Hellylou
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Hi Gemma...
Well, that sounds horribly similar to our follow up, and a lot of ladies' appts here too. So often it's just a case of 'we have no idea but it shouldn't happen again'. In some ways that is reassuring, knowing there is no physical cause, but terrifying in that you don't know if you might be in the same situation some time in the future, god forbid!
I know that PPROM caused my loss with no medical reason for it, but I think I had an infection somewhere. Whether that came before the rupture, causing it, or after as a result of it, no one knows, but I had high temp a week before the waters started leaking, and then the pains started.
I think it's just one of those accidents of nature, unlikely to be repeated. For whatever reason, something went wrong in there. It's such a delicate process it's a miracle when it goes right, when you think about it!
Try to take this as a positive step forward. You know that medically there is no reason why it happened, therefore there is no reason why you wouldn't have a perfectly successful pregnancy next time. Just like some women can have an early loss, or several, followed by a successful pregnancy. Something went wrong in a very complex process but it's not likely to happen again.
Well, that sounds horribly similar to our follow up, and a lot of ladies' appts here too. So often it's just a case of 'we have no idea but it shouldn't happen again'. In some ways that is reassuring, knowing there is no physical cause, but terrifying in that you don't know if you might be in the same situation some time in the future, god forbid!
I know that PPROM caused my loss with no medical reason for it, but I think I had an infection somewhere. Whether that came before the rupture, causing it, or after as a result of it, no one knows, but I had high temp a week before the waters started leaking, and then the pains started.
I think it's just one of those accidents of nature, unlikely to be repeated. For whatever reason, something went wrong in there. It's such a delicate process it's a miracle when it goes right, when you think about it!
Try to take this as a positive step forward. You know that medically there is no reason why it happened, therefore there is no reason why you wouldn't have a perfectly successful pregnancy next time. Just like some women can have an early loss, or several, followed by a successful pregnancy. Something went wrong in a very complex process but it's not likely to happen again.