January Snowdrops +*+* Testing Thread *+*+ Ring in the New Year with BFPs!

[littlewitch]

I can't wait for everyone to start testing. I really hope there are some BFP amongst us this cycle.

AFM, last cycle my husband was all about sex, super hot and into everything....and this cycle he is just acting weird. The times we got together in my fertile window orgasm was not easy for him. I am trying to give him space because he is just acting off and disconnected. It seems that he acts like this after every chemical pregnancy I have. I wish I had just kept my feelings to myself last month to avoid this awkward, cold energy.

 

[NDH]

So sorry your husband is being weird this month.

 

[Bevziibubble]

Sorry about your DH

 

[jellybeanxx]

@littlewitch that sounds so difficult, have you talked to him about it? Hope things improve for you both soon!

@Suggerhoney how were your tests this morning lovely?

@PinkCupcakes how have your OPKs been?

My temp dropped again this morning. I’ve also convinced myself that maybe there’s a line on the HPT today? I’m getting loads of cramping today and boobs are sore. So maybe I’m still about to ovulate? The OPK is positive this morning. I could also about to get AF. It’s like the most rubbish lottery. Who knows what will happen!

 

[Tasha36089]

@jellybeanxx im sure I see a line there!

 

[josephine3]

Hmm I can sorta see that @jellybeanxx.. I do sometimes get dark opks before af though. Its annoying cos I always hope it means something but then it's just af.
Aren't you only 5dpo today though like me at most? X

 

[josephine3]

What does the lower blue line on your chart mean if the top one is temp?

 

[Laurabub84]

@jellybeanxx I’m sorry your having a confusing cycle. They are the most frustrating thing. What was your temp like this morning?

@littlewitch sorry your dh is behaving weird. I hope he snaps out of it.

 

[josephine3]

I must try and learn charts!
@littlewitch how many dpo are you? Good luck for testing time it's great when we all come up to it together x

 

[Lucy3]

@Suggerhoney I took baby aspirin as my OB said to due to my autoimmune condition, it’s meant to help with implantation of the placenta cells. I also found an interesting study about using calc Fluo which is also meant to help with implantation so took that, which helped! I got it online from I herb. Hope that helps xx

 

[Laurabub84]

I’m still not feeling overly convinced by my temps. I really hope I have ovulated so I can get the first af out of the way. I don’t have any hope for a pregnancy because my temps just don’t seem high enough compared to my last two pregnancy’s. I’ve not been sleeping the best so I guess my temps may not be as reliable. Nothing to do but wait and see

 

[jellybeanxx]

@josephine3 the dark blue line is the temp and the lighter blue one underneath is my heart rate. I’m 6DPO according to FF and the clearblue OPKs but I’m really not sure.

@Laurabub84 my temp has dropped down over the last couple of days. I’m not sure FF has got my ovulation right. Sorry you’re feeling unsure about ovulation too, I wish there was a more definite way to know! I’ve tried using those ovulation confirmation strips before but not overly impressed with them either.

 

[josephine3]

@jellybeanxx oh I must have maybe posted the day after you before or after midnight lol I thought we were the same dpo x

 

[jellybeanxx]

Just did another OPK and HPT. I do think the most likely thing is my body failed to ovulate and is trying again BUT I do see a line on the HPT and it’s clearer than the FMU one from earlier. Wondfo shadows maybe?

 

[NightFlower]

Just did another OPK and HPT. I do think the most likely thing is my body failed to ovulate and is trying again BUT I do see a line on the HPT and it’s clearer than the FMU one from earlier. Wondfo shadows maybe?

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I see a shadow line on the hpt ..good luck

 

[tdog]

Just did another OPK and HPT. I do think the most likely thing is my body failed to ovulate and is trying again BUT I do see a line on the HPT and it’s clearer than the FMU one from earlier. Wondfo shadows maybe?

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I've never had a shadow that dark before tho xx

 

[Suggerhoney]

@jellybeanxx are doing the opk and the hpt at the same time? If so that will be why the hpt has a line. I don’t know why it does it but I tried it out when I had matching lines on my opk I dipped a opk in the same sample and got a faint line. I was only 1 or 2dpo. Really hope yours is the start of something tho hon. My wondfo were negative yesterday. Not even a shadow.

@Lucy3
I actually took baby aspirin 75mg from the moment I got lines with my son. That was after 4 chemicals. I did try taking it throughout my whole cycle earlier on, but sadly had another Chemical. So then I was told to only take from BFP as it thins lining,

I’ve actually had a transplant and I’m on immune suppressants so maybe I should try the aspirin again. I’m not sure. good too see you back , how have you been?

@josephine3
Last time I fell pregnant hon was at the end of May. So that’s 8 months ago now. No pregnancy since. So I don’t know that I can get pregnant anymore.


@NDH
I was also advised to take baby aspirin when pregnant to prevent pre eclampsia. But was already taking it with my son from the moment I got a BFP,


@littlewitch
I am sorry dh is acting strange


My temp dropped today. Quite a lot as well. I haven’t tested yet and don’t really want to.
I already know it will be another BFN and then I’ll know I am 100% out and I don’t want to face that. But I know I’ve got to.
Feeling extremely disappointed and frustrated. I just can’t keep going on like this. I want it so badly but if it’s not going to happen then it’s not going to happen.
Really feel like just giving up.
I’m probably too old now

 

[Suggerhoney]

I’ll add my chart. Af will be here in 3 to 6 days

 

[josephine3]

Oh I definitely see that @jellybeanxx!! Could you have ovulated any earlier? You are making me want to test

 

[josephine3]

@Suggerhoney sorry I just don't want you getting too down, 8 months ago really isn't that long when you think about it, I know it feels it to you though xx