Early 20's and TTC - 17 BFPs!

[Jamie2255]

Hi!!!
Oh Dottie that's horrible! Is there anything the doctors can prescribe you to make AF come sooner?

My doctor doesn't want to prescribe me anything. I have to stay natural for my specialist appointment in December, so any tests done don't get skewed.

AF feels like its coming soon though, but who knows. I've been very crampy the last 2 weeks, and the last 3 days my nipples have been SOOOOO sore.

I know those can be preg. signs but with how far along I am in my cycle, the chances that I ovulated are slim to none.

ALSOOOO,

I updated the list! We have 9 BFP's!!!
I'm sorry if I missed anyone, it's hard reading through 73 pages.

You may want to take a test just in case. I was at 110 days with no period so i scheduled an appointment with my dr who said he would put me on provera to force a period and hopefully that would regulate my periods. Well my appointment was on Wednesday. Even though i was positive i wasn't pregnant i took a test on Saturday because i read online that provera will cause a miscarriage if you are pregnant and that's when i got my BFP! Month after month i kept feeling like af was coming and she never did.

 

[Dottiee]

Thats how I feel, once the cramps started I'm thinking "AF is right around the corner", didn't come. I'm going to give it a few more days, since sore nipples have always been an AF sign for me. If AF doesn't show in the next few days, I'll definitely test!

And congratulations on your BFP, I would have cried like a baby! lol

 

[magicwhisper]

that is so sad

i am glad it is all different now though

hopefully they can tell you why af hasent arrived too

 

[littleone1993]

Awwwh dollie.

I miscarried when I was 16 too. I had just been for a scan where everything was fine and then the next day I was bleeding like crazy. We were so excited about the baby even though we were young so it was pretty upsetting for us too. Then when we had a chemical last cycle I felt that it was starting all over again.

I want a BFP so much. This cycle would simply be perfect for us to conceive and a psychic said to me in June 'something you started in March will finish in October.' I started to TTC in March and my cycle this month is from the 1st October to the 28th hopefully so if she is right then she couldn't have been more right! I'm just hoping and praying this is my time without worrying too much.

 

[Dottiee]

Awwwh dollie.

I miscarried when I was 16 too. I had just been for a scan where everything was fine and then the next day I was bleeding like crazy. We were so excited about the baby even though we were young so it was pretty upsetting for us too. Then when we had a chemical last cycle I felt that it was starting all over again.

I want a BFP so much. This cycle would simply be perfect for us to conceive and a psychic said to me in June 'something you started in March will finish in October.' I started to TTC in March and my cycle this month is from the 1st October to the 28th hopefully so if she is right then she couldn't have been more right! I'm just hoping and praying this is my time without worrying too much.

Oh that's so exciting!! My fingers are crossed for you! Try not to worry yourself too much! I've heard of so many women getting pregnant during the cycle that they were the least concerned about TTC. (Easier said than done, I know)

Make sure you keep us updated!

 

[littleone1993]

I will definitely keep everyone updated.

I've not really been keeping track of this cycle, I've had a lot of medical appointments here because my colic acid is so low. I've been on a huge supplement for almost 6 ,onths yet in my blood stream it's virtually non existent. The doctors have said its safe to carry on trying so I'm just looking forwards now!

 

[magicwhisper]

yeah we conceived on our month off ttc i must of o later

 

[littleone1993]

It happens for so many people, it makes you wonder how people get pregnant from one nit stands because it's so hard to get pregnant!

I'm trying not to get my hopes up I must admit but it's so hard!

 

[magicwhisper]

yeah since ttc i wonder that

 

[wellsk]

Its a difficult one to call. People who told me to relax and it will happen drove me mad. And if I was to want another child, it would certainly rile me (I've already had so many people say 'well, you never know, it might be easy this time' )

But you can't tell why or what will make you conceive, so if you've tried everything and 'none of it works', then I'd go with the most comfortable for you. Whether that's temping or OPKs or just BD and see. And if you haven't conceived within 12 month, go to your GP and really push them for tests, regardless of your age. As thry often try and brush you off with 'you've got plenty of time'

For me, time would've only made it worse, and no matter how much I 'relaxed', which is near on impossible if you want to get pregnant. It wouldn't have change a thing! The only wsy myself and DH can have children is through IVF.

Best of luck, I hope you find the right path for you.

 

[Shelbs21]

Hello everyone!

I'm new here and this is my first month TTC. I need some advice. My periods are always very regular. Every 31 days and the first day is really heavy and painful. This month is different though. I was supposed to start on 10-17-13. But on 10-14-13 at 3:30 pm I started bleeding very lightly. Then it stopped on 10-16-13 and was brown. I was completely dry on the 17th ( day period supposed to be due) then on 10-18-13, I woke up and I had brown spotting. And I'm cramping and bloated. The spotting isn't enough to fill a pad or tampon, barely a pantyliner.

I took a test on 10-18-13 and got a BFN. Dr. said to wait a week and retest. I was just wondering if any on you knew what this meant? I fully believe that i would be having a normal period this month if i weren't pregnant. Could this possibly be implantation bleeding? Or just a really wacky period?

These are my symptoms.

DPO tracker

4 dpo- veiny swollen boobs, peeing a lot, hot, ovary twinges, dry mouth, rash on chest and between boobs, had baby makin sex, heart palpitation,

5dpo- cried at the croods. slight headache, tired, ache in right ovary area

6do- woke up at 5 am extremely hungry. Feeling puffy all over, breaking out like crazy, constantly having to pee

9dpo- laid in bed all day, extremely exausted and very emotional, discharge, congested

10dpo- nauseas after eating, super hot!, smelling my lotion really strong, lazy, discharge, congested , ovary twinges all day~somewhat strong

11dpo- pants fitting tight, congested, feeling a little sick, hot, feeling full in my uterus area, cramping a little bit, twinges on ovary areas, back ached like crazy

12dpo- horrible cramping like on my period, bloated, eating constantly, sore boobs!

13dpo- cramping off and on, twinges in ovaries, sore boobs, tired

14dpo- cramps and bleeding. Light bleeding that's very smooth. Bright red, but has zero clots. 4 days before expected period. Boobs still sore.

15dpo- light bleeding, no clots.

16dpo- light bleeding turned brown-stopped that evening at 7ish.

17dpo-nothing! dry

18dpo-woke up to brown spotting. Took pregnancy test and it was BFN.

19dpo-brown spotting-barely


Any advice and if i'm posting in the wrong forum, im sorry. =(


Thanks

 

[Dottiee]

No worries! Welcome

I didn't want to read and run. I don't know much about regular DPO symptoms, since I have trouble ovulating. However I'm certain one of the ladies here will know

Fingers crossed. Keep us updated.

 

[magicwhisper]

it may be implant bleeding give it a few days and test

i had a strange symptom of having a single drop of blood the day af was due and at the time i wondered wtf

 

[littleone1993]

Hi all,

I have the sudden urge to POAS today. I dont know what it is because im usually pretty chilled out and relaxed lately about TTC'ing I've been waiting until at least 14dpo to test for the past 2 months so I'm a bit up and down. I might test on wednesday which is 9dpo. Still a bit early but it might show if I am pregnant. Here's to hoping right.

I have had literally no symptoms at all this month either which is strange for me as I ususally have every single one!

On other news I've been playing a very close family friends baby shower. It makes me so excited!

 

[Jett55]

7dpo & my chart is looking great but every time I think I might have a chance my temp drops & a visit from Af. Ugg tww is torture

 

[littleone1993]

Your chart really does look good! I don't chart because it just adds extra stress to TTC'ing for me but sometimes I wish I did. I just want to know what's going on in this crazy body of mine.

I think im definitely going to POAS tomorrow. I just have this feeling ;/ But most of the time my feelings are wrong.

 

[Jett55]

Yah I've gotten to the point of not poas until AF is late & even then I didn't test I got AF the next day so I'm really waiting it out. The disappointment of AF is enough yet alone AF & a bfn ... and I only started temping again cause I didn't like not knowing when I ovulated & this way I know for sure.

 

[littleone1993]

I've got to the stage too. The disappointment is crazy but I dont know. Its jsut strange. I haven't had any usual symptoms though. This cycle has been really uneventful for me and for some reason that makes me hopeful?

 

[Jett55]

yah I have my fxxed for you

I really haven't had anything unusual this cycle either cramping here & there but nothing other than that.

 

[littleone1993]

I saw you've had a bit of a dip? It's still above the cover line though! Got everything crossed for you.

Fate is well strange. I was going to test this morning but I couldn't find a test anywhere. I checked where they normally are and they simply weren't there. Tonight I went to give blood with DH and I had my finger pricked and my iron was really high compared to the usual pathetics that it usually is. Went to the chair only to be told I couldn't donate because even though I'm now 20 ey said my BMI isn't high enough yet I weigh more than ever and have never had a problem before. Came home and my tests were back in the usual place.

I am so testing tomorrow!