Started trying straight after loss - where are we now

[loubyloumum]

Wow, I've woken up to two new threads.....you ladies have been busy

I think they are both a great idea though.....good work gang

Oh Emum I'm sorry for the BFN
There is still LOADS of time for that line to develop yet hun I have my fxd for you.
Aw MrsMig I'm sorry you got upset following your call with your friend yesterday....I want to come and just give you a great big hug You WILL get there lovely, I promise xxx
Pink, I hope you have a lovely holiday And I sure hope your OH swimmers are the best and you get that BFP
Hi to all the new ladies :wave: (although technically I am a new to THIS thread ) I am so sorry for your losses
I will be lurking over this thread to keep up with all you wonderful ladies so when you all get your BFP I can jump for joy and celebrate for you all xxx

 

[pinksmarties]

Glad you are feeling good for the next cycle mrsmig af will soon be gone.

Emum - I can't remember how many dpo you are, I am sure it is still very early though liek you said, still keeping everything crossed.

hi chele - I'll count you in the three Valantines to be bfp so far then.

 

[pinksmarties]

Louby this is a thread for everyone ladies ttc and pg girls that can chat/show scans etc without worrying it may be too much/intimidating those for newly mc ladies.

 

[loubyloumum]

I love it Pink. I think it's a great Idea xxx

 

[Tarabay]

Hey ladies!! Oh wow! Louby snap, I get up this morning to a new thread too! Can't stop as on my fone! Getting ready to head down to see my brand new niece! thought it would have been hard when she was born but not as bad as I thought! Just a tiny bit jealous! Is that ok!!!?? Hope everybody well! Glad to see fili out and back home and back with us!
Still waitin for o day!! Speak soon! Xxxx

 

[ickle pand]

Tara - I find it easier with babies than bumps too. Who can be sad with a beautiful baby they get to cuddle? That doesn't stop me wanting to steal the beautiful baby though

 

[pinksmarties]

Tara - I find it easier with babies than bumps too. Who can be sad with a beautiful baby they get to cuddle? That doesn't stop me wanting to steal the beautiful baby though

Me too, its the pg and the bump I miss the most. One of the porters brought his new baby grandaughter in and I had to avoid that which was a first as normally I'm not too upset.

 

[Lozdi]

Blimey we will be at 700 pages again before long!

I slept all through the night so wasn't too tired when I woke up, so I nipped into town for my last digi (just got a 3+ yay!) 6 more ww chicken hotpots....and some low dose asprin because I got to worrying about my blood. The only problem now is I'm back to tired again but youngest has to be at nursery in an hour, so no nap for me!

Although I tested early, I still recommend not testing early...but on the other hand there is alot to be said for knowing you didn't have a chemical. I think with testing there is no right and wrong way really is there! As long as you are peeing on the right stick! (hcg, not twigs!)

 

[pinksmarties]

Loz - big Yay for the 3+ so exciting.

I suppose testing early is a catch 22. I might not have realised I was pg in December although I have NEVER had a 35 cycle I coud hve put to down to changes after eric. At least now I am getting test done because of it.

 

[Mrs Miggins]

I know what you mean Loz. And like I say I still think something happened last cycle, but I'm not going to dwell on it. But I'm taking the measure of not ordering ic's this month so I can't test early. It has left me feeling emotionally drained, without wishing to sound too dramatic
I am the same with babies, my lovely thoughtful friend who told me she was pregnant a couple of weeks ago had a birthday on Monday and I popped round with a gift for her. Another friend of hers who I don't know turned up with her 9 week old baby. She texted me later to apologise and I said it was bumps that bothered me not babies. She thought I was crackers.

 

[ickle pand]

As I've said before I test early because I need to stop the meds I'm on as soon as I get a BFP but I also feel like as hard as any loss is, I'd rather know that my baby was being mourned rather than passing without being noticed at all. I often wonder if I've had other chemicals that I didn't know about before last year when I started to educate myself properly. It's a very personal issue though and there is no right or wrong.

 

[jd26]

Guys, I just wanted to say- Thank You!!

I had a miscarriage in Nov @ 5w4 and was devastated- it was only u guys that keep my spirits up- now im 4 weeks gone and scared stiff that somethings gonna go wrong- just the usual after a loss i suppose- oh and i TOTALLY agree about the whole bump thing- babies are so cute AND u get to hand them back when they cry whereas bumps look at u whichever way u turn lol!

So yes- thank u and good luck to all u guys trying and the ones who are pregnant too!!

 

[Lozdi]

I have wondered that too Ickle. I'd always rather know than not. We all have to do what is right for ourselves. When I was on bc I used to wonder what was up, because AF would never show when the pill break came until a few days ito it. I have since learnt that I O 'late' so what it must have been was my 32/33 day cycle fighting with my 28 day pill packets!

 

[Lozdi]

Guys, I just wanted to say- Thank You!!

I had a miscarriage in Nov @ 5w4 and was devastated- it was only u guys that keep my spirits up- now im 4 weeks gone and scared stiff that somethings gonna go wrong- just the usual after a loss i suppose- oh and i TOTALLY agree about the whole bump thing- babies are so cute AND u get to hand them back when they cry whereas bumps look at u whichever way u turn lol!

So yes- thank u and good luck to all u guys trying and the ones who are pregnant too!!

Hi there, I'm sorry for your loss, and also congrats on this new bean. Theres a cautiously pregnant thread on the go if you'd like to come be cautiously baking a bun with us.

https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnan...ma-but-not-taking-granted-2.html#post14983477

 

[auntylolo]

Hello girls, what a nice new thread! I'd like to come over here too, as I feel like it's been a lifetime since I mc'd, not saying I'm totally over it, but I'm definitely more trying to get pg after a loss rather than trying straight after mc. Does that even make sense?!
What a day I had yesterday! Puppy was at the vets to get his nuts off, so I had to be out and doing stuff all day to keep me occupied before I could go and pick him up. Hubby was so worried about him last night he went and slept in the spare room so Boris (the dog) could sleep in the bed with me incase he needed anything, bless him he's such a softy!
Looking forward to using my cbfm again, but it will probs be a few more days before it asks for a stick since I didn't get a peak til cd19 last time. And, hopefully going to the casino tomorrow night for a bit of a blowout and a few vodkas

 

[Little_1]

Hey girls...my af is due today... well if im running on a 28 day cycle its due today, but i dont know... i dont think iv made a baby this month (didnt get to dtd very often) but i do hav quite a few pains in my stomach, not cramps..more like ovary pains but i dont know wat to think... i need to go get a hpt and test anyway cuz im bein taken into hospital tomoro for a camera test (falling apart i am lol) so i need to know for sure either way...my feelings are torn atm tho becuz i so want this test to be positive but for my ongoing health problems i need it to be negative so i can have these tests :S just feeling quite...id say confused atm lol xx

 

[Lozdi]

Hey girls...my af is due today... well if im running on a 28 day cycle its due today, but i dont know... i dont think iv made a baby this month (didnt get to dtd very often) but i do hav quite a few pains in my stomach, not cramps..more like ovary pains but i dont know wat to think... i need to go get a hpt and test anyway cuz im bein taken into hospital tomoro for a camera test (falling apart i am lol) so i need to know for sure either way...my feelings are torn atm tho becuz i so want this test to be positive but for my ongoing health problems i need it to be negative so i can have these tests :S just feeling quite...id say confused atm lol xx

Hi Little 1 That does sound confusing indeed. Definately mention the possibility of being pregnant when you go to the hospital, they may have some sensitive tests to make sure.

 

[dodgercpkl]

Morning ladies.... Hope I "qualify" for the new thread!

I am officially on CD8, so let the smep start! Yay! Really putting all my efforts and positive thoughts into this month being the month to get a sticky bean and a lovely right before Valentine's day - which will also be 12 year anniversary of hubby proposing.

Of course you qualify! I think we started this thread so that anyone who had suffered a miscarriage would qualify no matter what state they currently are in. Glad to have you here too!

Morning ladies! Kcal, just wanted to say things can be a bit different after mc, I set myself up for a huge disappointment this cycle. I used to have a regular/irregular cycle of 28 days one month, and 25 or 26 the next, without fail. And never any longer. This month I had horrendous nausea and by cd29 still no AF. Despite loads of negative hpts I was convinced I was pregnant then the witch flew in on day 30. I was devastated. However that was just me and I really hope this is your cycle!
Pink and Ickle - I feel a bit like Ickle. My AF's since the Eric have all been a bit light and weird but this one is heavier and more normal. So I'm hoping that's a good sign. But you know if it hadn't been for all the negative hpts I would have suspected a chemical last cycle. I really did feel pregnant.
Anyway this is a new cycle and although I am feeling wiped out I'm feeling positive. I'm also enjoying a few days off temping.

Didn't you have at least one test that you thought was positive? Maybe that IS a sign that you had a chemical? Regardless, I'm glad you are enjoying the few days off temping.

Tara - I find it easier with babies than bumps too. Who can be sad with a beautiful baby they get to cuddle? That doesn't stop me wanting to steal the beautiful baby though

Same!!

As I've said before I test early because I need to stop the meds I'm on as soon as I get a BFP but I also feel like as hard as any loss is, I'd rather know that my baby was being mourned rather than passing without being noticed at all. I often wonder if I've had other chemicals that I didn't know about before last year when I started to educate myself properly. It's a very personal issue though and there is no right or wrong.

I'm the same way ickle. It kills me to know that I lost a child, but I'd hate even more to think that I hadn't even noticed!

Guys, I just wanted to say- Thank You!!

I had a miscarriage in Nov @ 5w4 and was devastated- it was only u guys that keep my spirits up- now im 4 weeks gone and scared stiff that somethings gonna go wrong- just the usual after a loss i suppose- oh and i TOTALLY agree about the whole bump thing- babies are so cute AND u get to hand them back when they cry whereas bumps look at u whichever way u turn lol!

So yes- thank u and good luck to all u guys trying and the ones who are pregnant too!!

Welcome and congrats!! I'll add you to my prayers for a healthy happy 9 months!!

Hey girls...my af is due today... well if im running on a 28 day cycle its due today, but i dont know... i dont think iv made a baby this month (didnt get to dtd very often) but i do hav quite a few pains in my stomach, not cramps..more like ovary pains but i dont know wat to think... i need to go get a hpt and test anyway cuz im bein taken into hospital tomoro for a camera test (falling apart i am lol) so i need to know for sure either way...my feelings are torn atm tho becuz i so want this test to be positive but for my ongoing health problems i need it to be negative so i can have these tests :S just feeling quite...id say confused atm lol xx

Is it possible that you are only now ovulating? I hope things work out for the best and that if you do do the tests, that you are able to figure out a solution!!

 

[Lozdi]

Hi Dodger! Whens the next bloods? Must be sooooo close now!

 

[Little_1]

lozdi, im gna get a test myself today and then ill get them to test in hospital 2morrow just to be sure.

dodgercpkl, do u no i could b ovulating, cuz i didnt hav any of these ovulating pains all month...after this af im def gna get opks bcuz i hav pcos so i dont no wen or even if i do o each month...