Just a quick question to the November 2011 ladies. When do you contact the docs etc? Its been 5 years since I had my daughter and back then they didn't want to know until you were 12 weeks? Don't know who to ask as I am trying to keep my pregnancy quiet (apart from my very close friends and DH) as several members of staff where I work announced their pregnancies very early for them not to work out. Not wanting to scare anyone because there were other problems that they had, they weren't exactly all fit and healthy to start with! I also suffered a mc in 2008, it was "easier" if it makes sense not wanting to sound callous, because no-one actually knew I was expecting.
Thanks ladies and to all.
Thanks ladies and to all.