Due for the witch on the 30th - anyone to join me in the 2ww?

[opeeny]

Also I should tell you that I felt nothing at 4dpo at all and even started some threads about it....honestly most of these things started later like at around 10dpo....and today my af was due....I have not gotten it, and somehow keep on thinking I will and checking the bathroom because honestly, except for the sore nips (tmi) and watery/creamyish (i guess watery is more like it) cm....I totally feel like I am getting af....in fact got the same typical headache I usually get and typical pimple on chin....don't know...I'm still nervous that it will come! LOL but I made appointment with docs and receptionist said....um a positive is a positive...u r pregnant...so....it's just symptoms feel much like af....good luck to you!!!!!!!

BTW I am convinced using the digital OPK's this month was what may have worked....the other months I just assumed I was timing it ok....

 

[opeeny]

Hi doodah...u started this LUCKY thread...just wishing you luck and wondering how your luck is going!?baby dust to you!

 

[wishnhoping]

Hubby is pissing me off... I understand I am being a tad nutso lately but he seems less than enthusiastic about this whole thing meanwhile im driving myself crazy...anyways...

Starting to feel slighlty nauseous I think its because I have been stuffing my face all day stress eating. I want the waiting to end already

This has def been the best thread I have been on so far I love it!

Crossing my finger for some BFPs in the morning...

 

[linz143]

Me too, wishn! Today has been like a roller coaster. AF is due and everytime I'm in the restroom I say in my head "AF will be here, AF will be here, AF will be here" then after I wipe... nothing.

I'm trying not to get my hopes up and she's still got 8 hours to show up before she's officially late.

Been having cramping for 3 days straight now but I've convinced myself that they don't feel like they usually do. (My cramps were so bad in high school my doctor gave me a prescription for pain killers and I even missed a lot of school over them).

Had some nausea on and off, too... although being nervous also does that to me. This one seemed to come in waves while I was grocery shopping on my lunch.

It's ALMOST OVER! Hang in there!

 

[linz143]

Also, about the hubby thing.... I have found it's best not to say anything at all to mine. If I get too excited, he tries ground me by telling me it's probably not happening (which pisses me off, but he thinks he's being kind by not letting me get too excited.... RIGHT). If I get really down about it and say it's not gonna happen, he starts rubbing my stomach and talking to it.... NO KIDDING!! I'm like WTF are you doing?!

If I tell him I'm ovulating, he feels pressured to have sex. If I don't say anything at all, we could miss the opportunity and he really, really wants this. He's wanted to be a father for years and I've told him to hold his horses.

There's no real winning in sharing with the OH is my belief. Not until you have something solid.

 

[lillio]

Also, about the hubby thing.... I have found it's best not to say anything at all to mine. If I get too excited, he tries ground me by telling me it's probably not happening (which pisses me off, but he thinks he's being kind by not letting me get too excited.... RIGHT). If I get really down about it and say it's not gonna happen, he starts rubbing my stomach and talking to it.... NO KIDDING!! I'm like WTF are you doing?!

If I tell him I'm ovulating, he feels pressured to have sex. If I don't say anything at all, we could miss the opportunity and he really, really wants this. He's wanted to be a father for years and I've told him to hold his horses.

There's no real winning in sharing with the OH is my belief. Not until you have something solid.

Totally agree with that one lindz, my DH knows when I suggest BD just to go with it... and I've learned from experience it's better not to say anything until I have something solid.. he is not a fan of what ifs.. only facts! When we get into an 'are we/arent we' pregnant senario it usually ends in me getting either angry or upset! Boys are useless at this sort if thing, that's why it's great we can chat about all sorts til our hearts content on here haha! xx

 

[opeeny]

LOL...that's very funny....I agreee with you guys on the husband thing...you really do end up getting into fights with them...but I wonder if I am the crazy one!? Then again...if I didn't time this all and keep track of ov and akk that, I don't think we'de have a chance!

anyway....good tips you guys made me laugh...

 

[wishnhoping]

Yea I mostly try to keep it from him too but no one really knows we are ttc so hes all I got....thank god for you guys or hed realllly think I was nutso! I take most of my frustration out n here by sharing

anyway...I caved and took another test. NOT PREGNANT! My cramps are picking up and I am 100% expecting AF in the am...I hope those of you that arent lucky to get your bfps hang with me next month

 

[Haleytivet]

Yea I mostly try to keep it from him too but no one really knows we are ttc so hes all I got....thank god for you guys or hed realllly think I was nutso! I take most of my frustration out n here by sharing

anyway...I caved and took another test. NOT PREGNANT! My cramps are picking up and I am 100% expecting AF in the am...I hope those of you that arent lucky to get your bfps hang with me next month

I wanted to say the same thing about us sticking together for next month. I'm definitely out due to stopping the meds so I'll be with ya next month! Once we know the final results we can start another thread because I really like all of you!! Of course I hope you all still get your bfp's but just in case I'll definitely hang with y'all

Still have fx'd for y'all!!!!

 

[linz143]

I'm totally in for next month. I'm pretty sure that despite my awesome looking (and apparently evil) looking chart, that I'm out this month. Checked my cervix tonight and there was brown mixed in with the CM, which can only mean one thing... the witch is on the way...

 

[Haleytivet]

I'm totally in for next month. I'm pretty sure that despite my awesome looking (and apparently evil) looking chart, that I'm out this month. Checked my cervix tonight and there was brown mixed in with the CM, which can only mean one thing... the witch is on the way...

Bummer!!! Each month we are one step closer to our bfp's though!! Maybe we'll have a great Christmas present

 

[wishnhoping]

Sorry Linz I havent even checked my cervix...for one I have no idea what to look for or where it is (ahahahaha) and two I dont want to find blood

I am down to 2 tests so I am actually going to wait until thursday (hahaha...money on I test in the morning)

 

[Haleytivet]

Sorry Linz I havent even checked my cervix...for one I have no idea what to look for or where it is (ahahahaha) and two I dont want to find blood

I am down to 2 tests so I am actually going to wait until thursday (hahaha...money on I test in the morning)

I know!! I have 2 left also and I'll prob test tomorrow one last time just in case lol but I know better!

 

[linz143]

I have three tests (insert evil grin here)

 

[giraffes]

Hi everyone,

the evil horrible witch got me with the most painful period I've had in ages (and I'm not stranger to them - my specialist artificially put me through the menopause temporarily becuase they were so bad before). Clearly all me symptoms were related to this horrible event rather than a bfp

Still, I am sitting here with a hot water bottle at 5 am and you guys have already cheered me up, I'm definitely up for hanging out with you all for another month of craziness!! And I see the fertility specialist in 12 days, so hopefully she'll start the process of figuring out what's wrong.

Big hugs to you all
Gxxxx

 

[linz143]

Awww hun! Well I hope it all works it's way through your system so that you are ready to start anew next month. I will probably be joining you for CD1 tomorrow. Hang in there and sleep, sleep, sleep! It always makes me feel better

 

[wishnhoping]

so sorry giraffes

WELL GIRLS ITS NOVEMBER 30TH.....We better see some BFPs today!

Going to bed its 1am where I live and I have been up with DH , nitey nite

 

[lillio]

so sorry giraffes, I'm right there with you! I tested this morning, used FMU, a FRER... and BFN, not even a sniff of a line! Cramps I've had for ages are getting stronger and I know the witch is on the way! crawled back to bed and had a good cry (after DH had left of course) he's very understanding but it doesnt totally crush him (like it does me) Was great to chat to everyone and I really hope everyone who doesn't get lucky this month want to hang next month too... I'm totally in! Thanks for all the support, couldn't of made it without you! xx

 

[leia37]

Giraffes - sorry you are out and good luck next month.

I'm down to one test and can't justify buying anymore (no dollar or pound shops here) so will have to wait until friday or later just to be sure. (am laughing at myself right now, who i am trying to kid!!) Still no af yet and really expected it this morning. I am in portugal so am at least a good few hours ahead of you girls (find the whole timezone thing confusing).

Have a busy day ahead so hopefully wont obsess to much, saying that going to visit very pregnant friend on strict bedrest so wont take my mind off of it (does anything?), it will just stop me spending hours trolling the internet for ' BFPs after BFNs'.!!!!! - did find this thread by obsessing yesterday though

Good luck to you ladies testing this morning, look forward to your bfps later.

 

[nats77]

Giraffes so sorry hun,

I to have been met by the evil witch this morning!! so sad but i knew she was coming, guess i'll just have to focus on next month.

Looking forward to waiting it out with u lovely ladies again though, u have kept me sane xxxx