Psychic reading confusion....

[ebony2010]

OMG ebs, i am so so sorry for you. i know how you're feeling, and there won't be anything i can say just now to make it any easier, but just know we are here for you.

big hugs hun, try and relax and make sure hubby is taking care of you x

Thank you.

Hope your 4D scan went well and happy birthday. xxx

 

[mamadonna]

oh no ebs i am so sorry hun,i cant believe this has happen,i cant even find the words hun,you take care of urself hun

 

[jeffsar]

OMG ebs, i am so so sorry for you. i know how you're feeling, and there won't be anything i can say just now to make it any easier, but just know we are here for you.

big hugs hun, try and relax and make sure hubby is taking care of you x

Thank you.

Hope your 4D scan went well and happy birthday. xxx

how are you today hun? i've been thiking of you

scan wasn't great......... baby has it's foot and hand in front of face so no pictures, but all the 2d anatomy checks went well. they gave me a discount, but still charged £100 of the scan and i never got one picture!! good job i'm team yellow too, baby had legs totally crossed so hubby couldn't find out!

 

[ebony2010]

OMG ebs, i am so so sorry for you. i know how you're feeling, and there won't be anything i can say just now to make it any easier, but just know we are here for you.

big hugs hun, try and relax and make sure hubby is taking care of you x

Thank you.

Hope your 4D scan went well and happy birthday. xxx

how are you today hun? i've been thiking of you

scan wasn't great......... baby has it's foot and hand in front of face so no pictures, but all the 2d anatomy checks went well. they gave me a discount, but still charged £100 of the scan and i never got one picture!! good job i'm team yellow too, baby had legs totally crossed so hubby couldn't find out!

What a shame! How typical that didn't co-operate. Yes it is a good job you wanted to stay team yellow!

I'm feeling a bit better today. I just wish it would happen so I could get it over with. It feels so weird knowing I'm carrying a dead . I'm just trying to keep really busy. I've been cleaning carpets and alsorts today. I've been dying to get to the bedroom carpet but couldn't move the bed myself so today as it no longer matters I moved all the furniture out and got on with it. I'm dreading ttc again too... I know the changes are it could happen again really soon after a MC but we have the worst luck as a couple so I'm not counting on it.

Anyway happy birthday! Hope you're doing something nice to celebrate tonight. xxx

 

[britt24]

Hi Everyone

Jeffsar - hope you had a nice birthday, shame about the scan but at least you got to see the little one that must have been nice.

hope everyone is okay,

Ebs - been thinking about you this weekend, hope your doing alright big hugs to you xx

 

[ebony2010]

Hi everyone. Hope everyones ok.

No news here really. Trying vit c to get things moving and managed 2 litres of orange juice yesterday... ugh it made me feel so sick... lol. On vit c tablets now and I think it may be working... odd cramp etc. xxxx

 

[britt24]

Hi everyone. Hope everyones ok.

No news here really. Trying vit c to get things moving and managed 2 litres of orange juice yesterday... ugh it made me feel so sick... lol. On vit c tablets now and I think it may be working... odd cramp etc. xxxx

Hi Ebs
do you have to go back to the docs or hospital to have a check up again? i hope things start moving for you soon so you can get back on track. xx

 

[ebony2010]

Hi everyone. Hope everyones ok.

No news here really. Trying vit c to get things moving and managed 2 litres of orange juice yesterday... ugh it made me feel so sick... lol. On vit c tablets now and I think it may be working... odd cramp etc. xxxx

Hi Ebs
do you have to go back to the docs or hospital to have a check up again? i hope things start moving for you soon so you can get back on track. xx

Yeah they said a couple of weeks I think. They just want to check nature has run its course and its all clear in there because of infection etc. Better to be safe that sorry I suppose but I really wish I didn;t have to go back to the same place.

How are you? x

 

[britt24]

Hi everyone. Hope everyones ok.

No news here really. Trying vit c to get things moving and managed 2 litres of orange juice yesterday... ugh it made me feel so sick... lol. On vit c tablets now and I think it may be working... odd cramp etc. xxxx

Hi Ebs
do you have to go back to the docs or hospital to have a check up again? i hope things start moving for you soon so you can get back on track. xx

Yeah they said a couple of weeks I think. They just want to check nature has run its course and its all clear in there because of infection etc. Better to be safe that sorry I suppose but I really wish I didn;t have to go back to the same place.

How are you? x

i know its got to be so hard. How are you holding up in yourself? i dont like to keep asking if your alright cos i know you wont be, but just want to make sure you are being as strong as you can and are getting this and have all the support you need.

I fine thank you, weekend went far to quick, lets hope the week does the same xx

 

[ebony2010]

i know its got to be so hard. How are you holding up in yourself? i dont like to keep asking if your alright cos i know you wont be, but just want to make sure you are being as strong as you can and are getting this and have all the support you need.

I fine thank you, weekend went far to quick, lets hope the week does the same xx

Its really hard but at the moment it seems a bit surreal. I'm just keeping busy and wishing it was over so I could ttc again. We've discussed that we'll try again straight away and I think I need that to give me a bit of hope that I could be pregnant again really soon and next time it could work out.

I suppose I'm hiding myself away at the moment in a way though because I can't stand the thought of socialising or anything. I know I'd be sat there thinking "they have no idea what is inside me". I'm glad we didn;t go telling people though so only my Mum and a coupld of friends know. I couldn't have coped otherwise. x

 

[britt24]

i know its got to be so hard. How are you holding up in yourself? i dont like to keep asking if your alright cos i know you wont be, but just want to make sure you are being as strong as you can and are getting this and have all the support you need.

I fine thank you, weekend went far to quick, lets hope the week does the same xx

Its really hard but at the moment it seems a bit surreal. I'm just keeping busy and wishing it was over so I could ttc again. We've discussed that we'll try again straight away and I think I need that to give me a bit of hope that I could be pregnant again really soon and next time it could work out.

I suppose I'm hiding myself away at the moment in a way though because I can't stand the thought of socialising or anything. I know I'd be sat there thinking "they have no idea what is inside me". I'm glad we didn;t go telling people though so only my Mum and a coupld of friends know. I couldn't have coped otherwise. x

No you did the right thing waiting to tell people, i always think that the more people you tell, the more people you have to tell again if something doesnt work out.

i think you are supposed to be even more fertile arent you after a mc? is that right, so if you ttc straight away it could happen again straight away for you. And i have also read that having a mc doesnt mean you are at higher risk to have another one its the same % chance as someone that hasnt so thats reasuring i think for you. xx

 

[ebony2010]

Yeah thats right. My close friend who gave birth recently had 1 AF I think and now she has her baby so it just shows. I think your body is all set up for it so it can happen right away. Thats what I'm counting on anyway. And yes you are as likely as anyone else to have a MC the 2nd time so hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones next time. xxx

 

[britt24]

Yeah thats right. My close friend who gave birth recently had 1 AF I think and now she has her baby so it just shows. I think your body is all set up for it so it can happen right away. Thats what I'm counting on anyway. And yes you are as likely as anyone else to have a MC the 2nd time so hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones next time. xxx

you will be

do you still have any of your old readings? have you read any again since this happened? xx

 

[jeffsar]

hi girls,

ebs, been thinking about you; you seem really positive considering, and i know you'll get your sticky bean soon x

hiya britt, i am good, had a hectic weekend, Taylor not very well so ended up coming home early; i'll write a bigger post later when i get time away from work! x

 

[mamadonna]

ebs,i cant believe the hospital is just letting you get on with things,i would have thought they would have u in every other day to keep an eye,i hope things start happening for you soon hun,it wont be nice but at least then you'll be able to start looking to the future.you wont feel like it now but it does get easier,i kno the thought of going thru the whole ttc thing again is a pain but i'm here waiting for you when your feeling ready

 

[ebony2010]

Yeah thats right. My close friend who gave birth recently had 1 AF I think and now she has her baby so it just shows. I think your body is all set up for it so it can happen right away. Thats what I'm counting on anyway. And yes you are as likely as anyone else to have a MC the 2nd time so hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones next time. xxx

you will be

do you still have any of your old readings? have you read any again since this happened? xx

Funnily enough I was reading through them (might have been yesterday) and a couple said they were seeing March next year for the birth which I'd just dismissed before but maybe they were right. If I fell pregnant straight away it could happen. x

 

[erin7707]

hi girls!
I am about to go to work so I can't talk long, but I wanted you to all know I was thinking of you!!
Ebs, hope everything is going well...

I will try to post a bump pic tomorrow, I wasn't really feeling the greatest today for some reason.. probably all the junk i ate over the weekend..

 

[ebony2010]

hi girls,

ebs, been thinking about you; you seem really positive considering, and i know you'll get your sticky bean soon x

hiya britt, i am good, had a hectic weekend, Taylor not very well so ended up coming home early; i'll write a bigger post later when i get time away from work! x

I am quite positive considering but how I'll feel once I've MC'd and I'm ttc is another thing.

Aww poor Taylor. Hope he's ok. x

 

[ebony2010]

ebs,i cant believe the hospital is just letting you get on with things,i would have thought they would have u in every other day to keep an eye,i hope things start happening for you soon hun,it wont be nice but at least then you'll be able to start looking to the future.you wont feel like it now but it does get easier,i kno the thought of going thru the whole ttc thing again is a pain but i'm here waiting for you when your feeling ready

Thanks Mamadonna. They gave me 3 options and I chose that I wanted nature to take its course. They said they'd want me back in to check everything was ok soon but to ring if I changed my mind or I was worried about anything. To be honest I just wanted to get out of there.

How are you getting on. Have you ovulated? x

 

[mamadonna]

i got a smiley on a digi on sat so anywhere from there till now i shud ovulate,very much doubt that this will be my month too soon i think,but you never kno!!

i chat with a girl on here called nat and she recently had to go for the pills she was in over nite but she was ok,in some pain but thats to be expected her cycles have gone straight back to normal,she was in the same situation,she had gone for her 12 wk scan and the lo had died at about 8 1/2 weeks ,little bubs just didnt wanna go...