KamIAm
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Hi ladies,
I feel like an intruder as you all seem like good friends here. I am new to this part of the forum, almost a year ago I started lurking on the TTC forums, then graduated to first trimester in Aug when I got my BFP after what seemed like months of TTC & trying every trick in the book. Needless to say I was over the moon but always cautious about being pregnant. I posted my story earlier in this section of the site about my loss this week.
I feel a bit stronger after reading the messages people have left for me. I probably shouldnt even be thinking of this but.....how long did you all wait before trying again? From past ladies on here does it happen quite quickly in general as you are supposed to be more fertile after a baby?
I feel very lost not being pregnant & just want to be pregnant again.......now I know about labour and that I do actually have a maternal bone in my body (which I never thought I had) I dont feel scared that I couldnt cope with labour or that I wouldnt know what to do with a baby. I want to be a mum so desperately now....
Thanks ladies xx
Welcome Hon' ....
I hate that your lil guy was taken and you are now here with us.... But so glad you found your way here....
I found this website 8 months ago, right after my Emma was taken from me ... This has truely turned out to be the biggest blessing and my lifeline ...
Pretty much right after I gave birth to Emma those same feeling and desires came flooding in with me as well..... THink it's pretty natural ...
Once I went in to see my doctor at my 6 week recheck, he said for us to wait at least 3 months... To give myself and my body time to heal...
It took us a wee bit longer for our hearts and souls to be healed enough to start ttc again, this is only our 2nd cycle... (But if Emma was my first, I wouldn't have waited... I would have jumped right back into ttc....)
Good Luck Hon' and be kind and gentle on yourself.... One huge lesson I have learned in this journey (nightmare)... Mourn at your own pace... You do whatever YOU need to do ... There is no wrong or right way or definately NO time line in grief ...
We're always here for ya!!!