Oh man, did i have a break down the other night with hubby. I was watching some DVD's we got from our insurance company and Similac (from a kit we got for free) and it was VERY informational! I was watching it, and hubby came home from an errand and noticed it and commented on it, but then went to his "man cave" and started watching football. I wa to the BRIM of me being the one putting forth the effort to learn about our new baby etc. and so i flipped out and started cryin sayding how i feel like somtimes i chose the wrong partner to marry and have a baby (hormones.... i know). So basically after i guilt tripped him he came and watched them with me, but it wasnt the same. I just wish he would do things on his own, it would make me feel like he cares more (even tho i know hes excited to be a dad, but i dont think he realizes it takes ALOT of work and its not always the fun stuff) I told him being a dad starts before the baby is born and hes been super sucky at it. If i could give him a grade, hed get a C!
All he tells me is "you didnt ask". and i snapped by "no one asks me to watch those DVDs or wash the babies clothes yadda yadda, but I STILL DO IT BC I WANT THE BEST FOR OUR BABY!"
sorry for the rant... just had to get it off my chest! Hopefully that gets his butt in gear now bc im really tired of having to feel like pulling teeth to get some help