I just need to talk...

[AC1987]

Bfn for me at 9dpo. After bawling my eyes out after I told myself I would be strong this cycle, I've decided to not test early anymore. I know some people say they don't get a bfp til 13dpo. But I won't test again til I miss AF. *crosses fingers*

 

[Angel baby]

Yes, that is the only bad thing about testing early. It is possible for you to get a early BFP but not always. Hang in there! Your still 3 weeks pregnant!

 

[hoping4girl]

yes! I didn't get mine till 13, and some people say 16 is the magic number!! don't be sad, and don't test again!!!
thats a great great idea angel!!! if I had that option I totally would do that too!!!

right now....i'm tryign to keep my breakfast down...my scrambled eggs did not taste quite as good today as they did yesterday.....

 

[Angel baby]

I just found out this clinic does iuis too. Less monitoring and less costly. But I'm a little afraid to swap so quickly. I suggested to my hubby that maybe we should do a timed cycle with same meds but no insemination. This clinic breaks it down where as the specialist I see it's 950 regardless if you do the insemination or not. This clinic isn't open for weekends or holidays though. I really got kinda spoiled to that. Anyways... Decisions.. Decisions. I'm waiting on DH to tell me what he thinks. Really scared to start something and somewhere new. The lady I spoke to at the new clinic I made clear that I knew how this works and what I want. I'm sure she was like, "another bossy patient". But hey! Im a little wiser then I was 3 or 4 months ago with all this crappy fertility testing that is starting to SUCK!

 

[midg08]

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I'm so sorry, sweetie. I've been thinking about you! May I ask what type of work your husband is in? And where you are located? We have 5 offices in Illinois!

Well good morning lovely ladies!!

Computers.

 

[midg08]

So af should have started between the 5th and today. Im scared to test. With everything going on, I know it could be stress so I don't want to get my hopes up.

 

[Angel baby]

Nope because BFP come when things go to hell in a hand basket! Go test!!! I bet it's a BFP!! Woohoo!!!

 

[hoping4girl]

well i'm back! no beta hcg test, altho i did request one and they are doing quantative. hopefully. The nurse was super nice. She said tomorrow when I go see the doc he will probably give me some vag cream to make everything stick. like shoving glue up there!! LOL and the doc I seee is the infertility specialist, so if things go wrong he will do lots of testing afterwards to see what happened. She took 4 viles of blood...not sure I should have drove home!! other than that it was pretty much family history, pregnancy history, stuff like that. she said he probably won't do a scan till in january....oh i hope i make it that long!!!!

 

[Angel baby]

well i'm back! no beta hcg test, altho i did request one and they are doing quantative. hopefully. The nurse was super nice. She said tomorrow when I go see the doc he will probably give me some vag cream to make everything stick. like shoving glue up there!! LOL and the doc I seee is the infertility specialist, so if things go wrong he will do lots of testing afterwards to see what happened. She took 4 viles of blood...not sure I should have drove home!! other than that it was pretty much family history, pregnancy history, stuff like that. she said he probably won't do a scan till in january....oh i hope i make it that long!!!!

That's great news! Good your getting the super glue!! Good he is a specialist too! You will make it to your scan! Now you have things started and ready to roll! Woohoo!!!!

 

[hoping4girl]

i got a call from my nurse. the doc doesn't think a hcg test is really necessary right now, so he won't give theorders for one. so I get to sit here and just wonder....and hope everything is progressing. She said I could talk to him about it tomorrow...but i'm not very aggressive in a doc's office so I probably won't. I was nervous to ask to begin with. so....I guess we just wait and see. i hate waiting!!!! grr!!!! its like now i'm back in tww waiting for my scan...so the 4ww?? good thing its december and we are busy!!

 

[Angel baby]

I wouldn't worry about your numbers. You know your progressing and your numbers are more than likely good if the test line is darker or same color as the control line. Christmas time will make the 4ww go fast.

 

[AC1987]

Hoping well while you're waiting for a scan, we'll wait with you here!

 

[hoping4girl]

lol thanks girls! I still have the doc appt tomorrow....my husband gets to see another guy inbetween my legs!!!! BAHAHAHAHA!!!!

 

[italianqtpie]

Help! I just took day three of my Soy. First month trying it.

Does it for sure move your O day up? If so, can I stop taking the soy this cycle now since Dave won't be back until Saturday (CD 16?) when I usually O on 16-17?

HELP ME PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

 

[hoping4girl]

bree i wish i could help!!! i don't know anythign about the soy!! maybe it doesn't change it the first time, you know, like it needs time to get in your system?? i have no idea!!

 

[Mas1118]

Lol, it's good for him to see just what we women go through! At my clinic they have a money back guarantee if you do 3 fresh IVF cycles and it doesnt work you get 75% of your money back but there are all kinds of stipulations and it's 22000 dollars! Soooo much money!
My biggest thing I'm looking forward to this month is no monitoring and no drugs! Just lots of supplements and bding!

 

[Mas1118]

Bree, the clomid works kinda like clomid and can clomid made me o later in the cycle not earlier. Hope that helps.

 

[italianqtpie]

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[Angel baby]

Mas- my clinic charges that same price of 22,000. Looks to be the norm. Oh and to give a little hope about 12dpo beta. Check out betabase.info. I still don't have any hope but hey it was worth looking up! Lol!

Bree- I took soy last cycle, 160mg day 3-7. It didn't Bring mine up. It stayed the same. Everyone is different though. Jeo is on her 2cnd cycle of soy though. Maybe she can tell u what she did when she gets to the computer! Love the let's just talk thingy!!

 

[Angel baby]

It is so freaking cold in my house! I can't stand it any more! Going to go take a hot as hell bath until I start sweating like a pig!