Life after Loss Support Group........All Welcome :)

[jenny25]

hey sweetie this is us just getting our bfp since jamie we actually had been going through fertility testing since jan and we saw the consultant on friday who was going too put us on clomid and boom bfp today im only 8dpo but i got a positive on a frer and a clearblue digi so just shy of 4 weeks hun xxx congrats on your pregnancy hun xxx

 

[MissMaternal]

Wow congrats! I hope this one is sticky for you. How typical is that, to get your bfp just before you start clomid! Congrats hun, really hope things work out for you and that Jamie is up in the clouds playing with my angels xx

 

[jenny25]

i know its great hun im so happy too see you again hun its scary over this side of the woods i guess for our history my biggest aim for paul and i is to get to our 12 week scan and not see any problems xxx

 

[babesx3]

Hi Jenny!!!! I remember you from PAL spring/summer babies and often think of you...how are you? I see you are pregnant again, huge congrats! How far are you hun?

I had my scan today...and everything looks PERFECT! I am SO relieved. Obviously i can't relax until my 20 week scan, because that's when i lost Freya...But it's so good to know that we have a heartbeat The sonographer was so understanding of my situation and made sure she checked for a heartbeat before she did any checks, just to put my mind at rest I have been dated at 12 weeks 2 days. xx

thats fantastic news!!!!

 

[babesx3]

hey sweetie this is us just getting our bfp since jamie we actually had been going through fertility testing since jan and we saw the consultant on friday who was going too put us on clomid and boom bfp today im only 8dpo but i got a positive on a frer and a clearblue digi so just shy of 4 weeks hun xxx congrats on your pregnancy hun xxx

Congratulations!!! hope you have a happy healthy 9 months!!!

 

[jenny25]

thank you darling xxxx

 

[MaevesMummy]

hey sweetie this is us just getting our bfp since jamie we actually had been going through fertility testing since jan and we saw the consultant on friday who was going too put us on clomid and boom bfp today im only 8dpo but i got a positive on a frer and a clearblue digi so just shy of 4 weeks hun xxx congrats on your pregnancy hun xxx

Congrats!

 

[Imalia]

Just popping in to say I'm thinking of you Maeve's Mummy and Miss Maternal, hoping you're getting along well

 

[MissMaternal]

Hi imalia! I am well thankyou my doppler arrived today and I found the heartbeat straight away! We have also booked our privste gender scan for 21st august so I'm looking forward to that. How are you doing hun? Xxx

 

[iloveblue]

Hi everyone
I have been lurking but not posted for a while.
Hope everyone is okay x

MissM - I'm so pleased things are going well. You deserve it xx
Can I just ask if you are taking any medication this time?

Imalia - how are you? I remember you saying something about a possible new treatment plan, has anything come of that?

MaevesM - hope you and little one are still doing well. Not long to go now - how are you feeling? xx

Nats - how are you and little Hayden?

I'm enjoying not worrying about ttc at the moment.
Have appointment with local recurrent mc specialist on 1st Sept - so will reassess then, but don't think we will be trying again till next year.
But I'm fine - feeling positive.
Just finished for the school hols (I'm a teacher) and looking forward to having some adventures with my boys xx

 

[Imalia]

I'm still hanging in there. I think I have lost most of my faith and my hope, but I'm still to stubborn, or stupid to quit. One of the Dr's we saw did get us into a trial treatment, which we're starting in a few weeks and I am trying to be positive about that.

Right now a lot of my energy is focused elsewhere, it took just about everything I had to get through his birthday last week, and our dog is having puppies, so there's a lot going on.

 

[tootsiegb]

Hi everyone
I have been lurking but not posted for a while.
Hope everyone is okay x

MissM - I'm so pleased things are going well. You deserve it xx
Can I just ask if you are taking any medication this time?

Imalia - how are you? I remember you saying something about a possible new treatment plan, has anything come of that?

MaevesM - hope you and little one are still doing well. Not long to go now - how are you feeling? xx

Nats - how are you and little Hayden?

I'm enjoying not worrying about ttc at the moment.
Have appointment with local recurrent mc specialist on 1st Sept - so will reassess then, but don't think we will be trying again till next year.
But I'm fine - feeling positive.
Just finished for the school hols (I'm a teacher) and looking forward to having some adventures with my boys xx

I love blue I was wondering how you are. I am gald that you are seeing a specialist, I hope that it goes well. Have a nice 6 weeks off. I am ok. still trying to get preggers. Fingers croassed it will happen soon. xx

 

[MaevesMummy]

Hi there, I have had a very difficult few weeks I have been diagnosed as having IUGR, but everything seems ok so I am very very lucky.
I have been thinking of everyone on here lots.

iloveblue, it must be difficult but great you are being positive. I was wondering if you might have hughes syndrome like me? I hope you get some answers and hope. For both you and Imalia, I can not even begin to imagine the pain of loosing again, I feel very lucky that everything happened the other way round for me (early then 2nd tri) if any of us here can call ourselves lucky. I cant imagine the pain you have both suffered just want to send you big hugs. And everyone else TTC xxx
Nats, hope all is well with you and your cutie?
Tootsie, I will keep everything crossed for you.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[MissMaternal]

Hi everyone
I have been lurking but not posted for a while.
Hope everyone is okay x

MissM - I'm so pleased things are going well. You deserve it xx
Can I just ask if you are taking any medication this time?

Imalia - how are you? I remember you saying something about a possible new treatment plan, has anything come of that?

MaevesM - hope you and little one are still doing well. Not long to go now - how are you feeling? xx

Nats - how are you and little Hayden?

I'm enjoying not worrying about ttc at the moment.
Have appointment with local recurrent mc specialist on 1st Sept - so will reassess then, but don't think we will be trying again till next year.
But I'm fine - feeling positive.
Just finished for the school hols (I'm a teacher) and looking forward to having some adventures with my boys xx

Hey hun, the only medication i am taking is baby aspirin. Whether it is making any difference or not i will never know i guess! But i have been told to take it for the whole of my pregnancy.

I am glad you are feeling positive, and it is good that you have a date now for seeing the specialist....it gives you a milestone to reach, if that makes any sense at all! Enjoy your time off over the summer, my Mum is a school secretary and is looking forward to her time off too!

xxx

 

[iloveblue]

Hi there, I have had a very difficult few weeks I have been diagnosed as having IUGR, but everything seems ok so I am very very lucky.
I have been thinking of everyone on here lots.

iloveblue, it must be difficult but great you are being positive. I was wondering if you might have hughes syndrome like me? I hope you get some answers and hope. For both you and Imalia, I can not even begin to imagine the pain of loosing again, I feel very lucky that everything happened the other way round for me (early then 2nd tri) if any of us here can call ourselves lucky. I cant imagine the pain you have both suffered just want to send you big hugs. And everyone else TTC xxx
Nats, hope all is well with you and your cutie?
Tootsie, I will keep everything crossed for you.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sorry you've had a difficult few weeks - and hoping will all my heart it continues to go well for you.
I have had a look into Hughes Syndrome - I think I was tested for it after my late loss, but will need to doublecheck.
Do you have any symptoms with it?
The only thing I get that could be linked is migraines - and havn't had one for ages (touch wood).

 

[iloveblue]

Hi everyone
I have been lurking but not posted for a while.
Hope everyone is okay x

MissM - I'm so pleased things are going well. You deserve it xx
Can I just ask if you are taking any medication this time?

Imalia - how are you? I remember you saying something about a possible new treatment plan, has anything come of that?

MaevesM - hope you and little one are still doing well. Not long to go now - how are you feeling? xx

Nats - how are you and little Hayden?

I'm enjoying not worrying about ttc at the moment.
Have appointment with local recurrent mc specialist on 1st Sept - so will reassess then, but don't think we will be trying again till next year.
But I'm fine - feeling positive.
Just finished for the school hols (I'm a teacher) and looking forward to having some adventures with my boys xx

Hey hun, the only medication i am taking is baby aspirin. Whether it is making any difference or not i will never know i guess! But i have been told to take it for the whole of my pregnancy.

I am glad you are feeling positive, and it is good that you have a date now for seeing the specialist....it gives you a milestone to reach, if that makes any sense at all! Enjoy your time off over the summer, my Mum is a school secretary and is looking forward to her time off too!

xxx

I think I will definitely try the aspirin next time - and will be asking my consultant about it. How are you feeling?

 

[iloveblue]

Hi everyone
I have been lurking but not posted for a while.
Hope everyone is okay x

MissM - I'm so pleased things are going well. You deserve it xx
Can I just ask if you are taking any medication this time?

Imalia - how are you? I remember you saying something about a possible new treatment plan, has anything come of that?

MaevesM - hope you and little one are still doing well. Not long to go now - how are you feeling? xx

Nats - how are you and little Hayden?

I'm enjoying not worrying about ttc at the moment.
Have appointment with local recurrent mc specialist on 1st Sept - so will reassess then, but don't think we will be trying again till next year.
But I'm fine - feeling positive.
Just finished for the school hols (I'm a teacher) and looking forward to having some adventures with my boys xx

I love blue I was wondering how you are. I am gald that you are seeing a specialist, I hope that it goes well. Have a nice 6 weeks off. I am ok. still trying to get preggers. Fingers croassed it will happen soon. xx

Hope you get your BFP soon tootsie xxx

 

[iloveblue]

I'm still hanging in there. I think I have lost most of my faith and my hope, but I'm still to stubborn, or stupid to quit. One of the Dr's we saw did get us into a trial treatment, which we're starting in a few weeks and I am trying to be positive about that.

Right now a lot of my energy is focused elsewhere, it took just about everything I had to get through his birthday last week, and our dog is having puppies, so there's a lot going on.

I don't think its stupid to keep trying Imalia - don't give up. I'm really hoping the trial treatment helps for you xxx

 

[MaevesMummy]

iloveblue I have been seeing a lupus specialist for about 4 years for various autoimmune problems suspected Lupus (difficult to Diagnose) so it was a given I was High risk for hughes. I tested negative in week 5 of my pregnancy. The problems only appeared in blood tests after I delivered Maeve, they refused to test during the pregnancy (My gut instinct was there was something wrong). The tests afterwards had high antibody counts, this was about 8 weeks on... I would place money on a test being negative 6 months on from pregnancy. Some ladies only have issues during pregnancy, or never produce a positive test...
There are other thrombophillia issues they should be looking for too. Factor v Leiden and Lupus Anticoagulant. There is something called Natural Killer Cells to which is an immune system problem too, you could ask about a test for those. Another thing to get checked is thyroid problems. Some Dr's will also prescribe proestrogen, mine refused though.
I hope this helps. I might have had a difficult few weeks, but I know how damn lucky I am I can not imagine how heartbreaking it must be to have problems TTC, and more loss after a 2nd tri one. Sending everyone massive hugs and I have everything crossed for you all xxxxxx

 

[jenny25]

missmaternal - just popping back mc again on friday im now on the hunt to see if their is more to our losses other than antiphospholipid syndrome and pcos had enough now x