Hi ladies!
May I join you? I got my on Monday at 10 dpo. This is eggy number 3 after my mmc in September (mini had stopped growing at 8+4, started bleeding at 11+6, one day before my scan). I'm quietly confident that we're going to be ok this time but still a little cautious, especially as I haven't even missed my period yet. I'm currently trying to get an early scan organised for before Christmas, so we can tell our families then. Not getting one on the NHS but hopefully will be able to pay for one privately at the hospital. We'll see...
Pippin, best of luck for your scan!
Our families know. I don't know if my mother/sister/niece know (long story, they have told me they hate me etc) and I don't care. I doubt it as my mother was ringing the house before I found out to try and talk to me and I've heard nothing since.
Ok it's official I cannot stomach doing the cat litter trays anymore. I've still not been sick but it's getting to the point where I'm continuously retching if I have to clean them out.
Thanks for the warm welcome!
Embo I think I remember you from first tri as well! No wonder your daughter made you cry, that must have been beautiful. And I think daughter number two is on to you! How old are they both? Do they know you're trying or about your loss?
I was wondering when everyone's planning on telling their families? We'll tell DH's parents at Christmas, at 6 weeks exactly. Provided that is I manage to get a private scan before and we can see a yolk sac at least. They know about my mmc and we would tell them about another anyway so I'm not too worried about telling them early. My parents we'll tell a few days later I think. I have a doctor's appointment on the 27th where they'll do a transvaginal scan so hopefully we'll see a heartbeat then. If we do, I think we'll tell my parents. They don't know about my mmc and I think we'd tell them that (in as little detail as possible) at the same time. What's everyone else planning to do?
Em while that's true it is TOTALLY FINE TO DO CAT LITTER WEARING GLOVES! A mw told me that and if you search online you'll see that too but obviously getting OH to do it is always good!!
Yea I had my dad coming round to my house when I was pregnant with saraya and I never let on about the gloves thing lol fortunately my cats an outside cat now
Yea I had my dad coming round to my house when I was pregnant with saraya and I never let on about the gloves thing lol fortunately my cats an outside cat now
We have two. A black persian called Oscar and our Felix (he looks like Felix on the adverts, how original NOT !!) They're inside cats cos we're scared to let them out. Our family cat Jasmine, who we had for years, was run over four years ago and died. We were all absolutely devastated and said if we ever had another we'd keep them inside cats. Plus Oscar cost us an absolute fortune!! !!