Hi everyone, mind if I join in? About me..
My water broke in the early morning hours of April 13th, and I was rushed to L&D. The OB on call tried to assure me this wasn't my fault, there's nothing I could have done but there wasn't anything they could do to save my baby. They offered to induce but I chose to wait for my body to labor. I only felt cramps when my bladder filled up but that was it. My fluid levels were checked periodically and I had one vaginal exam. I was 3cm dilated and Azriel had some fluid around his head but his lower half had none. By the night, he had no fluid around him at all and no change by the next morning. I needed to go to the restroom when I woke up on Saturday since I didn't feel any of the pressure I was told about, I didn't ask for a bedpan. I sat down and felt a weird sensation down there and instinctively reached down and felt my baby's toes. Tears immediately filled my eyes as I rang for the nurse. They helped me back to bed and prepared a bedpan for me but I couldn't go anymore she then called for the OB to come in. She and the midwife on call, were as comforting toward me as they could be and expressed their sympathies for what I was about to do. It was so hard to let him go, I knew he was still alive but I couldn't hold him in anymore. So despite my heavy heart, I pushed. His chin got caught in my cervix and after resisting pain meds for the majority of my stay, I gave in and accepted. Azriel entered the world with a beating heart and was immediately placed on my chest. He had such a sweet little face and I kissed him and told him how much I loved him. His daddy couldn't be there with us so I put him on the phone so he could say his goodbyes. His brothers said theirs and after we hung up, I said my own goodbyes. He lived for just under an hour and I'm so proud of him for being so strong. I love him, I miss him and will never forget him. Rest in peace, my love, I hope to see you again someday.
When I got home that night, it took everything in me not to hop in my car, drive back to the hospital and ask for him back.
Thanks in advance to the creator of this group and all the ladies here..