DTD for a 2011 BFP

[fisher640]

Gah!!! I think I O'd early. Drat. I swear that soy still has me screwed up. I think I O'd day 13--- I was day 16 for forever. So we only really started BDing... Prob CD12 :-/ I thought that would give us a solid 4 days Lol. 3 rounds dtd but all just the day before/ day of. Today is CD 15 and my temp has been up for two days now so I think I'm done for this month.

 

[katiekittykat]

It sounds like you've still done enough Fisher, so I'm still cheering for you. We only DTD twice, on O day and the day after, and we caught it, so you're definitely still in with a shot. Soy made my life difficult the cycle I took it to....I hear a lot of success stories, but I wasn't one of them

Loo - I have a big gob, and everyone knows already As soon as I had my first scan at 10 weeks and 3 days I couldn't resist putting it on Facebook. Although to be fair, our families and close friends knew straight away!

Good luck with the BDing!

 

[loolindley]

Fisher it sounds like you have done enough, but keep up the bd'ing just in case. Al is working tonight, so going to jump on him in the morning!!!!

 

[fisher640]

Cd 19, 7dpo. *twiddles thumbs* I hate this part. Always torn between getting my hopes up and trying to prevent disappointment, and noticing every little thing that COULD be a symptom but only if I end up pregnant otherwise is me just obsessing and reading too much into my bbs and every little twing or change.
.....

 

[katiekittykat]

My only symptom was sore boobs and nipples Fisher Keeping everything crossed for you xxxx

 

[loolindley]

I don't know how many dpo I am!!! I didn't get any strong positives on my opk. I know that I have O'd, as I always do, but I just don't know when! We have got plenty of in, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed too!!!!

We got our appointment through for the specialist yesterday, but it's not until mid August, so we should get another cycle in by then.

 

[fisher640]

Yeah. I'm 9 today, I gave in and POAS this morning. I promised myself I'd wait till July 4th at 12 dpo - or if by some miracle AF isn't here by July 6th at 14dpo. Still sensitive nipples, I think maybe moreso - but I could be imagining it. My stomach has also felt just mildly unsettled the last two days... But - so well see. OH says he thinks it worked this month, lol, so well see. No sign of AF yet so, just obsessing at this point. Thanks for crossing everything Katie! I hope we both get knocked up this month Loo so you never need that specialist appointment!

 

[fisher640]

Oh! And today is mine and DH's 5th wedding anniversary!

 

[fisher640]

So I had a couple cramping sensations on the way home which together with thr BFN made me SO sad that AF might start. Plus PMS for me is always way more depression than bitchiness for me so feeling sad made me feel like AF was going to start soon so my hopes took a serious nose dive by the end of the day. Hope things are better for you right now Loo!

 

[katiekittykat]

Happy anniversary Fisher

Don't give up hope - and don't test until 14DPO!!

 

[fisher640]

Okay okay okay Katie. You're right. I'll wait til 14dpo to test again. No AF today, my temp took a huge nose dive so I guess well see tomorrow -- maybe I'll sleep under an extra warm blanket tonight?!

 

[fisher640]

Okay Katie, I'm trying to be strong and hold off but I thought I'd let you know that I did NOT sleep under a warm blanket in an effort to stave off further temperature droppage AND I only took my temp an hour later than the last two days, and it's back up! I'm trying to follow your orders and not test till 14dpo because it just makes me unnecessarily depressed to see a BFN. So anyway, that's all, just an update, my temp is back up and no AF yet (I'm 11 dpo- my usual LP is 12)

 

[katiekittykat]

Hurray for your temp Fisher I can't even remember what mine did before my BFP, because I was so sure I was out, so I can't impart any wisdom, but definitely hold on until 14DPO!!!!! You wanna make sure you're good and pregnant

 

[fisher640]

Well I gave in Katie. Because yesterday I was so hopeful and my temp dipped a bit again this morning and I decided I couldn't handle another day of hopefulness that would only be dashed again. And I decided since my LP is usually 12 I was 'technically' a day late for me this morning - plus nothing brings AF out like POAS in my opinion, so I did, and it was a BFN... and now probably 40min later I have real cramps that feel like real cramps as opposed to the mild twinges I've had on and off for the last few days. So I think I'll be out by the end of the day. The good news is DH was starting to get hopeful too and actually verbalized this, so I'll be glad to spread some of the misery around this time - maybe if he partakes in the rollercoaster he'll be more willing to hand in an SA?

Wash, rinse, repeat.

 

[katiekittykat]

Just popped in to see how you're doing Fisher? Did AF turn up?

Definitely get your OH to hand in an SA - if there is anything wrong from his side it's really really easy fixed Tell him my OH did one, it came back that his count was reduced, and 2 months later I got my BFP!

 

[loolindley]

Hi ladies.

Im sorry, I went AWOL again. Have had a seriously busy few weeks. My AF is due in the next day or two, but I got my first BFN today. Humph!!!!

First of all Congratulations on your 5th wedding anniversary Fisher. What a lovely achievment!!! I've just seen on your ticker that you are cd#1, but am keeping my fingers crossed that it is wrong. Whats happening?

We are going on our holidays tomorrow. Not far, we have hired a cottage on Anglesey for a week, so we are taking the dogs and having a week away from it all. Last weekend we were at Foo Fighters gigs all weekend, so I'm so knackered, and don't feel like I've had any chill out time for ages.

I'm fully expecting AF to turn up soon as I have had raging PMT for the past few days. My hormones have gone haywire, and I can go from moody to crying in a second!!! I'm hoping this week will be just what I need, even though there wont be any bd'ing if AF turns up! Ah well, it means I can have a few drinkies if I am out this month!!

Will let you know how I get on, but not sure I will get internet access until a week tomorrow.

Take care and have a good week. xxx

 

[fisher640]

Oh yeah. AF. Big time. I got almost no homework done the first day because I was laid up taking more medication than I probably should with my heating pad and diarrhea. (Luv u AF *hugz*).

So we booked out trip to Vegas on a positive note, and will be going for 4 days at the end of the month. I shouldnt be fertile then, bummer, but shouldnt yet have AF either. So I'll spend 50% of the next 2ww on vacation.

My finals are early next week then I have till the end of august off school!!! w00t
Come ON uterus this would be EXCELLENT timing. "pleeeeease"

I'm working on him Katie. I reprimanded him this morning for not keeping his balls cool enough and told him if he doesn't shape up he'll be doing it with a cup.

Loo! Where are you?! Is this absence a good thing? I vote book your Vegas trip too!

 

[fisher640]

Sorry Loo... Missed ur reply already. I'm on CD 3 - I can't seem to keep the stupid ticker on task, even if I go in and manually adjust it it seems screwed up.

 

[loolindley]

So I'm back from a fantastic week away in Anglesey. The weather was second to none, the beaches were lush, the ice cream was amazing (in fact I think I need to go on an ice cream detox!!!), and last wednesday after peeing on a stick in Morrisons toilets, I discovered that I am a little bit pregnant!

I'm so cautious, and it has been so long coming, I daren't really believe it yet. Especially as I have peed on 3 more hpt's since then, and although there is still the faint second line, it is not getting any darker. I don't really know what that means, but as long as there is still a second line, then I will remain hopeful that I am pregnant!

I am keeping everthing crossed, but I am so aware of things going wrong in these early stages, so although I am over the moon, I am trying to hold myself back a bit. Just in case, you know...


I'm soooooooooo happy though! xxx

 

[Aquarius24]

I'm so happy for u loo. You are right to remain cautious but u must think positive too!! You have a precious little bean in there x x x