March rainbows 2018

[karoolia]

Sweetkat it sounds like you're getting more comfortable sharing your news, that's great!

Our scan included 3D. We have a few face shots (including the one above), but the purpose was to check anatomy so it wasn't the same as just going for a 3D to look at the baby. I have thought about doing one later on, but DH isn't sold. The nearest place is 2 hours away and he doesn't think it's worth it.

Myshel - I would be nervous too in your situation. I agree with Sweetkat that the chances of it happening again are extremely slim. I'm sure you know that though. The nerves come regardless of logic. Hopefully time flies and you have a great scan.

 

[Sweetkat]

Karoolia, your face pics are amazing. I went for an anatomy scan privately 3 weeks ago and she did 3D but it's all blurry and can't make out the face. I think baby was moving too. She said for best results 3D should be done after 24 weeks but their website says 26 weeks. I am in London so there are lots of places that do it....

I have a 2d face image but can't make out the face from that

 

[karoolia]

Thanks Sweetkat! Ya, I don't know if my OB is just really good at what he does or if he has the best machine available, but even our 11 week 3D image was amazing. I actually just started a pregnancy journal if you want to see a few more face angles from my scan. They aren't much different, but I think they're fun to stare at (of course, haha). I also included some of our announcement photos.

 

[Sweetkat]

Karoolia, would love to see more photos. Is there a link to your journal?

 

[karoolia]

Yup, https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/pregnancy-journals/2450193-karoolias-pregnancy-journal-2.html I assume that will work

 

[Myshelsong]

Hi ladies, hope everyone's Halloween was good. Did anyone dress the bump? I did not, but again keeping it serect and not showing much anyways.

Tomorrow I have my follow up anatomy scan. Kind of freaking out but trying to stay positive and relaxed. Getting some stuff done around the house and working on some art projects to sell.

Anyone else doing a scan soon?

 

[karoolia]

Good luck with your scan Myshel!!

I thought about dressing my bump, but I'm still at the stage where I'm just thicker looking and sticking out some. It isn't a cute round bump so I decided not to bother. Maybe at Christmas time!

 

[Myshelsong]

Had my follow up anatomy scan today and all looks great! I forgot to get the weight, but this little one is right on track, 152bpm super wiggly and kicking away. We saw some really awesome movements, arching the back, kicking and even some swallowing. but of course I didn't feel anything - Stupid anterior placenta.
We are super over the moon, going to try to relax a little bit and enjoy the next few days feeling secure and pregnant. You never know how long this feeling will last for as a Pregnancy After Loss lady.

How's everyone doing?

 

[xkirstyx]

Hope everyone is good. Can't believe I'm 24weeks! Awesome milestone! X

 

[karoolia]

So glad the scan went well Myshel!! I knew it would. I'm so happy for you!

Kirsty that is an awesome milestone. Viability week!

We're on a little baby moon this weekend. We have been trying to spend a weekend in Chicago since we moved to the mid-west US, but have never managed. We finally found a weekend where we could each take a couple of days off. It wasn't meant to be a baby moon, but as our last trip pre-baby we've decided that's what it is.

 

[Myshelsong]

Fantastic mileston Kristi!

Karoolia- yay baby moon!
I have driven around Chicago, but never right through it, so have fun! Have a great weekend.
Think we might do a few weekends away from here until Feb, just simple little things to get out of the house while we can. Hubs seems on board so I am excited about it.

Doctor has agreed to do another ultrasound at 24 weeks just for our reassurance since we had that late loss. I am super happy with that idea. Once that happens I think I will be able to just ... relax? Lol probably not, but will feel a bit more reassured.

 

[darlingqueen]

Hi ladies glad things are going great for you all. I tried to reply on here a few days ago and it just wouldn't load it through so I gave up. Trying it again now lol
Had my scan today! I'll see if I can load a picture. Everything measured fine but there was one issue that is having me go to the level 2 tech tomorrow, the umbilical cord has only 2 vessels, not 3. Since everything else measured fine and genetics test came back good they aren't worried, but they want it verified by the hospitals level 2. They said once confirmed I'll have ultrasounds every 4 weeks to check growth, and nsts starting at 28 weeks to make sure she's on track because with SUA comes risk of low birth weight. I'm handling the news alright right now, from what I've read it's almost always good outcome as long as there isn't heart abnormalities, and there wasn't. But I'll feel better when I have the second scan tomorrow.

 

[Myshelsong]

Hi Darling, My brother was a two cord baby, they didn't know about it until his birth. He was really small but was a perfectly healthy baby once he gained weight and is now a healthy 28 year old fire fighter!

So my anxiety is super high, which is annoying. I am just being really paranoid about everything right now, I want this rainbow baby so much and this anterior placenta is the WORST!
On top of that I freaking pulled a groin muscle getting out of the car. So painful!

 

[darlingqueen]

That's good to know. The specialist told me they see it about once a week, and unless there's other markers, it's just another variation of normal. I went for the level 2 ultrasound today and everything was just fine and she's measuring 10oz and 19w3d and I'm 19w5d so that's pretty good I go back to the specialist in 6 weeks and then I'll have ultrasounds every 4 weeks and at some point I'll have to go for NSTs weekly. The doctor today said they want me to deliver no later than 39 weeks. but basically it just all depends on how her growth goes toward the end. I'm just glad she's starting out measuring almost on the dot right now and that I'll get to see her on ultrasound!

I'm so sorry you are anxious, I totally understand that. I was completely a wreck everyday until I finally started feeling her, then I calmed down some...but even then she'll get really still for a while and I'll start flipping out and then she goes back at it and I can relax again. I hope you start getting some reassuring kicks soon!! Anterior placenta has to be rough and ouch! those round ligaments can really hurt!!

 

[karoolia]

darlingqueen I'm sorry you have had some stressful days. It sounds like that isn't a big problem though and everything is going along as it should. I'm so glad your level two went so well!

Myshel - I can completely relate to the anxiety. I have been doing a lot better lately, but there are definitely still days when I worry. I still haven't felt many strong kicks, just the same small movements for weeks and can go for hours without feeling anything and that sometimes worries me. I hope you feel some good strong reassuring kicks soon. It really does help when you can feel something.

 

[Myshelsong]

Had some movements yesterday and didn't even get the Doppler out. Feeling super proud of myself.
Ugh this leg thing is awful. Not sure it is round ligament, but fu** it is painful.
I am slowly getting better. I can walk now, just have to make sure it is in a straight line. Weird sideways movements hurt too much.

How is everyone else doing?
Any plans this weekend?

Anyone heard from Maryanne, sweetkat?

 

[xkirstyx]

All good here. Husband is getting the snip tomorrow!!! Got a feeling I will be running round after him the next few days while he feels sorry for himself!!!

 

[loves_cookies]

Hi Ladies, I don't remember when I last checked in as I have struggled to cope all the way along.

Our baby boy Alexander Owen was born on Wednesday 8th November at 9:36pm at 19+4 weeks weighing 230g. Unfortunately it seems i've developed a incompetent cervix, this went unnoticed until it caused PPROM and an infection and we were unable to stop labour. He was born absolutely perfect and lived for 45 minutes but there was nothing any one could do to save him. We are beyond devastated and the guilt I feel is unbearable, even though I know there was nothing I could have done.

I'm rooting for you all as you continue on your journeys.

 

[maryanne1987]

So sorry I haven't been on in a while. I'm in the Facebook group for b&b march mums and forget to update here. I don't come on here often anymore. I hope your all well?

I'm ok. Had a rescan on little lady and she does have two kidneys, was so pleased. Bleed is still stable but her heartbeat is irregular. Seeing a fetal cardiologist in two weeks for more tests. 23 weeks today.

Oh love cookies immso so sorry. I hope your doing ok? Huge hugs x

 

[karoolia]

oh, cookies. I am so very very sorry to hear this. I'm not a hugger, but I desperately wish I could give you a big hug right now. I can't imagine the depth of grief and loss you feel. I hope you do know in your bones that this was not your fault. I know I would feel guilt no matter what, but we really shouldn't in these situations. I'm thinking about you