Never used opk, updated - let the journey begin :)

[JAM1611]

Thanks. i just need to get it to happen. Its a simple idea but such a special one (i hope) lol xx

 

[Bumblebee24]

Ok so Ive been quite concerned about being told again about polycystic ovaries and trying to research and think I've found some reassuring info

 

[BB1982]

Jam, that’s a lovely idea! I hope it’s a beautiful sunset for you.
Bumble, I don’t know much at all about PCSO. Do you know what they’ve seen in the scan that makes them think you may have it? Xx

 

[JAM1611]

I know a few ladies that have PCOS and they have all had children. Its just taken them a little longer as their cycles are slightly longer. But your cycles seem to be okay Bumble so thats a positive.

I really want to do my idea but OH is making it impossible!! He has said if its cloudy he doesn’t want to go! Anddd i have a feeling the inlaws will want to come too! Xx

 

[Bumblebee24]

They haven't really said much other than my ovaries present those of a lady who has polycystic ovaries. They said my ovaries are bulky?
From what Ive read I may have polycystic ovaries just not the syndrome bit which is the part that plays a role in struggling to get pregnant x

 

[JAM1611]

Ahh right. My mistake I didn’t realise that they were different. Xxx

 

[Bumblebee24]

No me neither never really has to think about it to be fair xx

Good luck tomorrow with telling your ohx

 

[JAM1611]

Thanks bumble. Will keep you all updated xxx

 

[JAM1611]

So. Ive told him. We were sat on a cute bench looking out to sea and i just handed him a key chain (pic attached) then gave him my test from yesterday. Hes happy but also nervous as its still so early. I started crying but happy tears of course. I was shaking like a leaf! Xxx

 

[BB1982]

That’s so sweet!! Well done, I just blurted it out both times!! Xx

 

[Bumblebee24]

Very sweet

 

[JAM1611]

Thanks ladies.

How are you feeling Bumble?

Hows the BF going BB?

Any update with you Mme?

Xx

 

[Bumblebee24]

Got a negative pregnancy test today. Me and hubby finally got to have sex last night. I could tell he wasn't really keen but ohh well, after what we've been through.

I feel it won't happen this month but sometimes is telling me next month maybe the one. Here's hoping but time will tell. Currently knee deep in wallpaper paste. I promise my DD she could have her room decorated for her 5th birthday what was I thinking x suppose it keeps my mind occupied xx

 

[JAM1611]

Well fingers crossed for next month then! You going to do opks?

Oh no! Lol! Bet she will love it though when its all finished

Xx

 

[mme]

Hi ladies

Omg jam ! Massive congratulations I’m so happy for you ! I’ve missed so much !

Had a busy week at work, had my gp appointment today and all I’ve done is cry ! He told me they gynaecologist was wrong! There are no fertility referrals and if you already have a child. Nothing they can do for me unless I’m willing to pay he said. He’s going to write to the gynaecologist asking why she has given me false hope. I’m so gutted I can’t even describe it. It’s been 19 months and we both now feel after today that we need to discuss how long we go on for like this. Dd will be 7 if it doesn’t happen this cycle, gap is getting too big now. No idea when or if I ovulated, been working long days and when I’ve tested not had a positive so I’m anywhere between 2-7dpo going on not far off tests.

Bumble I hope your not waiting long for the bfp, it will prob take time for your hubby but he did do it which is good. Does the miscarriage count as start of a cycle then ? Or do you wait till when you come on next ? I’ve no idea xxx

 

[BB1982]

Oh mme, how awful, to be told something as important as that and it be wrong, that’s just terrible.

Bumble, good that you and DH are still physical. Something like a miscarriage can really effect a relationship so I’m pleased to hear you’ve been able to dtd and remain intimate.

Am I supposed to wait until my 6 week check up? I’m still lightly bleeding but not much now and I didn’t need stitches or anything so I’m guessing now I’m not sore I could try sex? I seriously have the most patient DH ever, it must be nearing months now!! I’m starting to feel guilty. (And obviously I enjoy our bedtime boogies!).

 

[Bumblebee24]

MME I am so so sorry hun, I honestly don't know what to say. I listened to a short podcast the other day. It maybe quite interesting. They specialise in long term TTC, second child infertility, late miscarriage etc. The hospital is call at Thomas hospital not 100% sure where it is. But maybe if you got in touch write.email reach out for help see if they can advise you on where to go,what to do. Somewhere local?
Sending you a massive hug chic xxx
iPM - Inside the high-risk pregnancy clinic - @bbcradio4 BBC Radio 4 - iPM, Inside the high-risk pregnancy clinic

 

[Bumblebee24]

BB in the last month or 2 then probably pushing nearly 6 weeks after my DD I didn't even touch my DH. I was shattered and couldnt imagine wasting valuable sleeping/relaxing time by having sex x

 

[BB1982]

Yeah I was the same after DS, and then a (very) brief surge when I knew we would be TTC then back into the morning sickness/pregnant/recovering cycle again! Xx

 

[Mum42crazy]

Sex after a baby is not something I enjoyed, and when I miscarried I was even worse, saying that as I've got older and a new partner I just love sex, I want it more than him and as we have to do IVF the pressure of TTC Naturally isn't there so the bedroom fun is very good, but I kinda think maybe I’m getting it all in now because I know what I’m like after giving birth (if we are lucky to be successful) I keep saying to him to enjoy it now because he may have a long time to wait after, lol.