, yeah I m in NYc..and we are planning to go for fireworks..but the weather says its gonna rain so letsc!...
I love how we've all become a little family! We will all get there when the time is right. Yes, it is Independance Day here in the U.S. tomorrow and my DH and I have the day off as well!! 
3 day weekend for me, but my honey has to work on Saturday. 
I'm not sure what we'll do tomorrow. Probably go golfing, my DH LOVES to golf and I'm trying to learn. It's SOOO hard!! But I enjoy going out with him. It's relaxing. Then we will probably go watch the fireworks. I have officially been done with my mc for a couple days now. Thank God! 
I'm actually feeling pretty positive, just trying to be patient for my AF to start before trying again. I hate being patient. 
Haha! This is worse than the TTW because I don't know when it will come. 
Hoping for it to show up by the end of the month at the lastest, but we'll see. I love all the baby names!! I have today and then next Mon-Fri at work and then I'm on vacation!! I can't wait!! I seriously need one! It's too bad my DH and I have to wait to try again, because our vacation is just the 2 of us and it would be the perfect time to try. But I have to listen to my doctor. Maybe we'll just practice with protection. Haha!! 
Glad everyone seems to be doing well. Love you ladies!! 
Ok so we BD'd eod starting about a week before I figured I would probably ovulate. I would always stay laying on my back for about 15 minutes afterwards to allow time for the sperm to start their process before jumping up and having gravity pull them down. I think I ovulated on a Friday, we actually didn't have sex that day, but we did on Thursday and Saturday. Then I was afraid if I ovulated later than I thought that we should try to BD one more time, so we did again on the Wednesday after the Friday I thought I ovulated. Sperm can live in your body anywhere from 3-5 days or so. So they say eod is good because it gives the mans sperm enough time to build up again and you will constantly have sperm in there. You want to make sure you have sperm waiting for your egg to drop because your egg is only good for 12-24 hours. So if you don't have sperm waiting to fertilize it, sometimes your timing is too late. After we did all that I literally continued to try to relax. I did eat some pineapple, but didn't really eat the core. So who knows if that did anything. LOL!! I also took some baby asprin for a few days around the time implantation would take place because I read somewhere that it can help with that process, but you don't want to take it when you are pregnant. So I just did a few days right around implantation time. But I don't know if that actually did anything either. It could have been a combination of all of that, or just because I relaxed. I also would check my CM and CP daily. I always checked it in the evenings after work because that is when your CM is at it's peak. When I ovulate my cervix moves up high to where I can barely touch it, it's open and pretty soft. When I am not fertile, it's low, hard and closed. Your CM goes through stages. It starts out real dry right after your AF, then it will get kind of sticky, kind of like rubber cement, then it will start to get watery, then it moves on to being ewcm which is the most fertile type, then it will do back to watery, rubber cement like and then back to dry right before your AF starts again. All women are different, so don't be worried if you don't see all these types of CM or your CP doesn't move too much. My ewcm sometimes will last a couple days, last cycle I had it once when I wiped and then didn't notice it again. If you're comfortable with checking your CP, I would always check my CM then as well. It's easier than trying to figure out what's on the toilet paper. I've also heard that missionary or doggie style are the best ways for the man's sperm to get closest to the cervix opening. But other websites have said it does not matter what position you are in. I know that women on top isn't always the best because gravity isn't helping. So there's my LONG advice on how to get pregnant. Hahahahaha!!! Let me know if you have any questions about your CM or CP, I'm open to answer any questons! No such thing as TMI here!! 
Good morning ladies!! Thank you Khatif for your kind words.
ALMOST vacation time! You crack me up Pearly! LOL!!
You guys are awesome hahah
I haven't heard about the baby aspirin but I did eat pineapple and I've been pretty positive for the most part - except a couple of days when my spirits were down. I was relaxed because I was positive, but we still bd'd every other day and then daily when I got the positive OPK, so I hope it all worked out!
I'm glad everyone else is keeping a positive attitude! I decided to dye my hair burgundy in an attempt to cheer myself up. It worked. We also talked about getting a kitten just because I'm sooooo bored in the days when hubby is at work. But after careful consideration we decided that we weren't going to get a cat because a new baby (if we get pregnant soon) & a kitten just won't mix! Besides, we're due to move soon & who knows if that place will be pet friendly.
All in all. My new hair has helped lighten the mood! Hahaha. Such a girl.....
I was wondering what you ladies thought of getting in the bath tub? I suppose it wouldn't be the best idea around ovulation? Maybe?
I was also laughing with my mother in law. My hubby was 10 pounds when he was born and 24 inches long!!!!!!!! & his head measured the size of a four month old!!!!! Dear lord, bless me with a smaller baby than my husband was.
thanks again Hun!
I was devastated when the first cycle failed but since then I think 1) it can take a while for a perfectly healthy couple 2) even if there is a problem it is most likely to be sth fixable
