Help PLEASE!!

[sunkiss]

def not a chemical, ur line today also was darker along with the positive digi

courtney im so sorry about the chemical hun

 

[jcombs35]

i agree u r def preggo, hey is there any way u can go to the er, i know they could do betas right there n let u know the number n at least check u to see if u r miscarrying, it must be so hard on u not having a definitive answer on what is going on ugh

I think I'm just gonna wait it out. I went to the er back in Feb with a huge kidney stone that was stuck and they made me wait in the waiting room for 4 hours in tremendous pain, acting like I was making that up too. Then the doctor acted like he didn't even want to do a scan or anything to see what it was. I think it would actually be less stressful to just wait til I miss AF and then find a different doctor.

Of course I will go back to the other one to wipe the thing in her hair.

 

[Courtney917]

def not a chemical, ur line today also was darker along with the positive digi

courtney im so sorry about the chemical hun

Thanks sunkiss. Now I have to go through a bunch of tests to see what's going on. I'm at the point of just saying forget it...maybe I'm not meant to have a 3rd?

 

[sunkiss]

dont give up courtney, good thing is u know u can conceive, may have been just a fluke to have 2 in a row or could be a really simple fix, i hear women talking about it all the time n they just need some progesterone or baby asprin, so hold on hun

 

[sunkiss]

jcombs r u having pains also?

 

[Courtney917]

dont give up courtney, good thing is u know u can conceive, may have been just a fluke to have 2 in a row or could be a really simple fix, i hear women talking about it all the time n they just need some progesterone or baby asprin, so hold on hun

Yes you're right its just so frustrating. It is good that I can conceive I guess its better then what some people face. I was put on progesterone for this pregnancy, perhaps it was too late or not a high enough dose. I guess we will see what dr says next Friday.

 

[Courtney917]

i agree u r def preggo, hey is there any way u can go to the er, i know they could do betas right there n let u know the number n at least check u to see if u r miscarrying, it must be so hard on u not having a definitive answer on what is going on ugh

I think I'm just gonna wait it out. I went to the er back in Feb with a huge kidney stone that was stuck and they made me wait in the waiting room for 4 hours in tremendous pain, acting like I was making that up too. Then the doctor acted like he didn't even want to do a scan or anything to see what it was. I think it would actually be less stressful to just wait til I miss AF and then find a different doctor.

Of course I will go back to the other one to wipe the thing in her hair.

LOL I would totally throw it in doctor's face!!! Since you keep spotting it could very well be implantation bleeding. Keeping my finger crossed for you!!!!

 

[jcombs35]

jcombs r u having pains also?

I wouldn't call them pains. It's nothing sharp. It's not even constant. Once in a while I have AF like cramps, but they're not as bad as my normal cramps. I did experience the same thing with my other pregnancies.

 

[jcombs35]

Well girls, I think for today I'm just going to take a break. That of course is subject to change after I have some more digi's in my hands! I read in several places that it takes 2-3 days for hcg to double. So assuming since Sunday afternoon, my digi was negative, and yesterday it was positive, I'd like to wait another 3 days to test. I know I probably can't control myself, so I'll probably also get some other ones that aren't digital and save my digi's for every few days. 16 days til AF is due!

 

[future hopes]

wow this thread is long wen i get time ill have ti read through it all i just want to say good luck hunny xx

 

[sunkiss]

i def understand taking the break, its all so frustrating with the bleeding n all, i think its a good sign that ur not in pain cause from wut i understand a miscarriage is very painful, with my loss i was in actual labor so i dont have anything to compare it too, but i sure hope its just a bleed that will resolve...did u run out of the answer test? u could check ur progression with those if u still have any instead of using the digi's...im still stalking n praying for u hun

 

[future hopes]

ive had 3 m/c and i was in agony in the back and front pluss bleeding was bright red and very very very heavy. hope this helps

 

[ashleywalton]

Hey love. I understand on the break. It is so hard not to test.
In October2011 I got pregnant, I took like 4 tests, all positive. I waited a week or two to tell my family and I finally told them. The NEXT morning woke up cramping and bleeding and had a MC. My blood test showed negative but my urine test was still showing positive. It was such a hard time. I said forget it and I didn't want to have another baby or go through another MC. But, sure enough 4 months later I figured why not? I tried one month and got pregnant and here I am 25 weeks along....
Just thought I'd share that...No matter what its not over for you or any of you on here

 

[jcombs35]

i def understand taking the break, its all so frustrating with the bleeding n all, i think its a good sign that ur not in pain cause from wut i understand a miscarriage is very painful, with my loss i was in actual labor so i dont have anything to compare it too, but i sure hope its just a bleed that will resolve...did u run out of the answer test? u could check ur progression with those if u still have any instead of using the digi's...im still stalking n praying for u hun

I enjoy your stalking! Yes I ran out of Answer test. I didn't really like those anyway, so I went today and just got some
FRER's. I decided just like you said to just monitor my line progression for a while. And I'm curious to see if it's positive on a different brand. (Since her test was sooo accurate it was better than a digi!)

That's what's confusing me too. I had a m/c with my very first pregnancy. Can't remember if I've told this story, but when it happened, I didn't know I was pregnant yet, and when the bleeding started, I thought it was my period. It had the same cramping, maybe a little stronger, but lots and lots of blood. This went on for a month until finally I decided there must be something wrong and went to the doctor.

This is not really like that, so I don't know if it's the same thing. This spotting started after my first AF, and it's not really heavy, and the cramping isn't that bad either. Sigh.....

 

[jcombs35]

ive had 3 m/c and i was in agony in the back and front pluss bleeding was bright red and very very very heavy. hope this helps

It does help. If I had miscarried, don't you think it would be over with after 7 days?

 

[bexxc]

i just think the doctor was probably using 100 miu tests. i think your progression will tell a different story.

 

[jcombs35]

Hey love. I understand on the break. It is so hard not to test.
In October2011 I got pregnant, I took like 4 tests, all positive. I waited a week or two to tell my family and I finally told them. The NEXT morning woke up cramping and bleeding and had a MC. My blood test showed negative but my urine test was still showing positive. It was such a hard time. I said forget it and I didn't want to have another baby or go through another MC. But, sure enough 4 months later I figured why not? I tried one month and got pregnant and here I am 25 weeks along....
Just thought I'd share that...No matter what its not over for you or any of you on here

Thanks for the encouragement! I don't even know if this is a m/c. Everyone keeps saying spotting is normal in the first few months. But it's throwing me off because it's like nothing I've had before with any of my others. I guess only time will tell...

 

[jcombs35]

i just think the doctor was probably using 100 miu tests. i think your progression will tell a different story.

I think so too. But I'd be a lot more confident if I wasn't spotting. lol

 

[bexxc]

of course you would! but i think you've got a strong little munchkin in there that won't let a little spotting spoil the party!

 

[sunkiss]

yay more test lol!! when will u test again?

i was reading about bleeding earlier in my pregnancy when i had some spotting n i found articles on Subchorionic Hematoma. here is a link that talks about it, turns out my spotting was something else n maybe urs is too but good to check out different stuff.
https://www.justmommies.com/articles/subchorionic-hematoma.shtml