Sticking Together Until We All Get BFP's!!!!

[aidensmommy1]

Also, I went for my CD3 bloods yest and I should get a call with results on Monday! Fx! They just test the FSH and estrogen I believe on day 3 and the other 5-6 tests will be on my 7dpo tests. This month I'm not missing It no matter what! I want the doc to move onto my HSG already. I'm more than ready to know whether or not I have an open tube yet!!! This cycle couldn't go by ANY faster! FX for great news all around!

 

[cutieq]

Mary, your plans sound so amazing. I've had great results adding water to my regiment.

welcome & good luck babybagushski

 

[melewen]

Ladies, I'm on cd1 of cycle #6. I've been trying to really really pare down on the obsession (and the forums can definitely feed that!) but I'm feeling worried that we haven't gotten a bfp yet. You can see our bd patterns in my charts but I was wondering.. Is there anything you think we should be doing differently? We're going for a "high" score in FF this month but other than that?

How long did it take you to get a bfp? I don't have any conditions or imbalances as far as the doc knows so far, I have regular periods (within about 3 days each cycle - shorter in winter and longer in summer, weird huh?) and they're pretty painless. My cycles show I O so... What could it be?! So frustrated

 

[Querida87]

babybagushki - if you don't mind, I'm going to be calling you ski for ease (most people call me que) and that's how I was with my first. I knew I was and kept testing every day till I confirmed. FX your intuition is right.

Mary - love your kool aide recipe, hope it's a good one!!

Jess - I only asked because I worry that my lining might be too thin for a sticky bean coming straight off the mirena..

melewen - wen, has your SO's sperm been checked? The problem isn't always with the woman. Also, did you know most traditional lubes can inhibit sperm movement and that hot water can kill or weaken sperm and too much bd can send out immature sperm that can't fertilize while not enough bd can send out dead sperm? Have your man take zinc & ginseng and watch all factors for both of you. Also, are you taking prenatals? They won't make you get pregnant, but they'll get your body ready for pregnancy.

 

[melewen]

I take prenatals and he is taking fertilaid. Tbh he got a girl pregnant several years back so I feel like it's probably not him.. Leaving more of an exciting mystery! Lol. We use preseed only, for lube

 

[WunnaBubba2]

I'm sorry for af, Cheryl!!

I got pregnant on our 6th cycle. That was the first month that I started to use opks twice a day from cd 10 as to help me hit day before o and day of o. My intuition was to get spermies in on day before o as dh is 43 and I thought they would have the best chance. I started temping for the 1st time to confirm o

I took EPO tablets, Vitamin C tablets and cough syrup to aid my cm which I felt was never eggy enough.

I'm not sure if anything I took actually helped or if it was just our time.

This is your cycle nr 6 and I have everything crossed for you!

 

[cutieq]

No crosshairs for me today but I'm 99% sure I'm 3dpo

 

[Jsjskanamks]

Hoping I can still join in!!
I'm new here
TTC #1
6 months of trying so far
No BFP yet
Praying everymonth so far this month has been the craziest.

AF last on October 12
was in pain and uncomfortable so only BD 10/21, 10/25, 10/26
Went to dr had Yeast infection on meds from 10/17-11/2
BD on 11/1, 11/3, 11/6, 11/8, 11/9, 11/12
Which I know sucks but the YI messed us up this month
According to an app I use I was fertile 10/25-10/31. I know we only BD 2 times in that window but ya never know right?
I throught AF was due 11/10 (again according to my app)

Symtoms
Nauseous after eating specifically on 11/8 almost puked in restaurant
Extreme hunger
Headaches ( really bad on 11/13)
Tired

But every month I get "symptoms" because I feel I'm looking for them and this month since I got the YI I figured I wouldn't get anything this month and when the nausea started I started over analyzing all symtoms. Then the big one...

on 11/8 I was getting in the shower and noticed my nipples looked weird and when I was in the shower got a clear and white liquid come out that comes out a lot when squeezed. (sorry TMI)

So all this I'm on cycle day 36 no AF and no BFP.

Any advice?

 

[cutieq]

Js have you tested? Are you ever late?

Mel, most docs won't do anything extensive testing side until it's been a year. At least what my doc said. I did get my BFP the month of my high score in ff. Worth a try.

 

[rw7y]

Hi girls
Hope you don't mind if I join you.

I don't really know where I am in terms of DPO as I haven't been temping the past couple months, but AF is due in about 4 days.

I don't really know if I had AF last month of not. I had only one day of bleeding around that time and nothing else. I've been having light AF like cramping since then along with backaches.

I'm currently living in another country, so I thought it sounded like a nice idea to come connect with you all here.

Best wishes

 

[mdscpa]

Hi girls
Hope you don't mind if I join you.

I don't really know where I am in terms of DPO as I haven't been temping the past couple months, but AF is due in about 4 days.

I don't really know if I had AF last month of not. I had only one day of bleeding around that time and nothing else. I've been having light AF like cramping since then along with backaches.

I'm currently living in another country, so I thought it sounded like a nice idea to come connect with you all here.

Best wishes

Hello rw7y.. I think i know how to read your name Welcome to the group.

I'm also in Saudi, Jeddah but i'm originally from Philippines.

Anyways, have you tested yet?

 

[mdscpa]

Dani, i also believe you're 3dpo today....

FX for a sticky bean.....

 

[Wishing1010]

Mel, it took us over 4 years. No known issues, it will happen! I hope and pray its a very short wait for you!

 

[rw7y]

mdscpa,
I'm in Riyadh.
I haven't tested yet. I'll wait to see if AF shows up in a few days.

 

[mdscpa]

Please keep us posted when you finally test.... Have everything crossed for you....

 

[rw7y]

Thanks so so so much
I'll be sure to let ya know.

 

[aidensmommy1]

Thanks so so so much
I'll be sure to let ya know.

welcome to the group and good luck & lots of baby dust!!

 

[aidensmommy1]

No crosshairs for me today but I'm 99% sure I'm 3dpo

I'm guessing your 3dpo as well BUT just because I had issues with "fallback rises" in the past, id still make sure ur covered bding wise JUST incase . You'll only know if its correct when u see ur LP length but I'm praying you get a BFP first instead, a nice sticky BFP! FX FX FX! Good luck hun!

 

[babybagushski]

Ok so i tested again this am with a $store cheapie and BFN ... im 12dpo. Witch is due in 2 days so im hanging by a thread here.

Que i dont mind at all. And yes my intuition is saying "girl you got a bun in that oven" but my tests are laughing at me with all these bfns lol.

I did get a new symp i noticed this morning. My bbs slightly sore but blue veins galore. Im going to skip testing tom (if i can lol) and test again at 14dpo (af due)

to you all

 

[Jrepp]

Jess, how are you? Those temps still look great!

I'm doing good! Just waiting for Aunt Flow to arrive. The thing I've learned about my temps is they always look great but nothing comes of it.

My dr told me he didn't think I would need progesterone cream, but that was before I knew where I was in my cycle. Now I'm thinking I should get some JIC to help line my uterine. What do you think?

I would highly recommend against it if your doctor said no. Especially just coming off the birth control. Not only will it mess your hormones up and take your body longer to normalize, but it could throw off future testing. I would say let your body do what it is going to do without adding additional things to it.

So the Clearblue tests must of been accurate then if im having this now?

I would say that you are probably about 4dpo and could be experiencing the first stages of implantatin

nevermind Jess, I checked out your blog! Funny how we can be rational and happy about results when necessary. So hopeful for you for the future!

Thanks. I never thought I would be happy for a negative!

Ok, little bit of hope I had now lost. Boobs aren't sore at all anymore and when I wiped way up there, had a tiny bit of light pink... this is what happens a few days before AF arrives. F this, I'm having a cocktail.

To add insult to injury, I just noticed that FF changed the 18th (AF due) from pink to white, aka, testing day. F you, FFrenemy.

Ok, I feel a little better after ranting. Damn

I'm sorry June. I wish I could change it for you!

So ladies, this cycle I am adding extra water to my diet, which is much needed and can def help! I'm going to make sure I drink AT LEAST 32oz of water/day. I'm not a huge water drinker so I normally get 8oz a day if I'm lucky so hopefully this will make a big difference in my overall fertility. FX! Ive also been slacking on my fruit and veggies intake the past 3 cycles so I decided to kick this cycle off fresh and already started eating 8+ servings of fruits and veggies/day (esp green vegies!). I have a feeling that my cycle may be wonky partially due to the sudden diet change. So other than my long plan I shared with u all yest, I'm focusing on eating healthy again and less on TTC itself, although im doing all this for TTC anyhow lol. Hopefully it'll be win/win health and fertility wise . FX FX FX! I know with prayer along with all the things im doing & have been doing on my part for my tube, I have alot of faith that the prayers will be answered & we'll get our sticky bean naturally, no matter what the doc *THINKS* right now! I truly believe so.

I see many of you are in the TWW or just entering, good luck to all of you! I bet there will be lots of BFP's! TONS of luck and dust to each and every one of you! My TWW starts in 8-10 days. FX its an unforgettable tww!

It's funny that you mention eating more fruits and veggies. I literally posted on my blog about needing more food in my diet and streamlining the fruits and veggies by way of juicing

Ladies, I'm on cd1 of cycle #6. I've been trying to really really pare down on the obsession (and the forums can definitely feed that!) but I'm feeling worried that we haven't gotten a bfp yet. You can see our bd patterns in my charts but I was wondering.. Is there anything you think we should be doing differently? We're going for a "high" score in FF this month but other than that?

How long did it take you to get a bfp? I don't have any conditions or imbalances as far as the doc knows so far, I have regular periods (within about 3 days each cycle - shorter in winter and longer in summer, weird huh?) and they're pretty painless. My cycles show I O so... What could it be?! So frustrated

My first bfp came 3 months after we started trying, my second came 5 months after we started trying and my third came 7 months after starting to try, with nothing since. We are 18.5 months in with nothing for 11 months. I think the statistic is like 89% of couples conceive within a year. I know it's hard but try not to stress about it now as stress negatively impacts fertility.

Hoping I can still join in!!
I'm new here
TTC #1
6 months of trying so far
No BFP yet
Praying everymonth so far this month has been the craziest.

AF last on October 12
was in pain and uncomfortable so only BD 10/21, 10/25, 10/26
Went to dr had Yeast infection on meds from 10/17-11/2
BD on 11/1, 11/3, 11/6, 11/8, 11/9, 11/12
Which I know sucks but the YI messed us up this month
According to an app I use I was fertile 10/25-10/31. I know we only BD 2 times in that window but ya never know right?
I throught AF was due 11/10 (again according to my app)

Symtoms
Nauseous after eating specifically on 11/8 almost puked in restaurant
Extreme hunger
Headaches ( really bad on 11/13)
Tired

But every month I get "symptoms" because I feel I'm looking for them and this month since I got the YI I figured I wouldn't get anything this month and when the nausea started I started over analyzing all symtoms. Then the big one...

on 11/8 I was getting in the shower and noticed my nipples looked weird and when I was in the shower got a clear and white liquid come out that comes out a lot when squeezed. (sorry TMI)

So all this I'm on cycle day 36 no AF and no BFP.

Any advice?

Give it a week and if AF still hasn't arrived take another test. I don't quite know one way or another but it sounds promising

No crosshairs for me today but I'm 99% sure I'm 3dpo

I think you're 3dpo as well. I do see crosshairs though