i asked this in TTC but thought hey may as well as on a thread dedicated to the stuff lol.
i conceived the twins naturally after 6 months actively trying. when they were 9 months old O|h and i decided we wanted to start trying for a baby again. me being impatient decided to give Soy a go that first cycle and low nad behold i fell pregnant straight away.
Sadly i lost the baby at 17 weeks. when we received the post mortem results i felt a bit concerned. my baby (a little girl we named Sonnie) had numerous problems from Hydrocephyilis, stunted growth, a chromosonal disorder (tissue was too badly damaged to tell which one) a malformed heart (only three chambers) her bowel was in her chest cavity and various other things.
do you think the Soy Iso's may have caused these problems? it was the only thing i had done differently the month i concieved her compared to the twins and i did a thing on google and found an article that had proof that if cows (i know we arent related to cows
) eat large ammounts of soy then their calves were more than likely to be born with growth problems. it was the first thing i read and didnt want to continue as i knew iwould only end up blaming myself for Sonnie's problems.
Has anyone else on their googling/research travels come across anything that could cause a child to have problems if the mother uses Soy to conceive?
im feeling impatient again and have just got my Soy sat in my make up drawer and every morning i see it and keep thinking to myself hhmmm i wonder if i take it will my baby have problems again? each month im so tempted to take it but then i force myself not to, i suppose until i know that it was jsut a one off i wont take it again. xx