Luck of the BFP! Welcome back groupies and wevwelcome new friends!

[TTCaWee1]

I think that if DHs SA results come back good, I might try for another couple months since I just had the HSG, and if they aren't good then I'll prob do the surgery. One of the nurses I work with had one and had 3 successful pregnancies then on the 4th she abrupted. Baby lived but it was born at 20 something weeks along. I bet this is why my periods are so light....part of my uterus is not vascular?? Makes sense. I've been avoiding temping this month. I think I might temp this week just to confirm O but that's it. I'm trying to take it easy till we get the SA results and next months labs.

Emily - good luck at your scan!!! Bring back pics!!

I wonder how Kyla is...

 

[pdxmom]

Hi girls....
ive just been on and off lately but having been readin up on all of u...
Nichole..welcome...im sure ul love it with the awesome girls here
Rachel....awesome news for your hsg tht went so well...i know the desicion for the surgery is a worrying one...but from wat i would think id say its better to b safe than sorry...well this is just me hun...u can take your time and think it over...and ya dont u worry abt dhs sa...with everything we have to go thro they better just suck it up and do it...
Emily...gud luck for your scan today hun...first look at your little bean
Julie...u stole words outa my mouth wen u said things abt how u felt abt no exercising during the tww and thinking of startin next cycle which never happens...gosh i suck at it myself...i like the plan of eating loads of veggies and fruits to compensate all the junk...hehehhe...im a foodie too sweetie...cant tell u not to eat
over...i also think u may just want to consider taking an hpt...even with the low temps...and i think your covered fine if u bded sunday...spermies shud b gud even today if u dont dtd tonight....
Kyla..honey...hope u doin fine????
Afm...well same old same old...taking prenatals and folic acid...thinking of drinking green tea too...i was thinking ill start all the fertility stuff tht we talk abt in my waiting time to just c how to effects my cycle and my temps...wat do u girls think??? Also ive stil not had any bleeding at all from the misscarriage...just waiting for my period now....come on already
...let me c your pretty face...ff gave me tentative cross hairs for last thursday based on my temps....first time tht i got crosshairs as this is my first time temping...im gonna attach my chart in my signature ..pls have a look and let me know if it cud actualy b tht i ovulated after all???

 

[tryingandhope]

hey all! yes i'm here just reading lots... keeping up! sounds like it's not a super great month for anyone right now, everybody has some stuff going on but hey that's why we're all here right?
emily- thinking of you and your scan! woo hoo for pics! please post soon!

Alissa- you already know what i think about this month for you

Julie- i'm with you on the eating, man i love junk food waaaay too much you are so not alone in that fight at all!!!

Nichole- WELCOME!!!!!!! This is the best thread ever ever ever!!! So glad we picked up someone new, it's been awhile! Not that you ladies are getting stale or anything lol

Rachel- I'm glad DH's SA came back alright and I am still super hopeful for you. But when it comes to being 'high risk', you'll accept that there's not much you can do really and you just have to go with it. but i'm here for you my 'no bump yet buddy'

Afm, Good LORD it's been a long couple of days. Frickin' between AF (which has been kicking my ass to the EXTREME this month) talking to family friends and DEH (he's now going to be reffered to as Dear Ex Husband) i am so exhausted. We've decided to sell our house (too many memories anyway) so I had realtors over last night and everything went REALLY well. turns out our house is worth a lot more than we thought so it may turn out that we both walk away from this with some $$$$$ in our pockets. But then I looked at my new budget and i'm like 'whoa i am going to be so broke!' but that's ok, i'd much rather be 'poor' and broke then 'wealthy' and miserable. That's my spin on it today!

 

[tryingandhope]

OH and when I was showing the realtor the basement last night he was looking into the bathroom and said 'oh the floor is wet!'. turns out with all the spring thaw we've been having my basement is leaking water somewhere!! FANTASTIC!

 

[clynn11]

Alissa- that's definitely a super positive OPK. I still think you have your bases somewhat covered, and honestly hun- if you're O'ing today or tomorrow there's not too much you can do about it. Just try to relax and take things as they come But you are NOT OUT! And you have more willpower than me, I would have taken an HPT already hahaha. It's hard to say for sure with the missing temps.. but looks like you O'd to me.

Julie- Ohhhh I totally understand. My weakness? Bread. I'm not too much of a sweets girl, but good lord put any type of bread in front of me and I am a happy camper. It's no good lol... but I have no self-control either... contemplating going and making a bagel now. Mmmm. LOL.

Kyla- Good to hear your house is worth more than you though- that's a nice surprise! Not so nice about the leak and AF kicking your ass I hope she leaves you alone soon!

Emily- Eeeek good luck at your scan! You better post pics of your blob so we can oo and aah over it!

Rachel- Good news on the HSG. I'd probably do what you're talking about, if DH's SA is good continue naturally a month or two- then go ahead with the surgery. But that's just me

Nichole- Welcome!!! This is a wonderful group of ladies who provide support for EVERYTHING- not just TTC, so feel free to come here and rant about whatever, talk about whatever. This is a judgement free, nothing is TMI thread. Hehe

Mirolee- I'm going to try that visualizing my food thing. It actually sounds like a wonderful idea.

Nikki- I'll join in the SS now since I have something to report! Last night for about an hour before I went to bed, I had this weird tugging sensation on the right side near my belly button. The sensation actually woke me up this morning for a moment. Haven't felt anything again though since I've woken up.

 

[clynn11]

Oh and since we're showing off our doggies... These are my APBT's Dillinger and Delilah (Dilly is the fawn colored, Delilah is blue). They're the biggest babies ever, best friends are kitty cats, and say 'grandma' near them they start howling to go over to her house. Lol! I love my furbabies

 

[goldstns]

Kyla- awesome news about the house being worth more!!! You will pull through this, it will just be hard!

Cassidy- yay to SS buddy. However I have nothing to report right now Pulling is an AWESOME SS at the stage we are at!

 

[goldstns]

my only "SS" was my dream about IB spotting. I really hope I get IB spotting tomorrow on DH's bday.

PS. Cassidy wish your DH a happy one too!

 

[tryingandhope]

Loving all the furbaby pics by the way girls!

 

[NDTaber9211]

Thanks again for the warm welcome. You ladies are amazing.

Anyone have problems with annovulatory cycles? These past 6 months my pattern has been every other month being annovulatory. Knowing my chances to conceived are being slashed in half kills me a bit inside. I tried vitex but to no avail. It did absolutely nothing to help.

I've been to 2 doctors but both told me to come back after a year of trying. I looked into a fertility specialist but my medical insurance won't cover that and we don't have the money atm. Hopefully we catch the sticky bean one of my good months.

 

[goldstns]

Nichole- In the 8 cycles Iv been trying I have had 2 annov. cycle. My doc said that was normal. From what I can tell I don't think they were specific to one ov vs. the other. Yours sounds like one of your ovs aren't functioning since it is every other month.

 

[Lausie]

Wow! It has taken me like half an hour just to catch up on what's happened over the last day! Lol!

Welcome Nichole, like Kyla said nice to have a new face, I think we scare others away!

Kyla, result about the valuation! Kerching!!! Makes the blow abit easier to bear? You sound so together, very proud of you (without being patronising) most people who go through what your going through would crumble. I wish I had your strength.

Julie, aww hun feel your pain, I feel bad that I am prego and eating crap! I was so healthy before but now it's all junk junk junk!

Emily, post the scan piccy please!!!! Hope all went well hunny?

 

[pdxmom]

Nichole...i used to have annov cycles all the time before my doc put me onto clomid...y isnt your doc ready to look into u not having regular cycles??its not like your asking for the pregnancy thing???and also i did ask my doc abt the ovulating on either side on everyother cycle...he said the ovulation is totally random and definitely not alternative...

 

[NDTaber9211]

I don't know why with my Dr. She asked if I was trying and I told her yes. Maybe she thought I went in for fertility issues and not just for my wacky cycles. She did tell me to lose weight and see if that helps. I did gain a bunch of weight back (previously lost 70 pounds) stress eating through out my husbands cancer battle.

I actually have a question for you all. I just checked my CM and I have EWCM which is super weird. I am only cd8 and its normally sticky. This has super thrown me off. I NEVER have ewcm right now. Should I bd just in case??

 

[TTCaWee1]

Nichole, will your insurance cover a reproductive endocrinologist? When I looked into mine it said not covered for a "fertility" dr. But an RE is covered for fertility at 70/30 vs 80/20 for medical. If your insurance has a member website, try logging on and checking eligibility for endocrinology.

 

[TTCaWee1]

I get that early too. I think it has to do with the estrogen surge when your period ends? I think....

 

[NDTaber9211]

I get that early too. I think it has to do with the estrogen surge when your period ends? I think....

I check my cm all the time and having ewcm now is a change. Maybe it is because of the estrogen. I'll prob bd just in case. I know Dh won't mind

 

[tryingandhope]

Nichole- I've had early EWCM before too and for sure BD just in case! Go for it girl, can't hurt right?!

Laus- aww you give me too much credit my dear. I don't know if it's strength so much as life experiances have just hardened my emotions. I am just a professional at emotional detachment, that's all. it's kind of a curse really.
But I can honestly say, as crazy as it's been the last few days, my God I feel so relieved! I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders, i feel so free! Of course I feel like crap that I have to hurt DH in the process but wow looking out for #1 feels good. lol that probably sounded really horrible!

 

[goldstns]

Emily ??? How did it go ???

GL to whoever it was that has their re apt tomorrow....sorry I can't remember.

 

[HWPG]

Omg, golds, that is so funny - thanks! It's me with the RE appt! def made me lol!