**FeBrUaRy TeStInG tHrEaD** 7 BFP'S

[ashntony]

FlannelSheets, I hear you! I am seriously starting to doubt whether I can even have children... At 24 I don't understand why it is taking me so long! But I am trying for another two months and then going to a fertility specialist to see whats going on... Big hugs to all the BFNs and those the witch got... We just have to keep trying... And do our best to stay positive! Not working well for me at this precise moment though... But at least having a plan helps me a bit!

I know what you mean!! I am 21 and it has already been 7 cycles... Yet everyone I know that is younger than me and my 30 yo sister are popping out children... It makes me feel like I will never have children...

 

[Flannelsheets]

I'm 33, but obv. many months is hard no matter what your age. I guess we should find things to be thankful for, and things that give us hope. If I was younger, I'd find some solace in the long window ahead. I myself find hope in the fact that my cycles are fairly regular and well-defined. It may just be bad luck. And my doctor told me that it's likelier to get pregnant in the second half of the year of trying anyway, so 8 months (now 9) is still well within the range of normal.

My best friend is now trying, and her doctor said "we'll have you pregnant in 2-3 months." It's funny how that made me mad, and how all this stuff can put up unexpected divisions in friendships...

 

[aussieagility]

Being young is definately a bonus as far as having a while to try... But still it makes you wonder sometimes if you are going to spend your life wanting to have a baby and not be able to concieve. That is what I personally fear the most, which is why I am going to be seeing a fertility specialist (to put my mind at ease). But everyone has their own fears when it comes to ttc... So I suppose this fear is probably normal if you have never had a BFP or a completed pregnancy after a few months of trying. We just have to keep our heads up and not give up!

 

[ashntony]

I guess it wouldn't bother me as much is everyone I knew weren't pregnant and going into labor... I have many things to be thankful for but I just really want to start my family!

 

[Latrying]

Hi Ladies, haven't been actively posting on here but I had all sorts of crazy symptoms all sounded so promising! AF is 4 days late and I finally went for a bloodtest and found out this afternoon it was negative...

On to month 6 of TTC! GL to everyone else

 

[married2012]

I may have got a bfn on the 3rd, but this morning I got my :BFP: on 28th!

 

[Dannixo]

I may have got a bfn on the 3rd, but this morning I got my :BFP: on 28th!

Congratulations!!!

 

[ProfWife]

Congratulations!!!!

 

[aussieagility]

congratulations!!

 

[MItoDC]

Congrats Married2012!

 

[ashntony]

congrats

 

[AmyRR]

I'm 11dpo today and this afternoon I got a BFP!!!

I know it's early days but its so hard not to get excited!

We will have the same due date! I tested on the 14th at 10dpo and got my bfp

Congrats! What a great way to finish off Feb testing! H&H 9 months!

 

[AmyRR]

Oops didn't mean to have that old post there. Was meaning congrats to married2012 xx