaking for you. I'm so so sorry for your loss.

 

[Guenhwyvar]

CM - My thoughts are with you & your son. I'm so very very sorry. We're all here for you.

 

[cbergs]

Cm, I'm so sorry for your loss, and am praying for you and your family. I cannot even put into words how I am feeling for you. Like others have said, just know that many prayers are being said all around the world for you.

With much love,
Carrie

 

[BrandyRelax]

CM - I am so sorry to hear this. I've posted it on the azoo thread as I know you have a lot of close friends there too.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Honestly, it's my ultimate fear that something might happen out of the mTESE, and my hubby's is next week, so this is a bit close to home.

 

[MrsG30]

CM- echo the other ladies- thinking of you

 

[AuCa]

My husband just died suddenly. We have 13 perfect little embryos right now. I am in total shock. He collapsed in the middle of the night two nights ago.

I wish I could do more to help, but I am so very sorry for your loss

 

[Chickensoup85]

CM, I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[Deb111]

CM - there are no words sweetheart. It sounds so feeble to say but I am so so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family x x

 

[MoBaby]

OMG CM!!! I am so terribly sorry I dont have any words.....I am sooo sorry. Thoughts and prayers with you.

 

[MrsG30]

Ladies,

just after views/opinions/experiences???

Dh has azoo and urologist appointment is going to take a while- in the meantime my FS has asked about a back-up plan of Donor Sperm fo IUI the IVF (if needed).

what FS told us was there was about a 18-24 month wait for a donor in the UK now due to the anonymity law from 2005! How Long?????

she entioned buying sperm???? erm where from?

and i mentioned using a known donor?? DH has 3 brothers all willing to help if need be. FS said although this was possible it was not common????

anyone shed any light xxx

 

[SunUp]

In the US, known donor is relatively common. We buy vials of sperm, here... google sperm banks , there are quite a few. Not sure which ones are good for the UK, but I'd be really surprised if you couldn't get it MUCH faster.

 

[deafgal01]

oh cm! sorry to hear of your hubby passing.

 

[Redhead7211]

CM-Like the other women I am in complete and utter shock. I cannot even begin to grasp and understand what you're going through. Please, please, please do not hesitate to contact me. I can PM you my personal info if you would like. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

 

[Redhead7211]

MrsC-Your babies are beautiful!! I decided to stalk your journal. Congratulations, they are perfect! I love their little fuzzy pink booties in the one picture of them together. Congratulations on them being home.

Mrs.G-Welcome! I agree with SunUp there are hundreds of good banks around! It just takes a little googling to find one you and your partner are comfortable with.

Guenhwyvar-No need to apologize about the job. I get so overwhelmed with reading everyone's stories I always forget what I read. How are you feeling?

AFM-I'm putting off grading papers and planning to be chatting with you ladies and catching up. The new job is going well. I had two shadow days and started the next day. I stayed until 4:30 yesterday to plan through next week for one class and am planned through the first half of the week for the other English section I have. Because they're special ed kids it's hard to plan very far in advance, because who knows how far we'll get every day?

I am finally ending AF and I forgot how nice it is to not be on stims and have a period (who would ever thought that?!). I need to call the RE and talk about the surgery at some point.

I hope you ladies are doing well! xoxo

 

[want2beamamma]

Redhead -. I'd love to have someone to chat with . I am in Canada actually and have yet to be able to find any kind of help. Funny... We pay alot into our medical system and yet here I am stuck with not being able to have a baby. I'm a very healthy person and rarely used the system.... Wish there was something out there for me. I have researched clinical trials and all. Not much here in Canada. The reversal would have been $8000 and Ivf here is approx 12,000. I wish this was easier. We are so back and forth on what to do...but we are said from the start we'd try 3 iui attempts then move on.

How are things with you?

 

[MrsC8776]

I was just thinking of you all. How is everyone doing? I have my fingers crossed for all you girls.

 

[Redhead7211]

Hi mama! How are those beautiful girls? Everything is all good with me!

 

[MrsC8776]

Hey Red! Things are going good. The girls are gaining like they should and eating well. We just got newborn pictures done and I couldn't be happier with how they turned out. We are both completely in love with these girls. It's so cute because we always get comments on how much one of the girls looks like hubby. She really does and she acts like him as well.

Anything new going on with you? How are you doing?