Hi ladies - Happy New Year! This is going to be a better one for all of us. It just has to be!
Nikki - welcome back! Missed you hun I am so sorry about the test result - how utterly awful.
Sally, I am still hoping for a miracle, lovely. Thinking of you
Good luck on the scan, feeble, hope everything goes ok. Will be thinking of you on the 5th, let us know how it goes.
Well, I went to the party and managed 2 hours before finding myself in floods of tears in a side room and having to drag the whole family home again (an hours drive, and we were meant to be staying over, so my autistic son was screaming, I was crying, it was awful). The other couples were loud, raucous, not my sort of people at all. I felt instantly excluded. I was fine until they arrived, but quickly started to descend into quietness, and then got upset. I just knew I couldn't stay there any longer. I felt terrible, and my friend felt awful too, because she didn't realise how important it was for me to have a quiet NY. I thought she would have understood that, or at least realised that inviting their friends without telling us wasn't the right thing to do, but I guess other people just don't get how this affects us. To be honest, though, I would have hated it even if I wasn't grieving. It just wasn't the evening I would have chosen. We have other mutual friends and any of them would have been fine. So feeling pretty crappy, but my lovely family have cheered me up no end. They are so supportive. I don't know what I would do without them.
Tanya and Blav - sorry AF got you Here's to next month, though! I am sure it will happen soon To answer your question, Tanya, my periods have been way more regular and 'normal' since I gave birth. Before I got pg, they were all over the place, heavy, irregular, spotting, etc. Now they are like clockwork with no spotting and only last a week. It's a miracle! I guess everyone is different.
Krissy - CD48! How crazy is that? Is it worth going to docs to get checked? Does it feel like AF is on her way at all?
Gemma - wish I knew more about IC, but I know plenty of ladies on here do. Hope you get some more info And yes, I am completely impatient too.
AFM...I am trying not to get my hopes up too much here. I did a test yesterday and BFN. I shouldn't even be trying yet, and there was only one BD right around what I think was O. I really have no idea, but I am cramping like crazy lately and AF is due Friday. Trying not to symptom spot, but I have acne, sore bbs, and nausea. All in my head, I just know it. Why do we torture ourselves like this? If it did happen this month it would be a serious miracle. I am so trying to convince myself it didn't happen, but it's very hard not to kind of wonder...so AGH let AF just come and put me out of my misery here! I need to wait to see kidney consultant anyway...I'm so foolish.
Thank you. I was wondering the same thing. She hasn't checked in in quite a while..Hey, has anyone heard from Susanne (Ellie10) ?
Tanya and Blav I'm sorry too that the witch got you. Hopefully 2012 will bring us all our rainbows.
GL Helen xxx
What would be the worst case scenario of getting pg before seeing the kidney specialist? If it is something that can easily be postponed I will keep my FX for a beaming by saturday
AFM- I dont feel her coming really But because of my charting, I have had 2 days down on the decline so I am guessing tomorrow they will drop below coverline and then within 2 more days AF should be here. I have no idea what went haywire this month. I have never ever ever had a cycle this long!!! I almost feel like there is some eery creepy stuff that has to do with this. Had AF come on time, I wouldnt have been able to try for the following (jan) cycle. But now that it has been so prolonged like this... I wont miss that window... AND by chance I do get it this month, I puts my EDD right around Hadlees. Within 2 weeks Some higher power made this happen to me so I can get my jan bfp Thats my random thought for the day
No, I'm def not out. I am not even due AF yet, I just tested early. I think I O'd around 22nd December, as I got a postive OPK on 21st and DTD on 21st, just the once, so I think my chances are there, but not exactly great. We shall see...
Bride2be-I'll check it out. I hope that AF gets you soon! OH and I both feel really positive about this cycle so we'll see how it goes! I want you to be my pregnancy buddy (maybe I can will your period to arrive???)