Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[froggyfrog]

Ibeach hang in there! It just takes time! Feb marked four years since we started trying, and I know it will happen.
Missink congratulations! take care of yourself and get lots of rest!
Wishing YAY!!! I definitely see it, and definitely think that is your bfp!
So I dont know if it means anything, but yesterday and today I have had shooting sharp pains on my right side going all the way down to my vagina. ..i know I didn't make those up and im hoping it means something good!

 

[Jrepp]

Katarina, I definitely know how you feel. I think of all of us, you may have it the hardest because we are all living with (or almost living with) our significant other and have easier access to sperm whereas you have to meet up with someone and can't always meet when you need to. I wonder if there is an at home method for sperm freezing so that your donor could do his business throughout the month and you could insert it as you need it instead of trying to coordinate and travel.

Personally, going through the losses I feel like God is playing a cruel joke on me. I feel like an animal when you hold the toy just out of reach......or give it to them only to take it away a few seconds later.

I'm not the kind of person who thinks that some people deserve to be pregnant more than others (ok maybe I am a little bit), but if anyone deserves to be pregnant I would say hands down it is you ladies.

Mary - using a thinner blanket very well could cause a lower temperature. I have noticed when I sleep with clothes on vs. naked my temp is higher.

 

[makeupmama2b]

You can add me. Got my BFP today!

 

[iBeach]

Thank you girls!!!

What would I do without you....

It is hard specially because of schedules and distance just like it was mentioned before. It is disappointing for me and for my donor since we are planning on co-parenting together. He cant wait to be a father....
I am getting my insurance in less than a week, so after that I will go back to GYN and tell her we have been trying for 8 months or so ( just to speed it up) and nothing happened. Last time I saw her was in July and she said we are good to go ahead and try for a baby whenever we are ready.

I was just hoping I would be pregnant by now...I don't know why. I think its because everyone in my family just gets pregnant by surprise (welcomed surprise) and everyone around seems to be getting knocked up over and over.

....I am at the point in my life where I can have a baby and everything would work just fine...all I need is a baby.....

.............btw, I still hate my job, but I have a job interview on Friday, so please wish me luck!!!
There is a lot happening this Friday!

Good night,

Katarina.

 

[Jrepp]

I am sooooo angry right now. I have been trying for 4 hours to take a shower, do laundry and do dishes........but we have no hot water. I called and the maintenance department said they are aware of the situation but it won't be able to be fixed until tomorrow afternoon! How am I supposed to wash off the nasty kid germs and get my house in order before surgery if I have no hot water? And my stupid husband is like "it's not a big deal have some patience"

 

[aidensmommy1]

Katarina, I definitely know how you feel. I think of all of us, you may have it the hardest because we are all living with (or almost living with) our significant other and have easier access to sperm whereas you have to meet up with someone and can't always meet when you need to. I wonder if there is an at home method for sperm freezing so that your donor could do his business throughout the month and you could insert it as you need it instead of trying to coordinate and travel.

Personally, going through the losses I feel like God is playing a cruel joke on me. I feel like an animal when you hold the toy just out of reach......or give it to them only to take it away a few seconds later.

I'm not the kind of person who thinks that some people deserve to be pregnant more than others (ok maybe I am a little bit), but if anyone deserves to be pregnant I would say hands down it is you ladies.

Mary - using a thinner blanket very well could cause a lower temperature. I have noticed when I sleep with clothes on vs. naked my temp is higher.

Thank u Jessica! Hopefully this was the case but at least I got to BD tonight just incase!
I love what u said to ibeach, couldnt have said it better myself. And a very good idea about the frozen sperm at home to look in to.
I know how u feel about god playing a trick on you. I personally feel like he is punishing me for something from my past maybe..? Idk but after I read my entire 221 page women's bible, it made sense that he could very well be "punishing" us before giving us the gift we have all been praying so hard for. Maybe it's just one of my many ways of dealing with everything in my head but it does make sense. It makes me angry at times but I'm getting better with that as that was another chapter in my bible, "anger". (I am religious but not a church go-er since I was 15yrs old and reading the bible used to be UNHEARD of for me) anyways, I'm trying to control my anger, jealousy, and all other bad feelings Ive had while ttc hoping my "punishment" will end. Lol I may sound crazy to some of you ladies right now but I believe in this stuff and miracles .

well I better get to bed if I want an accurate bbt reading I can't seem to sleep tonight!!! Goodnight and to All!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I am sooooo angry right now. I have been trying for 4 hours to take a shower, do laundry and do dishes........but we have no hot water. I called and the maintenance department said they are aware of the situation but it won't be able to be fixed until tomorrow afternoon! How am I supposed to wash off the nasty kid germs and get my house in order before surgery if I have no hot water? And my stupid husband is like "it's not a big deal have some patience"

ugh this happened to us last month! It was horrible! For 2 days!! I hope u get ur water on asap! Its kinda hard to have patience when u need warm water for half of what we do in the house! I'm sorry. :-\

 

[missink2014]

Hi ladies had results back after a bit of complaining..hcg is only 49 seems rather low but she only wants to re test in a week. Id have thought 48hrs after the first., im losing hope this time

hang in there, there is still a good chance!!!!

How many dpo are you? 49 seems to be a great number if you are close to when AF was due or before AF is due.

I am now 19dpo but was 17dpo when blood was taken..hoping its a sticky baby this time. Drs could not fit me in for my week follow up bloods so now I have to wait untill the 22nd

 

[stickyegg]

Currently 7dpo and wanting to test but know its toi early good luck all who are positive and those waitin to test x

 

[aidensmommy1]

I finally got a temp of 97.75 today (higher then the last 15 temps) so I think its safe to say I have ovulated for sure. FF says it needs a little more analyzing before it knows if my O date was CD14, 15, or 16. Lol oh well, at least I DTD accordingly. That's all that matters!

wishing, have u tested today? And dont let the TINY temp drop today bug u...it can most definitely start going up again tomorrow or could remain steady at that temp for a bfp FX so hard!

 

[Wishing1010]

I finally got a temp of 97.75 today (higher then the last 15 temps) so I think its safe to say I have ovulated for sure. FF says it needs a little more analyzing before it knows if my O date was CD14, 15, or 16. Lol oh well, at least I DTD accordingly. That's all that matters!

wishing, have u tested today? And dont let the TINY temp drop today bug u...it can most definitely start going up again tomorrow or could remain steady at that temp for a bfp FX so hard!

Your chart is looking good!!! Yay for confirmed O!!!!

lol, I did get bummed by my temp drop but it's the same as most of the few days so I'm not terribly worried. I'm awaiting a diff brand of tests, probably will be here today so I may test this evening

 

[bubbles_cymru]

I can test from tomorrow but came on a day late last month - so will be 1 cd tomorrow!! Getting lots of symptoms - had pinky brown cm when i wiped yest but nowt since, sickness a few mornings last few days, tingly nipples today, and cramping!! Wahhhh this is driving me bonkers!!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

I finally got a temp of 97.75 today (higher then the last 15 temps) so I think its safe to say I have ovulated for sure. FF says it needs a little more analyzing before it knows if my O date was CD14, 15, or 16. Lol oh well, at least I DTD accordingly. That's all that matters!

wishing, have u tested today? And dont let the TINY temp drop today bug u...it can most definitely start going up again tomorrow or could remain steady at that temp for a bfp FX so hard!

Your chart is looking good!!! Yay for confirmed O!!!!

lol, I did get bummed by my temp drop but it's the same as most of the few days so I'm not terribly worried. I'm awaiting a diff brand of tests, probably will be here today so I may test this evening

lol yea I figured the mini drop had u a little bummed but I still think everything's going to go GREAT for you! I really do. Did u order frer for later today or more wondfos? Eeekk I cant wait to see ur next test!!!

 

[Wishing1010]

I ordered some sure predict tests and if they show something I think I will pick up a FRER thurs or fri.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Ok FX very tightly! Are the tests u ordered suppose to be as sensitive as wondfos? On the wondfo site it actually says u can start testing as early as 7dpo and possibly get a positive. I cant wait til u get a test convincing enough for u! The test yesterday just about has me convinced lol. Do u have more wondfos at home or r u out?

 

[missink2014]

I ordered some sure predict tests and if they show something I think I will pick up a FRER thurs or fri.

fx you get your bfp hun

 

[Wishing1010]

Ok FX very tightly! Are the tests u ordered suppose to be as sensitive as wondfos? On the wondfo site it actually says u can start testing as early as 7dpo and possibly get a positive. I cant wait til u get a test convincing enough for u! The test yesterday just about has me convinced lol. Do u have more wondfos at home or r u out?

I have like 8 or so left of those and 25 of the new ones. Supposedly the new ones are more sensitive than wondfo's, so we shall see!

 

[aidensmommy1]

Ok FX very tightly! Are the tests u ordered suppose to be as sensitive as wondfos? On the wondfo site it actually says u can start testing as early as 7dpo and possibly get a positive. I cant wait til u get a test convincing enough for u! The test yesterday just about has me convinced lol. Do u have more wondfos at home or r u out?

I have like 8 or so left of those and 25 of the new ones. Supposedly the new ones are more sensitive than wondfo's, so we shall see!

HM I just may have to order some of those lol . I said I'm going to try hard to wait til 12dpo to test this cycle but I already know ill test at 6dpo and every other day from there lol. IF I get a bfp, I want to know how soon I can get one. Knowing stuff like that interests my curious mind lol. I hope ur delivery guy/gal is on time!! I'm getting too anxious lol Have u tested with another wondfo today?

 

[Wishing1010]

No I didn't want to test this morning and see another line that may or may not be an evap. Kinda bummed about it all

 

[aidensmommy1]

No I didn't want to test this morning and see another line that may or may not be an evap. Kinda bummed about it all

its still early. Ive seen so many ppl get almost non existent bfps early on and then they either don't get darker or even don't show up at all for another 2 days or so. I am praying and I have the best feeling, I really really do. Part of my hope for u is bcuz I myself couldn't see color in all the stupid evaps mega had (hate evaps!!) but on yours, I could clearly see I very light *pink* line without even scrolling in and I usually have trouble seeing until scrolling in on light tests. I know how it is trying not to get ur hopes up so I'm just guna keep mine up for u! FX!