"Hedgewitch Fertility Spell Support Thread"

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.here are some pics of Amelia! There are loads! she is 7lb 7oz now! still so tiny but big to us! lol

how are you all doing?

Sam 30 weeks is awsome!!
 
LittleAurora said:
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https://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=262683&id=772731039&l=4768c4b6da

.here are some pics of Amelia! There are loads! she is 7lb 7oz now! still so tiny but big to us! lol

how are you all doing?

Sam 30 weeks is awsome!!
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those pics are beautiful...thanks for sharing them with us....congratulations again hun I'm sooo happy for you....:hugs:
 
I'm on a bit of a downer. Get ready for a rant. I phoned clinic this morning to be told that they managed to freeze 2 straws of sperm from yesterdays tissue sample. They said that the sperm was of poor quality and it was highly likely that it wouldn't make the thaw, so they recommended that hubby be on standby to have another tissue sample taken when I have my eggs retrieved, so that the sperm is fresh, baring in mind that the op cost us £1500 and we would have to pay another £1500 to have it done again. I am so angry. Why the hell didn't they just do that in the first place. They said they had cultured some of the tissue and would phone me back to let me know if they managed to freeze anymore. I told hubby what they had said and he point blank refused to go through it again. Obviously I don't blame him in the slightist but I have been left totally devastated and where do I go from here. Do I still carry on with treatment and risk going through it all only for the sperm not to make the thaw process or do we just forget it all. Which would mean we have wasted so much money just getting to this stage. I have been crying for most of the morning. They have since phoned me back and said they managed to get 2 more straws to freeze but that it was still poor quality and majority was non motile. They would have to thaw all 4 straws just for one treatment cycle and would probably at the most get 4 viable sperm to use if they survived the thaw, but she wasn't hopefull and again said hubby should be on stanby. I told her that he doesn't want to go through it again and she said well in that case the only option you have is try and use the non motile sperm,again if that survives the thaw and pray. Apparently the sperm was at the lowest stage of freezing, if it had been any worse they wouldn't have frozen it. I just don't know what to do. I'm gutted.
 
Oh no, honey! :hugs: I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now... And, I don't know what to say really! I was certainly hoping you'd get amazing news! This might sound awful, and you might hate me for it... but have you guys considered using donor sperm? I know its not optimal... but it seems like it might be the best option at this point. I don't know... I don't want you to lose your chance is all! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
 
Doodar said:
I'm on a bit of a downer. Get ready for a rant. I phoned clinic this morning to be told that they managed to freeze 2 straws of sperm from yesterdays tissue sample. They said that the sperm was of poor quality and it was highly likely that it wouldn't make the thaw, so they recommended that hubby be on standby to have another tissue sample taken when I have my eggs retrieved, so that the sperm is fresh, baring in mind that the op cost us £1500 and we would have to pay another £1500 to have it done again. I am so angry. Why the hell didn't they just do that in the first place. They said they had cultured some of the tissue and would phone me back to let me know if they managed to freeze anymore. I told hubby what they had said and he point blank refused to go through it again. Obviously I don't blame him in the slightist but I have been left totally devastated and where do I go from here. Do I still carry on with treatment and risk going through it all only for the sperm not to make the thaw process or do we just forget it all. Which would mean we have wasted so much money just getting to this stage. I have been crying for most of the morning. They have since phoned me back and said they managed to get 2 more straws to freeze but that it was still poor quality and majority was non motile. They would have to thaw all 4 straws just for one treatment cycle and would probably at the most get 4 viable sperm to use if they survived the thaw, but she wasn't hopefull and again said hubby should be on stanby. I told her that he doesn't want to go through it again and she said well in that case the only option you have is try and use the non motile sperm,again if that survives the thaw and pray. Apparently the sperm was at the lowest stage of freezing, if it had been any worse they wouldn't have frozen it. I just don't know what to do. I'm gutted.
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i agree with megg hunny, you feel like it is the end of the world at the moment but its isn't, "easy for you to say", i hear you say, but maybe you need to consider other options too, i happen to know someone who would give you a donor in a heartbeat!! so so sorry that you are having to go through this but remember its not over yet sweetie, you WILL get your bfp and your long awaited baby its just about stepping back, taking a breath and then trying to assess it again. you can't give up yet. i take it this may be a silly question but have you tried changing his diet etc? is there a medical reason as to why they can't get retrievable sperm? i do know on some level how you feel when the world kicks you about but there is ALWAYS an answer, sometimes you just have to change your path of how to get your hearts desire, sending you both the most warmest and squidgyest of hugs,xxx
 
Morning Girls

Been up since 5am to see hubby off, hes away on a week course to learn to drive :happydance::cry:
its been about 10 months since we were last apart for longer than 1/2 nights, so its going to be a very weird long sleepless week for me :(
 
morning all got s mega headache today:nope: had ashittyy weekend got a letter from the ppl im doing my nvq with even tho i rang in both days when i wasnt there may i just say i was doing it volluntry and cost 14 quid in taxis to get there! they withdrawled the offer saying im not allowed back so ive paced the whole thing in PLUS my agncy never paid me so im wageless this week :growlmad:
 
fingers crossed u get it sorted then hunni

im just trying to get my bloody mic on webcam to wrk
 
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