June Testers Thread - gimme your dates

[msarkozi]

Lynne - I hope you are feeling better soon! Take care of yourself and try to get some rest

 

[lynne192]

thanks gutted at results and at the pain

 

[Ruskiegirl]

After reading your thread lynne im not even sure if i want to have this done now. I was going to ask for one since its been so long since i had a full term pregnancy or one that stuck past 7 weeks now i dont know if i could handle it im not a big pain taker myself. I hope you get feeling better soon

 

[lynne192]

you'll be fine its just me bad luck.

 

[Megg33k]

Aww... sweetie... We've all been so focused on the pain that no one mentioned the result much. I'm so sorry!

 

[lynne192]

its alright hun i feel i desever both the pain and the results, talking to my ex at the moment and i feel such a cow.

 

[Megg33k]

OH EM GEE! If that's how he's making you feel, then STOP TALKING TO HIM RIGHT THIS INSTANT! You deserve NEITHER! No, no, no! *slaps your hand* That is UNACCEPTABLE! You're absolutely lovely! I'll hear nothing of it!

 

[lynne192]

he's not, long story basically i am a slut and got pregnant with my ex before him while me and him were on a break but we thought my son was his, since finding out he wasn't i have been extremely guilty.

 

[lynne192]

plus not talked to him in about a year my friend is friends with him and because its my son's third birthday on tuesday he wanted to talk to me.

 

[Megg33k]

I don't think that makes you deserving of pain or bad news! We've all done things that we might be proud of or would do differently if we could go back. However, they serve to shape us into (most often) better people. We'd be nothing without out pasts. Embrace it and learn to forgive yourself. Its hard, I've had to do it. But, it feels tons better once you do!

 

[vickyd]

First ewcm, then temping and charting. It's a slippery slope Vic. I imagine that slope being slippery due to all the ewcm.

Remember that when you temp, it doesn't tell you that you've ovulated until after you've actually ovulated. So, the ewcm says you are about to Ov or are Ov'ing. The temps confirm that you've ov'd so you don't have to keep pressuring your man when he has medical issues and isn't feeling sexy.

Though, the pliers/vicodin/viagra route may be the way to go right now! I wonder if hot doc would approve?

Hmmm your description of chrting and temping sounds confusinggggg!!!
By the way i managed to bd last night WOOHOO!!! no plyers involved or ninja costumes (although i like the idea Lucy, maybe will buy one anyway just to spice it up!!!!). I was sitting beside him on the couch, he was cupping his cheek like a big sissy so i thought its now or never.....! So i pulled down his shorts and it only took a few min of os and he was good to go!!!!
I still have ewcm and ov pains so could be that im ov today instead of yesterday, god i wish i temped.....

Lynne i responded to your thread in the long term trying to conceive, but just wanna send you massive hugs and please stop thinking you did anything to deserve this pain and result, guilt is the most useless of all emotions...

Well im off to work, hope you all have a great day!!!

 

[lynne192]

I don't think that makes you deserving of pain or bad news! We've all done things that we might be proud of or would do differently if we could go back. However, they serve to shape us into (most often) better people. We'd be nothing without out pasts. Embrace it and learn to forgive yourself. Its hard, I've had to do it. But, it feels tons better once you do!

thanks don't think i agree on not deserving it but nothing i can do to change the hand i'm delt.

 

[MinnieMone]

Nato sweetie, I think it's a good idea for you to get a second opinion re the chinese herbalist, I would take what they said with a big dose of salt.

I went through a phase when I was travelling in Thailand where I tried (and believed) everything, cupping, iris reading, reiki, raw food, no eating (for 10 days!!), enemas, you name it I did it.... I even did of workshop on constellation therapy where you enacted one of the groups past lives and I ended up as the woman's dead spirit granny and another on 'womb cleansing'. I kid you not. It was a really f*cked up time for me, but I needed it then as I was in such a bad place, but looking back now I can see that I was just searching for anything and everything to try and stop feeling sad.

you need to find someone who you feel comfortable with (like counselling, one will suit one person whereas another might not feel right). No type of alternative therapy should make you feel bad, and a good practioner I believe would never have said what that woman said to you. A good alternative therapist would never feed off your fear. How the heck does she know that poor circulation caused your miscarriage, that makes me very cross. (cross face here).

Out of everything I tried, reiki was the most healing for me, and it might be something you could try. The Reiki Master I see in Bangkok told me to take out my belly button ring which I had had for about 15 years, he said it was blocking the energy through to my stomach and womb. He also told me take off all my silver/gold jewellery at night as that too was blocking all kinds of channels. It does seem strange that I fall pregnant the next year after all those years with nada.

anyway am rambling.... hope you feel better today.

PMA to everyone else too. I think July is going to be a good month. FX'd.

 

[Megg33k]

First ewcm, then temping and charting. It's a slippery slope Vic. I imagine that slope being slippery due to all the ewcm.

Remember that when you temp, it doesn't tell you that you've ovulated until after you've actually ovulated. So, the ewcm says you are about to Ov or are Ov'ing. The temps confirm that you've ov'd so you don't have to keep pressuring your man when he has medical issues and isn't feeling sexy.

Though, the pliers/vicodin/viagra route may be the way to go right now! I wonder if hot doc would approve?

Hmmm your description of chrting and temping sounds confusinggggg!!!
By the way i managed to bd last night WOOHOO!!! no plyers involved or ninja costumes (although i like the idea Lucy, maybe will buy one anyway just to spice it up!!!!). I was sitting beside him on the couch, he was cupping his cheek like a big sissy so i thought its now or never.....! So i pulled down his shorts and it only took a few min of os and he was good to go!!!!
I still have ewcm and ov pains so could be that im ov today instead of yesterday, god i wish i temped.....

Lynne i responded to your thread in the long term trying to conceive, but just wanna send you massive hugs and please stop thinking you did anything to deserve this pain and result, guilt is the most useless of all emotions...

Well im off to work, hope you all have a great day!!!

Truer words were never typed!

Btw, start temping now so you can get used to it, just in case you need to next cycle (not that you'll have a next cycle, as you're getting a BFP this time)! At best, you might get to see one low temp with a spike that sort of does show ov, iykwim? At worst, you'll be a pro before you need it again!

I don't think that makes you deserving of pain or bad news! We've all done things that we might be proud of or would do differently if we could go back. However, they serve to shape us into (most often) better people. We'd be nothing without out pasts. Embrace it and learn to forgive yourself. Its hard, I've had to do it. But, it feels tons better once you do!

thanks don't think i agree on not deserving it but nothing i can do to change the hand i'm delt.

Aww... Didn't you get the memo? I'm always right, sweetie! So, just get those thoughts out of your head! (Hoping that came through as subtle humor rather than blatant bitchiness!)

 

[Megg33k]

Nato sweetie, I think it's a good idea for you to get a second opinion re the chinese herbalist, I would take what they said with a big dose of salt.

I went through a phase when I was travelling in Thailand where I tried (and believed) everything, cupping, iris reading, reiki, raw food, no eating (for 10 days!!), enemas, you name it I did it.... I even did of workshop on constellation therapy where you enacted one of the groups past lives and I ended up as the woman's dead spirit granny and another on 'womb cleansing'. I kid you not. It was a really f*cked up time for me, but I needed it then as I was in such a bad place, but looking back now I can see that I was just searching for anything and everything to try and stop feeling sad.

you need to find someone who you feel comfortable with (like counselling, one will suit one person whereas another might not feel right). No type of alternative therapy should make you feel bad, and a good practioner I believe would never have said what that woman said to you. A good alternative therapist would never feed off your fear. How the heck does she know that poor circulation caused your miscarriage, that makes me very cross. (cross face here).

Out of everything I tried, reiki was the most healing for me, and it might be something you could try. The Reiki Master I see in Bangkok told me to take out my belly button ring which I had had for about 15 years, he said it was blocking the energy through to my stomach and womb. He also told me take off all my silver/gold jewellery at night as that too was blocking all kinds of channels. It does seem strange that I fall pregnant the next year after all those years with nada.

anyway am rambling.... hope you feel better today.

PMA to everyone else too. I think July is going to be a good month. FX'd.

I never remove my jewelry! Hmm... Food for thought!

 

[vickyd]

I have no jewlery....
seriously ive even lost my wedding ring

Yeah and Megg is always right, and not just saying that cause she said im gonna have a bfp this month

 

[Megg33k]

Vicky! That's as good a reason as any, yeah?

I sleep in my wedding ring and a necklace! Hmm... Perhaps I shouldn't?

 

[vickyd]

Look you said id get a bfp so thats that ok????? Ill track you down if a get a bfn and strangle you with your necklace... Wearing my ninja gear!!!

 

[Megg33k]

Yes, ma'am! I DID say it, and I AM always right! So, it can't possibly be untrue. Although, I curious about the ninja outfit! I'd love to see it, but if its a proper ninja outfit then we wouldn't see you at all, would we?

P.S. If you ever decide to strangle me with my necklace, please treat the pendant well! I do love it!

 

[lynne192]

I don't think that makes you deserving of pain or bad news! We've all done things that we might be proud of or would do differently if we could go back. However, they serve to shape us into (most often) better people. We'd be nothing without out pasts. Embrace it and learn to forgive yourself. Its hard, I've had to do it. But, it feels tons better once you do!

thanks don't think i agree on not deserving it but nothing i can do to change the hand i'm delt.

Aww... Didn't you get the memo? I'm always right, sweetie! So, just get those thoughts out of your head! (Hoping that came through as subtle humor rather than blatant bitchiness!)[/QUOTE]

hey hun its alright its just my burden to bear.