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Hi pinkclair,
it seems nice to have this gp as many people just don't 'get' what its like being linked to the military, whether its partner / hubby / wife etc. They can all look at the news about the wars etc and go 'oh, how terrible, poor people', and then you get the ones who say to you 'well, he is in the military, thats his job' - as if you werent aware - yes, thanks for reminding me! but it hits us linked to it all so much harder and you can't explain it to people. I am lucky that my hubby came back from Afghan in Jul 06 and is hopefully not going back for a long time, but have good friends whos partners have been out there so many times since, and family who have been out, come back and gone again. My darling hubby just spent 7 out of the last 12 mths away, but that was due to a long course for his career and then because of his job. It meant he missed our sons first birthday so we celebrated early, our 2nd wedding anniversary, valentines day etc and is now going away next week and missing our 3rd wedding anniversary too!! He loves his job, but isnt keen on the time he spends away. We are hoping that the next 12mths are better lol!
it seems nice to have this gp as many people just don't 'get' what its like being linked to the military, whether its partner / hubby / wife etc. They can all look at the news about the wars etc and go 'oh, how terrible, poor people', and then you get the ones who say to you 'well, he is in the military, thats his job' - as if you werent aware - yes, thanks for reminding me! but it hits us linked to it all so much harder and you can't explain it to people. I am lucky that my hubby came back from Afghan in Jul 06 and is hopefully not going back for a long time, but have good friends whos partners have been out there so many times since, and family who have been out, come back and gone again. My darling hubby just spent 7 out of the last 12 mths away, but that was due to a long course for his career and then because of his job. It meant he missed our sons first birthday so we celebrated early, our 2nd wedding anniversary, valentines day etc and is now going away next week and missing our 3rd wedding anniversary too!! He loves his job, but isnt keen on the time he spends away. We are hoping that the next 12mths are better lol!