Hey ladies - we've been ttc since Feb (part of it was "not trying but also not preventing" but we are def out of that phase). I've been reading tons of the messages on this site but this is the first time for me to post
I went to the doc several weeks ago and all tests came back good except progesterone - she said I didnt ovulate. I'm hoping it's just a fluke thing because I did go see her a few days after getting back from a 30 something hour roadtrip where climates changed, I had globs of coffee, and didn't sleep for 40 something hours - all those things can influence o'ing and I hope thats what did. She wanted me to start on clomid but I decided to try soy first. Along with cutting out all caffeine (none for about 4 weeks), drinking more water, and consuming more vitamins, I also took 160mg of soy cd 3-7.
It's now cd 8 and I can actually already notice changes - I check cm daily and this morning it was already slightly stretchy and thick whereas it was just clear and wet like water the last 2 days. I also noticed an unusual spike in my libido .... I've actually wanted to bd more than just the standard every other day they recommend ttcers. I want to have it like twice a day! Lol . I tried feeling for the opening in my cervix but have had no luck with that - it just seems round, wet, and slightly soft / firm .. less firm than my nose but more firm than my lips - and low I think because I don't have to go far to find it. Oh ... and my right boob is achy today for some reason
This past year, I've kept track of my cycles but never actually examined cm like I am now. They've always been longer cycles and kind of all over the scale but always under 39 days (except one REALLY long one but that was at a VEry stressful time). I've always been a coffee junkie but stopped it cold turkey 4weeks ago when I read it could mess up o'ing. I know that soy can make you o earlier but, if I really already have a bit of stretchy thick cm on cd 8, could my body really be preparing for an o??
If so, I am so crazily excited - my sister is pregnant, my sister in law is pregnant, and so is 12 other women I know - I'm ready for my own 9 months of creating to start!