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[NDTaber9211]

FX crossed for you!
keep us posted

 

[IceQueen86]

Thanks but i don't think i O'd. Today temp went up only by 2 degrees and now my temp is in normal range. And still having spotting

 

[BeautifulD]

I'd still say you have od honey! another great rise today... Try not to compare to previous month as every month is different I bet if you put another temp in tomorrow you would get ur crosshairs... spotting could well be ovulation spotting X

 

[Meli_H]

Minuet,

Sorry to hear of DH’s diagnosis. I hope he recovers soon and y’all can get back on the babymaking train!

Ice,

I hope Beautiful D is right and you’ll get your crosshairs tomorrow!

Nichole,

How’re you doing? Are you SS yet?

 

[NDTaber9211]

I was ss yesterday but nothing is happening today. I had dull cramps/pressure all day and my bbs were feeling weird off and on. I am feeling pretty tired today but I don't think I slept that well last night.

 

[Meli_H]

I was ss yesterday but nothing is happening today. I had dull cramps/pressure all day and my bbs were feeling weird off and on. I am feeling pretty tired today but I don't think I slept that well last night.

Nichole,

You sound like I did those days! I'm wondering if that means that we had a 'stronger o'. FX!!!

 

[NDTaber9211]

Maybe! You having any symptoms now?

 

[Meli_H]

Nichole,

Not really....the only thing that's verifiable (and not in my cuckoo head) is that my temps are a little higher this cycle. But, they do say that every month is different, right? So I'm not getting excited until 11dpo. That's when my temps start dropping, like clockwork. If my temps haven't started dropping by 11dpo, then I'll get excited. Just trying to have no expectations, because I've had 'perfect' temps and charts before, then zilch!

 

[NDTaber9211]

I stop temping after o confirmation. Temping during the tww makes me crazy. I would read way into things.

 

[Meli_H]

I stop temping after o confirmation. Temping during the tww makes me crazy. I would read way into things.

I know what you mean. I should probably start temping after o also!!

 

[IceQueen86]

BeautifulD - You are right about cycle differences. Once again have to wait until tomorrow to find out

Meli - your temps look really great!

NDTaber - i was thinking about not charting either after O. I think i would be more stress free, other wise i will obsess over every temp

 

[NDTaber9211]

I've noticed that I am getting pimples on my face. That usually only happens right before AF or I am extremely stressed. I don't feel stressed and AF is no where near coming so... idk... SS! lol

 

[IceQueen86]

I've noticed that I am getting pimples on my face. That usually only happens right before AF or I am extremely stressed. I don't feel stressed and AF is no where near coming so... idk... SS! lol

OMG FX and tons of

 

[NDTaber9211]

thanks but it is probably just a coincidence. I am just getting my hopes up.

 

[minuet]

Minuet,

Sorry to hear of DH’s diagnosis. I hope he recovers soon and y’all can get back on the babymaking train!

Thank you. I'm afraid we are out though. He starts chemo on Monday and we cannot do unprotected BD for a year after that. I am beyond crushed.
Besides all the worry and concern over his health and long term effects of chemo...
I had literally finally just started getting my body back on track. Started getting periods, first cycle of soy - very hopefully that soy would make me ovulate this cycle. And now, Monday is the last day we can DTD. So I have to ovulate by next Wednesday/Thursday to even have a chance.

Otherwise. It means waiting a few months and trying IUI with his banked stuff from last year's surgery. I hate the thought of that though, how it doesn't always work, is costly.....

It's all around very very upsetting.

 

[NDTaber9211]

I am so sorry hun. Banking sperm and using that to conceive is ridiculously expensive. We couldn't afford it so we waited the year. Actually we were told 6 months but we had no luck and it turned into the year. I wish you and your DH the best of luck and I will be praying for you guys. Like I said before, message me anytime if u need someone to talk to. I know all about dealing with DH going through chemo and the emotional and physical toll it takes on both of you.

 

[minuet]

I am so sorry hun. Banking sperm and using that to conceive is ridiculously expensive. We couldn't afford it so we waited the year. Actually we were told 6 months but we had no luck and it turned into the year. I wish you and your DH the best of luck and I will be praying for you guys. Like I said before, message me anytime if u need someone to talk to. I know all about dealing with DH going through chemo and the emotional and physical toll it takes on both of you.

Thank you. I appreciate the support. Chances are we will end up having to wait like you guys due to finances. Its just as I told hubby tonight, I don't think I can handle that emotionally. This past year the emotional part of this has just grown harder and harder, and now when I was SO close..... maybe it is unsensitive of me to be so upset about babies when we're facing chemo.
Its just I'm at the point now I can't enjoy babies or seeing pregnant women because it just cuts me to the core. And I don't know how I can keep on like this. Am I crazy?

 

[NDTaber9211]

No you aren't crazy. It's in our DNA to crave having babies. You had your plans so crazily screwed up that you haven't really had time to switch gears from baby making to chemo. Just try to not think about it and concentrate on your husband getting better. So easier said then done I know.

 

[IceQueen86]

No O for me, temp dropped again to 96.76F. I don't understand what's going on, why my temps dropped like that

 

[IceQueen86]

Thank you. I appreciate the support. Chances are we will end up having to wait like you guys due to finances. Its just as I told hubby tonight, I don't think I can handle that emotionally. This past year the emotional part of this has just grown harder and harder, and now when I was SO close..... maybe it is unsensitive of me to be so upset about babies when we're facing chemo.
Its just I'm at the point now I can't enjoy babies or seeing pregnant women because it just cuts me to the core. And I don't know how I can keep on like this. Am I crazy?

Sorry to hear about your situation Hopefully your hubby will get better soon and you guys can start planning

PS! I have been struggling with my cycles for a long time and i feel the same way about seeing babies and pregnant women. So if you think that this makes you crazy then i am crazy too