MAY 2018 Testing Group, Mother's Day Hopefuls: APRIL BFNs BRING MAY BFPs

[Dream143r]

TTC74 - Oh wow. I wish him a speedy recovery. I know we NEVER want to lose a cycle of trying but maybe a 1 cycle break will be just what you guys need to rejuvenate and get a BFP. FX You know I'm always rooting for you.

CD19/2DPO. I have an appointment to see a RE tomorrow morning. A little nervous but seriously ready to start an 'investigation' process with a specialist and get a plan in motion. Assuming we'll do a monitored cycle and then maybe move to IUI, I dunno.

 

[LuLu_TTC]

Hey everyone, looks like I am moving on to cycle #18 with you all. Looking ahead, my entire [expected] fertile week falls while we are in Jamaica for my sister's wedding. Talk about some good timing! Should get some great, stress-free BD'ing in this month

Starting my 3rd cycle on Femara and going back to days 5-9 this month to try to get a larger follie. FX

Dream - can you add me in for a May 22nd test date?

 

[Murphsmurph]

Hi all! Add me to test may 12th please! Baby dust to you all!!

 

[Ersurgeongirl]

Oh man... officially hit the 2ww lol

 

[MinnieMcMoose]

Oh man... officially hit the 2ww lol

Me too. Wish there was a way to make it go faster...

 

[crusherwife44]

So... these opk. . They don't really have any second line at the 5 minute mark and then always get one as it dries. Obviously after 5 minutes it doesn't count but I'm keeping all to see differences. When you finally get a positive does it immediately turn up or what? Or not until the 5 minute mark?

 

[crusherwife44]

Obviously none of those are positive BUT those second lines were all shadows at 5 minutes and gradually got darker

 

[Lady_Alysanne]

So... these opk. . They don't really have any second line at the 5 minute mark and then always get one as it dries. Obviously after 5 minutes it doesn't count but I'm keeping all to see differences. When you finally get a positive does it immediately turn up or what? Or not until the 5 minute mark?

It turned up almost immediately for me. Did you consider saving the pics within 5 minutes mark? That would also help to compare with a nice collage.

 

[Jessie7003]

I am having so much drama with my OH right now that I'm not even sure a baby would be good for us now! So hard to think about since I'm already definitely in the tww and I'm either 7dpo or only 2dpo. Knowing my luck with timing it will be this cycle I get a BFP and I won't even be able to be happy about it. This is gonna be a long 10 days. If I ovulated early I'll get AF early if I ovulated as usual it'll be 10 days away. And the worst is OH is away for 2 weeks today and we haven't even spoken other than for him to say if I am pregnant all he will care about is the child (after saying while angry that I can deal with the problem myself, the problem meaning the possible baby). My life is so confusing! How can you get past hearing that from your OH?!

 

[AliJo]

Jessie - That's so rough. I would be gutted if my DH said that to me. Personally I don't think I could get over it. I hold onto things, though.


9DPO over here. The way my cycles have been since returning these past several months AF should be here on Sat/Sun.

 

[Dream143r]

Jessie7003 - oh man I'm so sorry to hear this. Is that behaviour typical for him or abnormal. Are there stresses in his life triggering him. Def don't want to make excuses for him, it's not acceptable. I hope you guys can work through it and that he sincerely apologizes.

AFM CD20/3DPO got my crosshairs today. It's official.

 

[crusherwife44]

Jessie so sorry to hear all that. From experience with something kind of similar the only thing is prayer. God changed hearts and He loves you. I'll be praying for you guys.

 

[Jessie7003]

Jessie - That's so rough. I would be gutted if my DH said that to me. Personally I don't think I could get over it. I hold onto things, though.


9DPO over here. The way my cycles have been since returning these past several months AF should be here on Sat/Sun.

Don't think I can either tbh! So stressed

 

[Jessie7003]

Jessie7003 - oh man I'm so sorry to hear this. Is that behaviour typical for him or abnormal. Are there stresses in his life triggering him. Def don't want to make excuses for him, it's not acceptable. I hope you guys can work through it and that he sincerely apologizes.

AFM CD20/3DPO got my crosshairs today. It's official.

He does have anger issues and has been quite selfish in the past but that was about 3 years ago when our relationship was quite difficult. I'll just have to wait until he's home and have a chat with him and if I'm pregnant he will have to step up for the baby.

 

[Jessie7003]

Jessie so sorry to hear all that. From experience with something kind of similar the only thing is prayer. God changed hearts and He loves you. I'll be praying for you guys.

Thank you! Hopefully we figure it out!

 

[crusherwife44]

Lots of ewcm today!!! I won't see hubs until late afternoon tomorrow. Opk still not positive. Ahhh I hope this is perfect timing

 

[AliJo]

Jessie - The only way I could move forward is if I knew he was truly sorry for what he said and realized how much of an impact it made on you. I hope for the best for you!

 

[Jessie7003]

Jessie - The only way I could move forward is if I knew he was truly sorry for what he said and realized how much of an impact it made on you. I hope for the best for you!

Thank you very much!! He's text me saying his connection flight is delayed and just spoke generally. Still not too happy with him but maybe time apart will be good for us anyway!

 

[Jessie7003]

So how is everyone? Sorry to be all about me and my situation lol. Anyone any symptoms? I just feel tired and had lots of creamy white discharge.

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

I am possibly 3 dpo but honestly the way my temps are going I am not even sure I ovulated now. I have been sleeping terribly though so not sure they are even accurate. I am ready to fall asleep right at my desk today. How is everyone else? Sorry to hear about your DH Jessie. He should not be talking to you like that. Reminded me of my EX. ehhh