@@@ September 2020: Let's Fall Pregnant Y'all** 12 BFPs **

[Hevalouaddict]

Thanks ladies, I’ve had a bath hoping it would help but I’m still crampy. I think I’ll ring the doctors in the morning. Still bleeding today is day 5 yesterday was 4 days. Had the clots on Sunday

 

[MrS. MaBrEy]

Well, I think I ovulated. I didn't have the intense pain like normal. It was my right ovary that did 'some thing'. My proov test strips have gotten lighter than they were on cd5 so I figured some thing happened. My temp shot up as well. But the no intense pain thing makes me wonder if it wasn't a good ovulation. I was on a med that has anti inflammatory effects and didn't know till last night...as I was ovulating. I only took it two days prior and will continue to take it now that ovulation is clearly over. I like it because it helps me not feel IBS pain.

So I am 1dpo and feeling blah. I had so many plans for this cycle. And everything just went early and wrong but meh, here I am. The only dif is I will be testing out my trigger. I feel rotten not having much hope but maybe seeing a real bfp start to show will change that.

How many cd or dpo is everyone eles?

Your chart looks amazing! So jealous. Wish I had a chart this month!

 

[FTale]

@JessaBear36 I hope a good line forms soon. Oing early happens alot. If helps if you can feel it too, so you know to reach for a stick. Let us know when you test again. FX!!

@Kiwiberry...hahah...you wrote psycho..I about screamed laughing. Think I've been holding my breath wondering if this cycle is a bust already and then I read you post...hahah...thank you!! Looking forward to your test in the morning!! It takes forever to get to testing time then bam its here and you want to rewind...nervous for you. babydust!!

@Mrs. MabBrEy Thank you!! I forced myself to temp as many mornings as I could. I get so lazy the first half and that's what FF needs to make its 'predicted O date'. I know it was yesterday but I want to see if FF can figure it out
What do your temps normally look like after O? Mine are never really above 97.9 unless its a medicated cycle.

 

[Kiwiberry]

@FTale oooops lmao!!! I blame my phone

Hey ladies, this is interesting, the pink test I took from the $store is definitely NOT 25miu like they want you to think.

 

[Nixnax]

@JessaBear36 I see it. Good luck with your next test

 

[Becomeamum]

Thanks hon. Not sure what im going to do yet. Mite come away from here for a while and return when we start trying again. I feel so sad we can't try. Im nearly 41 and I feel like time is running out.
I really hope I still have a good year or more still in me and we will get our rainbow baby eventually.
I may pop in here and there but will see how I feel.
Mite completely take a break but I just dont know right now.
Im so disappointed we can't try this cycle but I have no choice.
She did say I can try next cycle but I wanted to take October and November off.
I mite change my mind after this cycle and may decide to try again sooner than December but right now ideally I want to leave it until December.
Will see how I feel tho as time goes on.
Thanks for all ure support.



Thanks hon. I hope so to. Very anxous im gonna be told I can't have anymore children but praying that won't be the case.
I know 41 is classed as old when ttc but so many womon have babies in there 40s these days and I really hope I will be one of them in the very near future.




Hi hon
She said it will interfere with the bloods and the results wudnt be accurate so it best to not try.
She did say it will be fine to try next cycle but I just feel I need to give my body a break physically and mentally.

I may decide to try b4 December I will see how o feel at the beginning of each cycle but ideally I want to try and hold off untill December.

I just worry about my age. Im 40 now and we've had no luck at all apart from chemicals.
Im 41 in December.

We originally wasn't gonna start trying untill Feb, March 2021 but only brought it forward because of our ages.

Hopfully having a rest for 3 cycles won't make much difference and hopfully it will give my body and mind a chance to heal so we have a better chance at having a viable healthy pregnancy in the very soon future.
Good luck hon I really hope the next time I am in the 2ww you wud of all moved on to the pregnancy forums.

If u do please pop back into the testing threads and tel me how ure all getting on.
I see some womon as soon as they get there BFPs seem to forget about us and don't bother coming on here again and I hate that.
I like to know how everyone is getting on.


Good luck everyone I think there will be lots more BFPs in September. Im so sad I won't be one of them but I really wish the very best for all of you.

Hopfully I will finally get my forever BFP and rainbow baby in December or January.
I just think when u have had recurring losses u really need to give ure body and mind a bit of a break and time to heal.
So u can prepare ure body for future pregnancies.

I am so so so thankful to all of you that have given me so much support.
This has been a emotional rollercoaster.
And I wudnt of gotten through any of this without you all.

Although I am sad that you are leaving us
I feel you will be back with a fighting chance after you get some clarity with your bloods and that's the best outcome moving forwards on this journey, a little break is your own way of loving yourself enough to give back to yourself some T.L.C. X I hope you find healing through all your losses lately also with this time. It's been tough on you but always remind yourself that You're doing the best you can
A break from here to refresh your mind and to allow excitement to build for your return if that's what you feel best it's possibly going to be well worth it on your mental health and with your emotional wellbeing. What ever you decide I'm glad to have shared part of the journey with you.

Bless you and your family and the rest of your journey

 

[Becomeamum]

I'm so glad to read from you ladies that I'm not alone! It can seem like everyone else has it all together and doesn't have these same money worries or troubles that we do. We are looking at some significant debt settlement options as it's just snowballed a little bit and I buried it in the sand...BUT once that is sorted out, we will be in a much better financial place for a fresh start! And, given all I've learned from this about budgeting and tracking, I know I won't get into that spot again AND when we have another baby I know I can plan ahead and stick to a reduced budget if I need to. I know I can do it. I feel like our families will judge us as they are helping us get this under control which I am so thankful for but I also know our family isn't complete. I'm 34 now, so I know I have some time but I would like a sibling for my daughter somewhat close in age!

Don't worry and do what's best for you, if you're head and heart are in the right place and you are making conscious decisions and efforts to change your habits the rest will follow I believe.

I also worried about being hasty in our decision to TTC due to circumstances not being perfect, such as, I am a returning mature student, studying full time. We live in a one bedroom apartment with one wage plus I receive an allowance. I have 3more years in college to complete my degree and will have to further onto a post graduate before I begin my career at 30odd years of age. But I just didn't want to wait to have it all together, we'll work it all out along the way I'm not going to stress it. My partner has a good trade, he is older with land to build on when we are in a position to do so and as I said I believe it will all work out when we do make efforts to make it pay off in the end.

I hope this helps you understand you're not alone in those feelings. My family will probably be all talk if it happens with 'what is she thinking'.

It's my life is what I'm thinking

 

[Becomeamum]

I'm so sorry you're still going through this tough time @Hevalouaddict

Hope you got to the docs today.

 

[Becomeamum]

@FTale I'm excited for your TWW journey. F super X for your final wish for baby dust

I'm currently 9dpo! Although I was impatient I can't believe how I've gotten here already at the same time lol. Big respect to us all sticking this out nothing better than doing it together!

@Kiwiberry have you tested yet? Praying for those double lines. Can't wait to see your results, give me the fix I need whilst I await my own testing date

 

[Becomeamum]

@Suggerhoney I hope your blood work goes well! The month I got my blood work done for my recurrent miscarriages referral was the month I ended up pregnant with this baby after 2 years!
It must be frustrating to be told to take the month off but sometimes a break takes the pressure off a little! Hopefully the next few months go quickly for you and you can go back into TTC in December with renewed hope!

Congratulations

 

[Bevziibubble]

@Becomeamum good luck for testing

 

[Kiwiberry]

@Becomeamum I have not tested yet! But the moment I do I will definitely update you lovely ladies, even if it's negative

 

[FTale]

@Becomeamum ❤❤ FX for testing!!

 

[Kiwiberry]

10/11 DPO I think?
AF due around September 7th (Monday)
1 hour hold, couldn't wait for FMU
I'm saving my last FRER for Sunday.

 

[Deethehippy]

Good luck to those testing. KiwiBerry - could just be a little early..not over until the witch arrives.

My AF is hideous at the moment - so heavy and awful cramps galore I have had to use hot water bottles and ibuprofen..also can't leave the house when it's so heavy. Hopefully she will be on her way soon. Blah.

 

[Deethehippy]

JessBear - is ovulating so early going to be ok? I wondered if the egg and womb lining has time to mature? I do think there could be a faint line though so wishing you all the luck! Can't wait to see todays tests.

 

[salamander91]

Had my internal at the gp's today. They said I have some cervical ectropion but nothing to worry about and she's sent some swabs away but isn't expecting them to come back with anything. When they come back she's going to refer me to gynae for a scan to check my womb lining is normal. Knowing what the NHS wait times are like I'm hoping I'll be pregnant before I get that appointment

 

[salamander91]

Well ladies looking back at my Opks i got a blazing positive on CD6 that's when we DTD. Didn't add it to my app and now i wish i did.thought it was way to early..Here is the pic of that test. All other opks never got this dark and then faded to barely there.
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I tested tonight couldn't help myself I thought I was only 4dpo and I got a shadow line on my hpt you might be able to see it?. Opk looks kinda dark too..Well looking back i realized i didnt add the positive opk (first pic opk) and thinking maybe I ovulated then , wicked early so I could actully be 6dpo I had bad cramps that day too... I'm just going to keep testing and see how this goes.

So I'm going by (4dpo- 6dpo) only reason I tested was because my boobs feel heavy sore and nips felt onfire.

If I'm 6dpo than makes since I might see something faint??

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Same test just at an hour later looks pink irl. Going to take another in the morning see what it says. View attachment 1087078

I see it! Fx it gets darker x

 

[Becomeamum]

10/11 DPO I think?
AF due around September 7th (Monday)
1 hour hold, couldn't wait for FMU
I'm saving my last FRER for Sunday.

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Your unsure of your dpo and could possibly be too early for any results hun there's still so much room to be positevely hopeful!

We are due AF on the same day! I'm trying to hold out to see if she shows on Monday and if not... Test Tues morning! Fx

 

[Becomeamum]

I came into this waiting game with the intentions of waiting and testing on the 10th. As AF is due on 7th but can be known to be 3days late.

I now hover between buying a test Sunday and right away Monday morning do it. Wait to see if she comes Monday and test Tuesday or stick to my initial date??

Anyone patient enough to wait for AF with no testing??

9dpo and currently lots of twinging on both sides of Lower abdominal region. This area also feels tender for me since yesterday and my belly is uncomfortably bloated, to a point where I can not suck in