Bride2b
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Andrea please dont let some TV show upset you sweetie Most TV shows are put on to cause controversy & points for people to agree & disagree with....thats entertainment. I dont think some of these TV stations actually even consider how sensitive some of these issues are to the people watching their shows. So many women have babies at a later age now, yes there are some risks but many babies are born healthy xxxx Follow your heart
There was a woman on 'One born every minute' this week who already had 4 kids (3 girls & a boy) she was only 27, and she was expecting her 5th. She pissed me off. She wasnt planning her pregnancy & seemed in two minds about the pregnancy as she didnt want anymore kids. Anyway she wanted another boy and really didnt want a girl. She openly said she would be disappointed if its a girl & her face will show she is. I was so bloody annoyed with her. Be flipping happy that you have a healthy baby, who cares if its a boy or a girl. I just though so many of us would give our right arm to be in her position. I would have thought a mother who has children would realise the miracle of it all and be pleased the baby is healthy regardless of its sex.
I did want a girl when I was pregnant before, only because I can identify with girls more. But I have to say I wasnt one bit disappointed that Bertie was a boy, he was my baby & I love him just as much as I would have loved a girl. Next time round I just dont care, I just want to take home a healthy baby xx
AFM: Looks like my chart says I OV'd Weds, even thought the OPK was negative. I think there was a very very very weak line but took ages to develop. I think this is negative though. I dont know much about these ICs. But I am sure I didnt OV this month.
Still havent managed to collect Berties ashes - OH hasnt been able to get off work early, so we've not managed to get there. He promises we will go tomorrow. I'm supposed to be back at work next Mon. But all this has just dragged on so much that I dont feel like I have been able to move on as in my opinion Bertie hasnt been laid to rest in the place he will be forever. I dont even know when the cemetary will be able to put him with OHs dad, I just cant go back while all this is happening. Its 9 weeks tomorrow. I think people think I should b over it all by now, but how can I be if we havent completed all the things to put him at rest. I am now really scared again that my doctor wont sign me off. I need time to finally take it all in without worrying that we havent had phone calls to arrange stuff.
There was a woman on 'One born every minute' this week who already had 4 kids (3 girls & a boy) she was only 27, and she was expecting her 5th. She pissed me off. She wasnt planning her pregnancy & seemed in two minds about the pregnancy as she didnt want anymore kids. Anyway she wanted another boy and really didnt want a girl. She openly said she would be disappointed if its a girl & her face will show she is. I was so bloody annoyed with her. Be flipping happy that you have a healthy baby, who cares if its a boy or a girl. I just though so many of us would give our right arm to be in her position. I would have thought a mother who has children would realise the miracle of it all and be pleased the baby is healthy regardless of its sex.
I did want a girl when I was pregnant before, only because I can identify with girls more. But I have to say I wasnt one bit disappointed that Bertie was a boy, he was my baby & I love him just as much as I would have loved a girl. Next time round I just dont care, I just want to take home a healthy baby xx
AFM: Looks like my chart says I OV'd Weds, even thought the OPK was negative. I think there was a very very very weak line but took ages to develop. I think this is negative though. I dont know much about these ICs. But I am sure I didnt OV this month.
Still havent managed to collect Berties ashes - OH hasnt been able to get off work early, so we've not managed to get there. He promises we will go tomorrow. I'm supposed to be back at work next Mon. But all this has just dragged on so much that I dont feel like I have been able to move on as in my opinion Bertie hasnt been laid to rest in the place he will be forever. I dont even know when the cemetary will be able to put him with OHs dad, I just cant go back while all this is happening. Its 9 weeks tomorrow. I think people think I should b over it all by now, but how can I be if we havent completed all the things to put him at rest. I am now really scared again that my doctor wont sign me off. I need time to finally take it all in without worrying that we havent had phone calls to arrange stuff.