Reyannawolf
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caved and tested today on 4 hr hold at 9 dop. but negative, so wont test again for a couple days. but for some reason just feel out with negative today.
Dont feel out-most people only implant on 9dpo....for me i feel out when a frer is neg at 11dpo as i know its possible to show up after but its not as likely.caved and tested today on 4 hr hold at 9 dop. but negative, so wont test again for a couple days. but for some reason just feel out with negative today.
You're so right, i dont think he'd insist we stop but i would find it much harder if i knew he wasn't really on board and also its hard bding so much around O with 2 kids around already and he works a lot of night shifts-i need him co-operating willingly not begrudgingly iykwim?! Hopefully we get lucky soon...we never saw it taking long. My eldest is 9 next month!I'm now getting mild back pain in my tail bone/lower back area. Really trying not to test yet. But that's the thing, getting pregnant wasn't ever the issue for me, it took 2 months the first time, 4 months the second time (all without monitoring anything - just DTD whenever we felt like it) and I the 3rd time I was caught on the pill cause I messed it up with the wedding stress.
The issue is staying pregnant. I am going to STRESS OUT once I know I'm pregnant again. My OH doesn't get positive, hes very reserved after our 3 losses, which breaks my heart a little bit.
Me 2, you sound like you're in a similar situation to me....we had our 1st child on the pill, our 2nd we fell pg first month trying without so much as an opk, then 2 losses this year ttc#3.....this is only my 4th cycle ttc#3 so i seem to conceive pretty easily. I have a feeling he may want to give up on #3 if we lose another....it hasnt been said but i can see it-seriously considering saying nothing until af is like a week late next time it actually works but i would feel really sneaky?
I used the CB OPK for the first time this cycle and found it to be very accurate! I have been tracking my cycles on an app for nearly a year and I have a very regular 27/28 day cycle. I got my flashing and solid smileys just in the time I expected to O. Hope you get your solid smiley soon!!
I had by BFN at 9 DPO, was trying to stay hopeful as that would be very early for a BFP. I did kind of give up hope then, but you never know! Someone else said that most BFPs came at 12 DPO or later, so there is still hope at that point!
But, for me, I can now confirm I'm out for this cycle. AF has arrived and onto CD1. Trying to remain hopeful for cycle #10 off BCP, but proving to be a bit more challenging now.
Good luck to the remainder of the Oct testers! I hope to see your s coming soon!
I got my first flashy today! This is my first time using them but I am still hoping this means I will O sometime this week.
I think I ovulated either yesterday or today so I shall be testing on 2nd of October until either af or bfp