as.strong.as, thanks for explaining about ttts - I've never heard of it before. I'm so sorry for your beautiful little boys
Bentlee, welcome here, I'm so sorry that yet another person has to go through this, but I hope we can help you through this
Helen, I am keeping my all my fingers and toes crossed that everything is ok at your scan tomorrow. I know you'll let us know how it goes and I will be frantically checking here for updates. I've never heard of distance healing with reiki - how does that work? I'm very intrigued and perhaps tempted to take you up on your offer!
Kelly9 and everyone else who commented on people calling what happened to us a 'miscarriage' - I am totally with you all. I absolutely don't consider that I had a miscarriage, I just had to give birth to my baby early as he had passed away. He was a fully formed, perfect little man, much bigger than I had expected, with all his fingers and toes, beautiful little eyelids and cute little nose. I totally have to bite my tongue when people liken it to an early loss, as it is nowhere near the same thing, and think this will always make me angry. I can almost forgive people who have never had children for thinking this, as maybe they just don't know what happens at different stages of pregnancy and have never heard anything about second tri loss. But I've recently found out that one of my friends who has a child herself has likened the loss of my baby to some personal difficulties she had herself and I just can't believe she thinks they are even comparable. If it wasn't you all of you ladies, I would sometimes drive myself mad thinking that no-one else in the world truly understands what this loss has been like. I'm sorry that such sad events have brought us all here but glad I've found you all
PS am around 7dpo now, the countdown to poas madness has started! No symmtoms yet, but I've never noticed anything this early anyway. Andrea, maybe your tired achy thing could be a symptom....?!
Big love to everyone else
Bentlee, welcome here, I'm so sorry that yet another person has to go through this, but I hope we can help you through this
Helen, I am keeping my all my fingers and toes crossed that everything is ok at your scan tomorrow. I know you'll let us know how it goes and I will be frantically checking here for updates. I've never heard of distance healing with reiki - how does that work? I'm very intrigued and perhaps tempted to take you up on your offer!
Kelly9 and everyone else who commented on people calling what happened to us a 'miscarriage' - I am totally with you all. I absolutely don't consider that I had a miscarriage, I just had to give birth to my baby early as he had passed away. He was a fully formed, perfect little man, much bigger than I had expected, with all his fingers and toes, beautiful little eyelids and cute little nose. I totally have to bite my tongue when people liken it to an early loss, as it is nowhere near the same thing, and think this will always make me angry. I can almost forgive people who have never had children for thinking this, as maybe they just don't know what happens at different stages of pregnancy and have never heard anything about second tri loss. But I've recently found out that one of my friends who has a child herself has likened the loss of my baby to some personal difficulties she had herself and I just can't believe she thinks they are even comparable. If it wasn't you all of you ladies, I would sometimes drive myself mad thinking that no-one else in the world truly understands what this loss has been like. I'm sorry that such sad events have brought us all here but glad I've found you all
PS am around 7dpo now, the countdown to poas madness has started! No symmtoms yet, but I've never noticed anything this early anyway. Andrea, maybe your tired achy thing could be a symptom....?!
Big love to everyone else