janie have you read that book in your avatar hun is it good , im 44 this month and have been ttc for 3 years all tests came back good and they say its just time and thats all the help we were offered
Hiya InkDChick,
I havent read that book, just found that pc online, and thought it looked good according to my age xx Glad to see someone else my age here, sometimes I feel so old amongst others lol.....
I have been trying to concieve now since june 2009, I too have had some tests from my GP ie bloods FSH progestrone, prolactin , thyroid all came back good except the progestrone one, which said I didnt ovulate that month, which is worring me, because Ive yet to see a positive OPK's since august this year, this is when i really started TTC more serious ina scientific way.... I used IC before, didnt get anything on that, as second line was always to faint to say it was positive, and now im using CBFM for 2nd cycle, and all i had was highs last month from lows. I have had a internal scan, all looked ok on that too, My OH has a lowish sperm count 17% Mil at last SA, and has low motility, so we have that to contend with too...The doctors have all said it just takes one sperm to meet my egg and that's it, but we are still waiting here....My GP wont do anything anymore now,as we dont meet NHS criteria....
I was told i have to see a FS if nothing happens, which I asked to be reffered, but Ive heard nothing back from them yet, that was begging of NOV now. We do feel very alone in all of it regarding help from the NHS, makes me sick that they wont help us just because of age ......yet there people out there everyday getting pregnant when they dont want it. i feel so strongly this NHS criteria needs to be changed. Its just so wrong.
I am now using soya for first month, and all ive noticed this month is, Ive had twinging electric shock type pains where my ovaries are, and my CM is very scant, I a little worried as to why my CM is nearly non exsistedt this month tho, as thats been getting better over last year, could soya being doing this to me?.
FX this is your month, I'm rooting for you xx I have worked it out my AF is due at its latest on Christmas eve, so I am wishing that's when I will find out and I am pregnant, I have my angel inside of me growing, and it would be so perfect, as my mother died that day on dec 24 2008, and well, I have not liked christmas ever since, its been always too sad for me, so I'm hoping My mum is having some part to play in all of this from where she is now spritually.
take care Darling and good luck xxxxxxxx
and GOOD LUCK to all of us here too