No, your just preparing for the worst and I do it too. I have my little list of questions for when I start my cycle and go to the doctor on CD3 to start my cycle of IUI. My DH asked what I wanted for Christmas and I told him, the only thing I want is for him to go in that office without complaining and give specimen when the time comes and that's IT! I want to be pregnant, that's what I want!
Have you done any fertility testing and such? You know there is fertility test that come with the FRERs. It can give you a negative and still something be wrong but if it gives you a positive, it gives you an idea that you need to go get further testing. I did it last month and mine came out positive on CD3, and more testing was done. Come to find out some have fluctuations with FSH month to month. There are underlying reasons for having a high FSH such as thyroid and etc but that is fixable. As for my positive, I had elevated thyroid count that is fixable by medications.
I did do that test last month (this is my 2nd month actively TTC) and it was negative. (i mean the line was much lighter than the control line) Is that negative? or positive? 
