wantjust1more
Trying for #4,our Miracle
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Laurana- Girl!!! I'm sorry about your Bfn... I know how you feel. I for SURE thought that my very first IUI was going to work, the doctor sounded so hopeful, which kinda got my hopes up for NOTHING, well it was nice thinking for two weeks that i was pregnant, when i really wasn't. I know the feeling of being let down, i think we all do. Sometimes i just want to sleep and not wake up until i'm preg. lol.. but that is just me being all depressed and miserable. the "poor pitiful me act" I still have a hard time looking at pregnant women, I'll be honest, i even try to avoid them, i won't go in the same line at the grocery store, nothing. I feel like i'm a crazy person, but i just don't want to be around them, and if women do that to me when and IF i get pregnant, I'll DEFINITELY understand I think WE have a right to be mad, angry, and just plan rude. I get so UPSET when women who are pregnant freaking complain about being pregnant, "oh i hate vomiting, oh i hate being fat, oh i which these 9 months would hurry up, I can't handle another one" blah blah blah, "can i FREAKING SMACK YOU!!" get over yourself!!! there are others that WOULD LOVE TO BE IN YOUR SHOES!!! (thats me yelling at them) ugh just gets me so damn frustrated...
I can't wait until we are ALL PREGNANT!!!!!!! i just can't wait~
Hatethewait- I'm soo sorry about your bfn! seems like we have been trying for around the same length. I've been ttc for 2 years and 5 months. I just CAN'T GIVE UP and neither can you all. we HAVE to keep going!!! I think when the months keep adding on we just keep getting more and more numb... I don't know how to feel anymore, i was for sure thinking that iui was going to work, but errrr, i was wrong... and that was a HUGE awakening. I guess no matter what we do we just can't MAKE it happen, it just happens... which really is hard to comprehend! I think we all just have to stick together and hold on tight and hope that we all get our together!
SweetV- I don't think that having a baby shower so close is a good idea, i mean i still have our baby clothes from when my twins were preemies and they are going to be 7, when my youngest that will be 5 was born we used one of the twins clothes. If we get pregnant again, will do the same thing. i mean will buy stuff, maybe have a pamper shower cause i could always use pampers, or just like a bbq, but not a baby shower, because no matter what family will always by the baby things, for their first birthday etc. so there is no reason to go all out and craZy. I think the only reason why i still have all my kids stuff is because deep down inside i still have hope that one day we will have another one while DH is really wanting to make some room in the garage lol and sell it all. or give it away.. i just can't let go..
Must be a mom thing, idk..
I can't wait until we are ALL PREGNANT!!!!!!! i just can't wait~
Hatethewait- I'm soo sorry about your bfn! seems like we have been trying for around the same length. I've been ttc for 2 years and 5 months. I just CAN'T GIVE UP and neither can you all. we HAVE to keep going!!! I think when the months keep adding on we just keep getting more and more numb... I don't know how to feel anymore, i was for sure thinking that iui was going to work, but errrr, i was wrong... and that was a HUGE awakening. I guess no matter what we do we just can't MAKE it happen, it just happens... which really is hard to comprehend! I think we all just have to stick together and hold on tight and hope that we all get our together!
SweetV- I don't think that having a baby shower so close is a good idea, i mean i still have our baby clothes from when my twins were preemies and they are going to be 7, when my youngest that will be 5 was born we used one of the twins clothes. If we get pregnant again, will do the same thing. i mean will buy stuff, maybe have a pamper shower cause i could always use pampers, or just like a bbq, but not a baby shower, because no matter what family will always by the baby things, for their first birthday etc. so there is no reason to go all out and craZy. I think the only reason why i still have all my kids stuff is because deep down inside i still have hope that one day we will have another one while DH is really wanting to make some room in the garage lol and sell it all. or give it away.. i just can't let go..
Must be a mom thing, idk..