Moms of April/May/June 2010 babies thread! :)

[emera35]

FruFru - Yay, HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYY! Hope you have a wonderful rest of the day, and have a fab time in Scotland


H&F - I swear if my OH told me i looked fat, let alone the other things dave's been saying to you, i'd have kicked him in the head and told him to go fuck himself!!! 'scuse my language, but, no way should you be spoken to like that ever! You're a wonderful, classy lady, and looking very trim from your FB piccies He needs a serious wake up call

Sarah - Hope Oliver enjoys breaking the xbox

Maybe - Enjoy the tea and cake!


Well, i think i'm feeling calmer today, i'm still panicking about work, and angry that i'm being forced to have a much more difficult life as far as my shifts and workload goes. I guess my main priority is to make sure i can still earn enough money. Ah well, Roh is desperate for my attention and is shouting at me as i have my back to him typing. I'll just enjoy the morning cuddling my gorgeous little man before i have to work

 

[Sarahwoo]

Happy Birthday FruFru!!!!!!!!

Oliver had quite a good time with the xbox I did think about a bit of Oliver poop falling into one of Steves work shoes but I'll keep that one up my sleeve for now

My morning is going well, dispite a certain someone I ordered some new chair covers from the states and they have been stuck in customs for the past few days needing some missing paper work. I was just trying to track them this morning when the UPS guys arrived with them! And they are lovely, so I'm very pleased I also got two more contracts back (yay!) And the customs charge on my delivery wasn't as much as I had thought

Steve is up - I went in the shower while Oliver pottered around the bathroom and the postman came with some more parcels and woke Steve knocking on the door I'm been civil but I think he knows I'm pissed off as he seems to be on his best behaviour and hasn't mentioned last night. I'm not going to, I'm just going to wait for an apology.

 

[hope&faith09]

Happy Birthday Fru Fru.

Sarah - I think you have hit the nail on the head and I dont know what to do! I have no where I can go other than staying at the hotel and Dave refuses to leave. I am confused and dont even know if I love him anymore ... but my parents have spent so much money on this wedding. Argh I dont know what to do. Anyway Amy is fast asleep in my kingsize bed and room service is ordered!

Really hope everyone is getting on ok. I'm not sure if I should post in here as I am such a downer and with everything going on I have a feeling someone I know keeps looking on here and will start reporting back to Dave and others. x

 

[Windmills]

Happy birthday Frufru

H&F, don't worry about being down, everyone here wants to support you through bad times as well as the good

 

[Sarahwoo]

HandF if you think someone you know is reading your posts you could message us all on Facebook instead? I'm sure I speak for us all when I say that we are worried about you - we are your friends and we are here to support you, so don't stop talking to us

Do you have access to GS? Could you post in there for more privacy?

And re the money foe the wedding. Please don't stay and get married because the money your parents have spent. I'm sure your parents wouldn't want you in an abusive marriage for the sake of money.

I'm sure you've said before, but is there no way you could move in with your parents for a while? If not, you need to go to the council, because you are effectively homeless. I don't know much about all that but the girls in GS are so helpful, I'm sure someone in there would have some advice on what you need to do.

Please don't feel that you have to go back to Dave if you don't want to. There are other options

I hope its a nice hotel by the way

 

[hope&faith09]

Thanks Sarah - there is a user on here a lot and I think she is a friend of Daves who is nosy and someone I dislike alot.
Not sure if I have access to GS I will check.

The hotel is lovely and Dave is paying which is a bonus. I do love him but I dont - I really dont know how I am feeling. I contacted the council earlier and the waiting list is so long in this area but there is no chance of going home to my mums. Ahhh my head is so messed up. Ladies I am so sorry. x

 

[maybebaby3]

h&f - i agree with sarah. do not marry him just coz of money that has been spent! try and relax for your baby and amy's sake. post on here as much as you need/want. it is a good outlet for your feelings and we are all here for you

 

[maybebaby3]

i have been speaking to h&f, well computer speaking! she is in the hotel and safe and well. she is going to rest now but just to let you all know she's ok as i know you are all worried about her.

 

[x__Hannah__x]

Hope your ok H&F

Well pretty sure I can see 3 more teeth on Amelia's gums

 

[Mork]

Hello April/May/June Mummies,
Just wanted to let you all know that I follow the thread - just because i am a May mummy and like to be reassured by you all!! I didnt want any of you to think i was one of these stalkers that a couple of you are having trouble with - I dont know any of you and if I did I believe what is on here stays on here!!! Anyway, hugs to those of you having tough times, smiles to those who are ok at the mo and well done everyone on this thread for having such lovely babies and for being such good mummies!!! xx

 

[Sarahwoo]

Hey Mork!

Thats so sweet of you to post

You know you can join in and post with us any time but if you'd rather just read, I'm sure none of us mind

x

 

[Sarahwoo]

I'll try to post properly in a bit . . . my netbook if refusing to go online again so I'm fighting Steve for the laptop He's just cooking tea (a bit flippin late - I'm STARVING!) but if I can get on again shortly I will, if not I'll check from my phone and do a mini post

Love to you all!

xx

 

[Mork]

Thankyou Sarahwoo!!! You girls seem to know each other so well that I would hate to impose!! But now you have invited me I may just suprise myself and you!!!!! lol!! xx

 

[Sarahwoo]

Oh you wouldn't be imposing!!!! We would love you to post!! Really do if you would like to, as I'm sure you know we're all very friendly (if slightly bonkers ), really you're more than welcome to join us!

 

[A3my]

maybe - yey! so glad you are feeling better xxx Happy Birthday to your Dad! good luck with the decision making

hannah - aww poor Amelia. That must have been really hard for you, is she getting better now? Alex was crawling within 2 weeks of the rocking, then its all systems go! How are your wedding plans coming along? Have you managed to move into a better house?

sarah - I HATE it when Kerry does that. He still doesnt understand why I just like to know whats going on due to having children. He rarely goes out but never bothers to text when he does glad he text in the end. That also annoys me, why cant they be in control of their phone batteries I love the image of Oliver banging away with the front of the xbox

frufru - Happy Birthday to youuuuuuuu!
I love the last present hubby gave you Kerry is a lightweight too. It does make me giggle I hope you have a lovely time in Scotland and I'm glad Joni's nursery session went well Holly had already offered to punch Harry (the dumper) on the nose obviously I told her not too

Katie - I LOVE your avatar!!! she's so gorgeous (like her mum obviously!!)
the club looks fab!!

emera - christ how aggravating!!! its SOOO hard trying to get the right work/life balance when you have children. And its even worse when work stress infringes on family life that that and causes rows. Can your OH go in again and talk to them, is there any way round it? I hope something works out for you xxx

H&F - you go girl!! honestly, despite being older than you it seems Dave is very immature with his pathetic comments! You're looking fab, you've lost a ton of weight! And being pregnant doesnt make you fat anyway. I hope you spoilt yourself at lunch xx You dont have to make any long term decisions at the moment, take some time to work out what you really want. I have a friend who got married becasue she was worried about the money her parents had spent but the marriage lasted 2 months and they split. Money doesnt matter, your life and happiness does

mork - you're not imposing! I remember you from the pregnancy thread so you're an old pal. How are you and your LO?

Well I think I might be coming down with something as I am feeling a bit dodgy. Kerry bought me some easter eggs today which was sweet. Nothing much else to report here!x

 

[maybebaby3]

Amy - hope you aren't coming down with something. the lack of sleep has to lower defenses though!

sarah - hope your late tea was nice!

mork - you used to post on the may babies pregnancy thread didnt you? you should join us

we had nice at my parents. am tired. going to watch the re-run of eastenders and then bed i think! to all xxx

 

[Mork]

Aw thanks for making me feel so welcome ladies!!! I will try to post now!!! Me and LO are fine - although she has been sleeping more than usual today and has been asleep since 4pm now - very strange?! Hope she is not coming down with something
xx

 

[emera35]

Evening.

H&F - Big thinking of you hon you don't need to rush anything, just take your time and have a good think about when you want to do. Like Amy said, there are more important things than money, and you know your family who love you will understand whatever decison you make. It can be really hard if your are in an abusive relationship, whatever level its at, even only mild bullying. I was in an abusive relationship, both mental and physical, and even when things reached a peak, and some really awful things happened in my life because of it, i kept going back because i loved him, i just kept thinking he would change i think. Even now almost 20 years down the line i still don't understand exactly how i felt at the time.

Amy - Hope you managed to fight off whatever is trying to get you!

Sarah - Hope you got fed in the end?!

Mork - Hi! I remember you posting in the pregnancy thread too Feel free to post whenever you like, or if not then stalk away to your hearts content!!

Maybe - Glad you had a nice tea


God, i had the worst day at work! I felt sooo stressed and everything went wrong because of it! I had a meeting with my bosses today, as a result of having to change my hours, and it really wasn't as reassuring as i'd hoped They are concerned about my availablity now, and used the oppertunity of me needing to change things to say they were concerned about my lack of flexibility. I was so suprised, as they've not said anything about that to me before They also told me about some complains about quality issues. Anyway, so now i'm even more worried about everything, and i suddenly feel like my job isn't safe anymore I spent most the afternoon in tears, and i haven't really got as much as i needed to do done. I'm going to have a horrible day tomorrow because of it. Argh, its all so stressful.
On the plus side, OH and i have cleared the air, and we sat down this evening to try and work out what we can do to make things easier. Turns out there might be a vacancy at OH's work. If i'm totally honest, its not a job i'm really excited about, but we are sooo stuck for money right now, and i would earn a bit more than i currently am. It would just make things massivly more simple with regards to sorting our shifts out, and would solve all the problems OH's work have, plus solve our problems, and in a strange way would sort out the concerns work have with my job too, in that they could just hire someone else. I really don't know, but right now i'm clinging to that idea, because the situation as it stands is making me so panicky and stressed, and i don't need it. If i do change jobs, i need to do it RIGHT NOW! Because its about 6 days until my period is due, and we've been ttc, so god knows, i could be pregnant If i find out i'm pregnant before i get another job confirmed, i'm going to be kind of stuck where i am.

 

[A3my]

maybe - glad you had a nice time with your parents

Mork - asleep since 4!! wow, thats a long sleep! is she normally a good sleeper?x

 

[A3my]

emera - thats awful how work are treating you! I know the other job isnt ideal but it sounds like it would solve so many worries and to have that stress lifted off your shoulders would mean you could enjoy life out of work more! x