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Moms of April/May/June 2010 babies thread! :)

owen never rocked, he bum shuffled! lololol! he just started crawling last week and can move at a good speed already! :wacko: and he can just go to somewhere and pull himself up and wreak havoc there. hope you have a playpen hannah!!!
 
i should go to bed as it's past midnight here but i'm scared to as i know owen will wake any moment. am going to have a quick shower i think now!
 
Maybe thankyou! :hugs: the more I think about it the more annoyed I'm getting. I think we need serious words.

I am so mad, and then part of me is worried, thinking has he had a bump or something and that's why he hasn't got back to me. Which just makes me more annoyed that he's making me worry!!! Why say you'll text if you won't? Argh!!!

I normally text him when I go to bed but I'm not going to tonight. Sod him. I don't think I could think of anything nice to say. If he can't be arsed to text me, I can't be arsed to text him.
 
I'm SO tempted to go and put the key in the lock, and kind of jam it in :haha:
 
Hannah, I think Daisy was about 4 weeks between? She was quite early (and heavy!) though which might have made it longer. You're going to need eyes in the back of your head soon :lol:
Sarah :hugs: men are soo inconsiderate sometimes. I used to hate when Vinny would be crap at staying in touch, luckily the only place he ever goes now is work and he works with his sister so I can stalk him if I need to :blush:
Maybe, I love that picture :cloud9:

Going to have a bit more of a read back now, I'm so crap at staying in touch.
 
H&F- congratulations :hugs: Men can say such hurtful things and I know when V does it, it always sticks iykwim. I hope he comes round xxx

Amy- I feel so sorry for Emily! Poor thing, I bet it feels like the end of the world for her :hugs: I'll bet you look fab in your suit. I look ridiculous in office clothes :haha:
 
Katie we miss you!!! Do you and Vinny part own the club? Sounds fab!

He just text, apparently he just saw that his battery was dead and went out to the car to charge it. They stayed in Leeds, and he's sorry for not texting.

:grr:
 
Glad he's okay and finally remembered to get in touch :lol: :kiss:

Yeah we part own with his sister and another man who is basically just a nuisance. Talking about buying him out soon because he's annoying! We've just got an event from.. somewhere. Sheff/Leeds/Hudds I think, coaches coming to Liverpool and a boat on the Albert Dock then the night in the club :happydance: May bank holiday I think, I can't wait! I'm tempted to put a pic on as the club looks fab!
 
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katie - sounds fab!!! put pics up!!!

sarah - glad steve got in touch! benefit of the doubt? or cold shoulder? :muaha:

well i cleared the kitchen and had a shower. owen's sleeping on the sofa. should i move him?
 
What is it with men today eh? :grr:

H&F - Massive :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: to you, i don't know what else to say apart from giving virtual hugs, i'm just speechless anyone could say something so cruel, especially to their fiancee. :nope:

Sarah - Glad Steve is alive and well in Leeds. God i hate it when OH doesn't text, i sit there imagining him dead in a ditch or something, and he's just pissed and too lazy to bother texting! :growlmad:

Katie - The club looks amazing!

Maybe - Hope Owen lets you snatch some sleep :hugs:


Well, just grrrrrrrr! OH has been a total dick too today, plus his work are being dicks too. I'm just so angry and upset and stressed now :cry: I'm in such a muddle. Grrr, i hate this sort of thing :(

OHs work have suddenly decided they aren't happy with the arrangements they agreed to when i went back to work, and are asking OH to work more hours and different shifts. Basically they are going back on all the concessions they made to make it possible for me to work. I'm now having to cram my work in around the hours OH has been given, and its making my life really really difficult :( I'm not sure if i can get all my work done, or whether i'll even be able to work enough hours. We are on a seriously tight budget, and if i can't work enough hours, then most likely we will have to sell the flat :cry: Argh, i'm just panicking loads :( To top it off, i found out that OH arranged everything verbally, and didn't have anything written down in a contract, or request form, so there is absolutely nothing we can do about it. I pointed out to OH that he should have gotten it written down, and he just went mad at me. He spent the last 3 hours shouting at me, and like always, bringing up everything i've ever done wrong, and made me feel really upset :cry: So ontop of all the stress this is causing, i'm now really miserable and angry at OH, he's gone to bed now, and i can't sleep. I think i'm going to go sleep on Roh's floor, as at least he'll smile at me and be pleased to see me in the morning :(

Bah, sorry, i know everyone else has more important things going on , i'm just all upset and needed to tell someone :cry:
 
:hugs: that's so unfair, why have they done that?! :(
I'm sorry you've fallen out, it sounds to me like your OH is feeling guilty and blaming himself. At least I know when V feels guilty, he reacts like that. Especially if he's feeling like he's not 'providing' iykwim?
I have no advice, I'm rubbish at work/legal stuff, but I really hope you manage to work something out with them xxxx
 
Emera :hugs: I hope you got some sleep and a lovely Roh smile / cuddle this morning :hugs: That's SO bad about your oh's work!! Do they realise how important it is that he has those hours? I'm so mad for you! And I agree with Katie too, Steve gets all defensive and nasty if he knows he's done something wrong and feels guilty. I hope he apologises today :hugs:

I think our shed needs an extension :haha:

Euromillions is a huge Rollover on Friday though - our May Baby Mansion is still on track :haha:

Well Steve came to bed at about 4am :grr: That's after saying at 11pm that he wouldn't be long, and promising yesterday that even though he was going out, he wouldn't be late and would get up with us to make a start of the garden. Well Steve on three hours sleep is the last person I want to spend my day with, so I've left him in bed. At 11am I'll start hoovering :haha: He's got to get all the prep and digging and everything for the garden done today before everything gets delivered tomorrow.

Is it a full moon or something? Bloomin Men!!!!!
 
Oliver just pulled the front off Steves x box and is having a great time banging it on the table. Ahhhhh I can't possibly stop him from having so much fun :rofl:

Oliver also got hold of the remote and put two and a half men on :rofl:

He's SO full of snot today, urgh, I hope he's not getting a cold!!!
 
Hey ladies, again sorry for not catching up properly.

I could've killed Dave last night ... he has tried to contact me this morning but to be honest I'm not interested at the moment. I know I should probably hear him out but I cant be bothered. He kept saying I still look fat and didnt I want to be thin for the wedding and before we had another baby. Argh my head is super messed up!

Hope everyone is ok, Ihave organised to go out for lunch today with a friend and I am going to order whatever I want ( on Daves card!)

Hope you all have a lovely day. x
 
HandF good for you! I can't believe the things that Dave has been saying to you! Honey I feel awful saying this but from what you've said - about his comments about your weight, your new pregnancy, and in the past about money etc etc . . . it really sounds like an emotionally abusive relationship. He might not physically abuse you, but mentally he really, really does. And that could be part of the reason why you have been feeling so down lately. He certainly doesn't seem to be helping how you feel. He is so controlling and downright nasty to you - lmost like he is going to grind you down until he is completely in control of you and you have nothing left.

Can you speak to your mum? Do you have anywhere to go if you were to leave? Or could you kick Dave out? It really sounds like you would be better off without him at the moment.

I know that's all easy for me to say, I'm just really worried about you :hugs:
 
H&F - :hugs: :hugs2: Men can be so arghhhhhhh bleep bleep bleep bleep sometimes. I am so sorry that Dave has been so mean about the BFP and your weight. I hope you manage to have a nice time with your friend and Amy today :hugs:

Sarah - glad you got the garden stuff sorted :thumbup: Make sure you take before and after pics to show us :winkwink:
Yay for your friends BFP :mrgreen: that is great news for her.
:grr: naughty bad Steve :growlmad: bad bad bad bad bad naughty bad :gun: I am glad he texted eventually but could he not have called or texted from another phone :shrug:
As for the shed, I think after hearing our petition the council would deny planning permission to extend in favour of making the men sleep outside instead :winkwink: I already have my euromillions ticket :thumbup: I love the name "May Baby Mansion"
:haha: at Oliver playing with the X-box mwhahahahaha. Wouldn't it be a shame if he pulled his nappy off and wee'd on a controller by accident :rofl:

L-C - Bless you with the poops. My friend swears by the Pampers simply dry nappies for containing poonami's. I hope Will ceases his terrorist activity in the bum dept soon.

Amy - Poor Emily :hugs: that is so mean! Are then any other boys at the school you can bribe to duff the nasty boy up :haha: I am sure the suit looks lovely :kiss:

:hi: Hannah - I hope you are all settled into the new house and that it is nicer than the old place. Joni has been kneeling and rocking since before Christmas and still no crawling :shrug: I wonder if the next week away at her Grandparents where all the floors are carpeted might produce forwards movement :-k

Maybebaby - I love the pic of Owen mopping :kiss: start em young :haha: I hope Owen gave you a vaguely respectable interval of rest last night.

Katie - Oh cool, I did not realise you and Vinny part own the club he works at :thumbup: The Gossip looks very sparkly, I love sparkly things :mrgreen:

Oh Emera :hugs: how rubbish. Why is it that men think that informal arrangements for really important things are ok :shrug: I am really sorry that he was so mean to you :hugs: and hope you can sort something out.

Modo - I hope you are ok honey. I love the video of Bobby on fb with the playpen door :cloud9: How is Hopey doing?

So I am 33 years young today, all the 3's thirty three. I have already had three birthday cakes since sunday; chocolate peanut butter cheesecake, chocolate muffins and a lovely Moomin shaped cake. I'm sure I have put on half a stone already :dohh: :blush:

HUbby just called me into Joni's room saying did I want my last present which turned out to be Joni's stinky nappy :rolleyes: Hubby is such a lightweight he was actually gagging when he was changing her :haha: and if I am honest on my scale of 1-10 of rank poops it was only about a 4/5. Thankfully my other gifts from him and JOni were not stinky in any way, shape or form :thumbup: Hubby treated me to the mixing bowls I have been eyeing up for about 18 mths now along with a new mug.

Most of today is going to be mooching around home getting our bags packed for our Scotland trip tomorrow. But this afternoon hubby, Joni and I are all off to pizza express for a birthday dinner with Ella and Grace :mrgreen: Hubby had just dressed Joni and is going to take her for a walk in the sunshine. I think I will hop in the shower while they are out and look to get the bulk of Joni's packing done.

I have submitting Joni's nursery application and she has her first settling in session on the 31st. She had a play with some of the the babies yesterday while hubby and I looked around and seemed to love it :thumbup:

Lots of love to you all :hugs: xxxx
 
h&f - i second what sarah has said. it does sound emotionally abusive :nope: how can he say you are fat when you have worked sooooooooo hard to lose so much weight already :shock:. it is awful. i am soooooooooo angry for you. i think you should let him sweat it out a bit. he has been really hurtful to you so it's no wonder you don't want to speak to him. i am still in shock at him saying you are fat!!! weight is a woman's achillies heel and men know that and it is awful that some men use that issue as a way to hurt their partner :nope:

sarah - i'd be well pissed off about him coming in late and not getting up. you let oliver smash the xbox up a bit :rofl:

emera - i cant believe that your OH work has gone back on what they arranged. i think that legally a verbal contract is still a contract. i will ask my sis later (she's a lawyer) when i see her at my parents house.

well it's my dad's 80th today :wacko: he is not impressed with being that old :rofl: he is in really good shape for his age and you'd think he was years younger. we're going to my parents for birthday tea and :cake: i'd best get off now as i have to pick dylan up in half an hour from school and then get erin and head up to my parents. i went to school today and spoke to my head and told him i'm thinking of extending my maternity leave til september. he was ok about it. i have to write to the director for education and see if i get permission. i will speak to danny about it later and hopefully we will make a concrete decision by the end of the week so i know for sure what's what and can set my sihgts on either returning in may or september :thumbup:
 
frufru - happy birthday :cake: have a wonderful day! :hugs::kiss: i am also 33! though i'm 34 in october :wacko: only feel about 20 though :rofl:
 

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