Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[mdscpa]

I'll give you the replies as I'm receiving them.

I tell dh the whole story from me being scared and what dr thinks is causing the cysts. I tell him that dr suggests if we want kids to try and become pregnant first before he puts me in different birth control to regulate my hormones etc.

DH replies "Ok cool"

What am I suppose to get from that????? Yes we are going to full on try or "cool" his just happy I'm okay.... Men

"DH replies "Ok cool" "

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I don't know if I should be mad at him because I'm not getting a proper response from him (or at leas the response I want) or if I should just laugh... currently I'm just laughing!

Thanks Cutie, looks like I am in that tww turn you are talking about. I know better than to not count myself out until I see af. Except for a splitting headache that came in about 15 mins ago and some mild af cramping I have nothing going on

I'm not sure if I should be glad for you not o'ing or sad... I'll just say that I'm happy for whichever one you wanted (o or no o)

 

[cutieq]

I don't know if I should be mad at him because I'm not getting a proper response from him (or at leas the response I want) or if I should just laugh... currently I'm just laughing!

Thanks Cutie, looks like I am in that tww turn you are talking about. I know better than to not count myself out until I see af. Except for a splitting headache that came in about 15 mins ago and some mild af cramping I have nothing going on

I'm not sure if I should be glad for you not o'ing or sad... I'll just say that I'm happy for whichever one you wanted (o or no o)

Don't bother interpreting it. He's a man. He means "ok,cool". They lack depth lol!

I don't know if I'm happy or not. I told DH and he says well that was fun. He's completely against shutting off and not trying. He says we have sex when we have the urge this cycle and if we get pregnant, we cross that bridge when we get there. I guess I will just see how the cycle ends but my true answer is I'd rather a regular AF cycle, test and then go from there.

 

[Wishing1010]

Lol, Pamela....I hate when they respond like that. Just take that as a go the distance response and do it to the max!!!

Cutie, do what you feel is best for you right now. if you feel like trying, go ahead! If not, then just be careful. Don't push yourself in a direction you are not happy with.

 

[WunnaBubba2]

My scheduled lunch break is back on at 13h00pm so in about 20 minutes time when I get home for lunch (Luckily I live about 5 mins drive from work) dh had better have something good to say

 

[Wishing1010]

My scheduled lunch break is back on at 13h00pm so in about 20 minutes time when I get home for lunch (Luckily I live about 5 mins drive from work) dh had better have something good to say

If not, slug him!!!

 

[WunnaBubba2]

My scheduled lunch break is back on at 13h00pm so in about 20 minutes time when I get home for lunch (Luckily I live about 5 mins drive from work) dh had better have something good to say

If not, slug him!!!

Hahaha just imagine. Such a small town tomorrow everyone will gossip I'm a husband beater

 

[mdscpa]

Hang in there, pamela. You're rounding that TWW corner where you want to think all hope is lost and you start planning for the next cycle. Just a few more days and your temps look great!

Daphne, I think we're equally grateful for you sharing your time and tests with us! Glad you're hanging around.

Kenna, nice dip. Go clomid go!

Afm, I think I had a false alarm with temp yesterday. I showed it to DH and he goes "well you did fall asleep with the heating pad on your legs" DOH! I get really bad leg pains so I totally forgot! Looks like I'm not O'ing early after all and it was a wonky temp!

Told you i'll be around stalking/bothering you all... And will keep on trying to give advice (not that im an expert ) based on my experience and Dr. Google.

 

[cutieq]

After thinking on it, I'm glad it wasn't O yet. I scheduled my appt intentionally around O time and I feel a lot more relaxed and in control of the situation now than the tizzy i was in yesterday lol

 

[melewen]

Pamela I'm going to interpret man-speak for you as "OK, sure, sounds great, I am totally behind you on this honey, and whatever you think is best until that point is fine by me". DH said it himself last night "I am not that good with words.... with you" lol. I suppose if he were against it he'd say maybe... "Oh" ? Haha. Seriously though.. men.

Keep us updated!

So I used Daphne's before-bed temp trick last night and was happy to see a high temp. It seems that my temps are actually higher at rest than during the day - probably because we like to keep it relatively cold in the house during the day and I don't load up on clothes, but at night I"m under our big duvet! Anyway I temped last night after lying *SO STILL* when we watched Walking Dead and got 97.84 or so. This morning got 97.77! That's the highest of this post-O cycle, but I still feel like my temps are so insane that I'm probably out this cycle. Just assuming I'll be seeing that old witch within the next week

Daphne had a question for you, I remember you talking about boob soreness and which hormone it was related to - is side boob soreness an estrogen thing or a progesterone thing?

 

[Jrepp]

I'm glad things worked out for you! What test are you having done?

 

[Jrepp]

Side breast pain is an indicator of ovulation, front breast pain is an indicator of estrogen dominance

 

[mdscpa]

Im glad the trick worked for you as well....

for that amazing rise.... It's 7dpo so expect a rise its supposed to be the highest/peak of progesterone (where doctors conduct P4-progesterone test on CD21 assuming you O 14days later from LMP) pregnant or not...

Boob pain concentrated on the sides of the boobs means progesterone is higher than estrogen which is a good sign than when it is in front or around the nips..

 

[Jrepp]

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[melewen]

Im glad the trick worked for you as well....

for that amazing rise.... It's 7dpo so expect a rise its supposed to be the highest/peak of progesterone (where doctors conduct P4-progesterone test on CD21 assuming you O 14days later from LMP) pregnant or not...

Boob pain concentrated on the sides of the boobs means progesterone is higher than estrogen which is a good sign than when it is in front or around the nips..

So side boob soreness is better at this point in the cycle? I don't remember having it the last two cycles. I'm just so happy that my temps are still up - I was worried there for a minute I didn't even O. How annoying would that be! We'll see what happens over the next few days I guess.. bleh, the waiting!

 

[mdscpa]

And Jess is also right.... Side boob pain = Progesterone dominance = O have passed...
When you have estrogen dominance which could result to front boob pain it could indicate that you haven't O'ed yet or having annovulatory cycle which also results to a non-biphasic temp pattern..

FX it's a healthy ovulation Cheryl.....

 

[cutieq]

I'm glad things worked out for you! What test are you having done?

Was that for me on tests? If so, standard I've had 3 losses, what's the deal tests and specifically progesterone. I will report back after they're done. They just scheduled as a family planning visit.

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I'm so glad this day at work is over and done with. My head is splitting and again I am sooooo tired
I'm not calling them symptoms as I think I'm just overworked at the moment.

I did not really get a satisfying answer about full on trying from dh during lunch as he was occupied a bit so will bring it up again tonight. Darn that bloody man should have gone into politics... he speaks in circles when answering and then at the end I just feel more confused and like there is unresolved issues

 

[melewen]

Sweet, sounds like my O was normal then. Just insane temps, but I'm sure it has something to do with sleeping, the weather changing, etc. Keeping FX just in case! Freaking EXHAUSTED and it's so early, almost fell asleep on a conference call and kept thinking WHEN WILL YOU STOP TALKING SO I CAN GO TAKE A NAP!

not normal for me.. I usually have annoyingly high energy! But I did wake up about half an hour earlier than normal today, though we did go to sleep half an hour earlier. Convinced my body sees it still dark outside and is like, nope, I don't accept this, you should still be asleep

 

[Wishing1010]

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You make me want pineapple!!!!!

I'm so very sorry for your friend, I just can't even fathom

Fx that this is your lucky cycle, hun. You deserve it soooo much!!!!!